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Topic: WEIRD- dream/opportunity synchro!
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woah cakes
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posted November 03, 2010 10:25 PM
 
ahhh, this is the strangest thing. last night i had this AMAZING dream about a male friend of mine. i remember a ton of detail which i don't usually. i was living with him and he hit on me and he was sooooooooo lovely, kind, sweet and sensual, just his WAY of being with me. i totally swooned and fell for him. this dream is The Best I Have Ever Been Treated by a Man, by far. he was perfect, kind, confident, protective, just absolutely loving. also sexy as hell!okay but in real life i am not attracted to him. though he sorta seems like he's attracted to me. he's pretty subdued about it if he is, though, which is fortunate. however, in the dream, i totally fell in love with him. AND it's sorta making me question if i do/could have some feelings for him? cuz he is a super sweet, considerate guy. zero red flags with this guy at all.. i only met him maybe 6 months ago but we get along great. anyway, the weird thing about it is, i haven't talked to him in at least a month, and he wrote me today asking me if i'd like to move into his house! he has a 6 year old son who gets on splendidly with my 4 year old daughter and needs a roommate. i am stunned. i am finding it hard to think straight because of that dream!! haha, SO, i'm wondering if anyone could look at our synastry. i really doubt i'll actually fall in love with him (but, that dream WAS pretty dang convincing!) ), i mostly am just curious if we're roomie material. if anyone sees love in the air, though, let me know, cuz i'm not ENTIRELY opposed to the idea  (probably mostly cuz i decided last night i need a crush to get over this guy that is driving me nuts). eep! back in a min with the charts. IP: Logged |
britterfly
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posted November 03, 2010 10:46 PM
you should put both your charts up.  IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted November 03, 2010 10:48 PM
i can't remember his birthtime (i'm on the outside), so overlays won't work except for his to mine. i think it's within an hour or so of correct, though. edit hmm.. the synastry looks slightly boring to me? except that pesky venus conjunct pluto exact. that could be trouble! oh one cool thing is his moon is the exact same degree as my draco moon. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted November 03, 2010 10:53 PM
I wouldn't say the pluto conjunct venus is "boring". That is an intense and passionate sex aspect.IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted November 03, 2010 10:54 PM
sure, britterfly, why not?jeez, that dream was crazy. IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted November 03, 2010 10:56 PM
ahh, that's what i mean- TROUBLE!! IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted November 03, 2010 10:58 PM
Woah Cakes... put up the composite too  IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted November 03, 2010 11:07 PM
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woah cakes
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posted November 03, 2010 11:17 PM
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woah cakes
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posted November 03, 2010 11:29 PM
damn- our compo's bumming me out. that grand square (or is that a grand cross?) looks scary. i guess one saving grace is jupiter is conj my moon.. and sun conj my neptune is interesting at least. can a relationship (even a roomie one) survive this configuration? venus looks none too happy. waahh..
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PlutoSquared
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posted November 03, 2010 11:32 PM
The saturn squares are WIDE orbs, so they probably won't effect the relationship, too much...The Saturn square ascendant is one I need to think on... Otherwise, it's not TERRIBLE :P IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted November 03, 2010 11:34 PM
sob, yeah i'm not SURE of his birthtime though. i'll get that tomorrow. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted November 03, 2010 11:34 PM
Jupiter squares generally aren't bad... venus in 1st is a nice placement...IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted November 03, 2010 11:36 PM
Jupiter in 7th is ALSO a nice aspect.Double check the birthtime with him... you must have accuracy so we can pick these charts apart! :P IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted November 04, 2010 12:10 AM
yes i MUST get that time tomorrow!okay so wait!! if the saturn squares are wide, venus opp jupiter is actually positive, as well as jupiter square moon, then all i really have to worry about is venus square moon, right? or is that a bit reaching? hmm, i also noticed NN in the composite is exactly conj my MC. but what of that chiron at the SN (on my IC)? that looks like a sad party. or maybe a healing one? man, if that dream hadn't been SO seriously frickin amazing i wouldn't really be rootin for this at all. i never felt attracted to him before but now i keep gazing at his profile pics on facebook and i'm sorta kinda feeling something! have always been ambivalent about librans though. IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted November 04, 2010 12:28 AM
OH MA GOD..okay it's official. i'm DEFINITELY crushin, pluto. i just found his tagged photos (he only has three on his profile pics) and GOOD LORD he is gorgeous. his hair is longer and he's erecting a house in the woods with some friends and it is SO much like how he looked in my dream: not even funny. another weirda$$ thing is i always thought my future husband/soulmate would have his particular name when i was a kid (that's a long story) and it's fairly unusual. OH NO, pluto venus has been activated. save me now. also in his bio he says he's a romantic. sob. you better find something worthwhile in our synastry/composite, woman! okay well if you don't that's okay too. more than anything i think i needed a new crush to get over my ex.. so the universe gave me this wonderful dream.. that had better come true.  IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted November 04, 2010 12:29 AM
