posted November 02, 2010 09:16 PM         

I have:

Saturn at 9' Sag.
Juno at 16' Sag.
Uranus at 22' Sag.

He has:

Neptune at 16' Sag.

posted November 02, 2010 09:55 PM         

I'm sleepy - does that sentence look as questionable as I think it does? I mean, I can see how my own Neptune might lead me to see things that way - like my Neptune in the 2nd, trine MC and Jupiter, and inconjunct Saturn. My self-image was at least partially distorted for a long time, it might even still be, but I also appreciate small things in my life. For any crap, I always seem to be looking for it to disappear and be replaced by more of a Hallmark life, and in some ways it is.

I don't know if I'm making any sense. I can see how my neptune squaring someone's Venus, might have led me to focusing on his good points, rather than the negative ones... or my Neptune trine Midheaven leaving me convinced that, because I have such a great family, I would have been fine had I done this, this and that - discounting the fact that I could have made crappier decisions going down a more 'normal' road.

*edit. Oops. Not to take anything away from you! I just realized how that sounded. I'm sorry, I'm tired. You just used the word 'ideal' and it sent me down that road. His Neptune sees your Juno as perfect.