Yeah, the only serious square would be the saturn to venus and it's 9 degrees... so very wide.Why down on Librans? Aquas and Libras are good with each other IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted November 04, 2010 12:30 AM
Hahahaha. You're so funny I'd give him a chance. Change is good IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted November 04, 2010 12:36 AM
oh i know.. i really LIKE librans generally.. my romantic experience is limited. usually they're really into me but i find their indecisiveness and pleasing tendencies somewhat annoying, personally. but actually i think the dream might have helped me through some of that bias. in one part in particular he put his arm around me and said 'okay i'm taking you to dinner' and i was like 'oh, no, that's okay' and he sorta firmly guided me with his arm and insisted in this really sweet way and i thought, wow, it's not so bad being cared for. oh and our first kiss was amazing IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted November 04, 2010 01:18 AM
.. pluto, i'm getting freaked out. not 3 minutes after i posted on your virgo thread about my virgo lover, he wrote me on FB suggesting we start up our old thing. why is my life always this weird?IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted November 04, 2010 01:20 AM
You're a Sagittarius Ascendant girl... and an Aquarius sun... your life is DESTINED to be an adventure IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted November 04, 2010 01:25 AM
And if you want an accurate reading for the Libra, I need exact times for that composite... the houses will be completely off otherwise, and I won't be able to distinguish energies.EDIT: GET THE TIMES FOR THE VIRGO, TOO. Haha. IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted November 04, 2010 02:38 AM
Based on the numbers, your 5 lifepath and his 4 lifepath will achieve a meeting of the minds, and will be able to talk things through. It is said that 5 needs a lot of energy and 4, not a natural energy producer doesn't have the requisite amounts and may feel exhausted by 5s.However, your lifepath rulers are in the trine aspect in Aquarius & Libra so hurdles are easily cvercome through communication. Your pMoons are in a trine aspect so cohabitation shouldn't be a problem. The pSynastry doesn't show classic romance aspects, but there are strong sexual undertones. First an applying square between his pVenus @ 4 Sagittarius to your pMars @ 5 Pisces. Then, his pMars @ 17 Sacorpio to your nMoon @ 20 Taurus across the desire axis. Venus/Mars, IMO are always tense, but Venus can do battle with Mars. Moon/Mars, because of the "Malific" nature of Mars will get rough at some point. With Taurus/Scorpio involved, sexual jealously will likely be the battle ground. I see these two aspects playing out in a scenario where so long as both are single, if not involved and living together, things will be cool. But the instant one steps out, Mars will create drama. IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted November 04, 2010 03:41 AM
wha! how'd you do that with no birth data, nine? are we really 4 and 5? i was born on the 4th and he was born on the 18th..i'm wondering what you mean about 'stepping out'- you mean, going out with other people? our progressed charts are pretty interesting- thanks for drawing my attention to them. also, his pMoon is currently on my pSun. i know that will only be in effect for another couple of months or so, but it's interesting to note. they are also on my south node AND on the moon of this virgo guy who's just propositioned me. so maybe that indicates a potential source of the jealousy? well all i really know is that dream is making me feel things i likely NEVER would have had, and that if we DO enter into a relationship at some point it won't be for a loooong time because i wouldn't want to screw up our cohabitation arrangement. he has a really nice house, our kids are fantastic together (they're like the same kid in different bodies), and i've always wanted to live with another single parent that i get along with so well. so i can't take any chances with that, unless i'm absolutely sure, which'll take a while. kinda nice our pMoons will be forever trined thanks! IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted November 04, 2010 04:28 AM
just saw your edit, pluto. okay i can put up his chart but i'm fairly sure this will never go anywhere (beyond sex, if it does). my friend set us up after i broke up with my bf this spring cuz he is SUCH a weirdo like me and totally into astrology. i really didn't want to but i didn't think a fling would hurt and he was basically seducing me in a really cute dorky way when i met him, so i went with it. we had a pretty good thing but initially he was WAY too into me.. wanted to marry me and such within the first week.. anyway, then i sorta fell for him a little while later and he basically vascillated and was super back and forth with me and we stopped seeing eachother.. for about a month, and then started again but it was brief cuz he's so elusive half the time and i kinda got fedup with that. he said he missed me a lot, but then when we're together he's all over the place about his feelings. he misses me again now but i think we're both pretty aware that this probably won't go anywhere, even though we have this weirdly strong pull to eachother that doesn't seem to really go away. it probably won't work and it sort of annoys me, cuz things will seem to get really deep and then he'll analyze it to peices and keep changing his mind about how he feels (virgo + cancer rising?), so it's hard for me to even know how i myself feel with him. HOWEVER that said, we have a strong intuitive/psychic connection that i believe is his moon on my SN, and we had plenty of fun and couldn't stop talking. very cuddly and sweet too, together.heheh, sorry but his birthdata is also a rough estimate his mom said little after 1 am, so i made it 115. oh yeah and he's considerably younger than me.
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