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scrappydog
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posted November 05, 2010 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message
Most people post about your mars sign and your sexual style and while I know that your sign affects it, I'm more interested in the more significant influence of your major aspects to mars. So can people post their or their lovers mars sign and aspects and describe how it affects them?

Things i've noticed:

Mars in major aspect to the moon-very affectionate and protective lovers, emotional sex.

Mars in major aspect to venus-not sure in a woman's chart, but in a mans he makes a passionate and skilled lover if mars is stronger, if venus is stronger his style is too passive and lazy for my sexual tastes(venus can soften the martian sex impulse too much).

Mars in major aspect to saturn-great stamina! They can go and go and go, lol. They can also be too controlled during sex and if in a certain mood, a bit too cool, not always the most passionate, but still highly sexed and skilled.

Mars in major aspect to uranus-sudden excitability, sometimes likes it fast and lots of times does not want long, drawn out foreplay. Also gets aroused in strange circumstances. Sexual shocks.

Mars in major aspect to neptune-Lots of sexual fantasies, may like role playing or pornography, this can sometimes become deviant in sick people.

Mars in major aspect to pluto-passionate and intense! Great aspect for a lover to have if your into rougher sex or domination.

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Peri
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posted November 05, 2010 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message
I found this astro.blog where the author describes sexuality by signs through houses, seems pretty accurate to me, what do you think?
Does Mars describe sexuality better than 8th house sign or not or they both do + planets in the 8th?

http://astrofix.net/2010/01/22/aries-through-the-houses/

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letram
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posted November 05, 2010 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message
my mars is in virgo, i don't have any major aspects if you mean conjunctions and stuff.

but i could relate to the neptune/saturn stuff a LOT( i have 1 orb trine to neptune and 3 orb trine to saturn)

i think mars is as mall part of the picture..

for me im thinking of my moon and venus as much.

i think for women you could look at their mars and sun signs.

im thinking up a theory to look at the feminine planets in a mans chaart and masculine planets in womens charts because perhaps we use those planets to relate to the opposite sex more.

maybe the asc too, because i relate to the pluto contact and i only have a sextile to mars (2 orb, closer to 1 orb) But i have an exact square to my asc by pluto. and a trine to my asc from moon, and i could relate to the moon.

maybe its just the virgo similar to moon though i am not sure.

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NickiG
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posted November 05, 2010 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NickiG     Edit/Delete Message
oh how fun...

ok, i have mars in scorpio conjunct pluto sextile saturn, uranus, venus and neptune, and i have saturn, venus and neptune in the 8th house....

do i need to say more, lol

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posted November 05, 2010 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LadyAries*     Edit/Delete Message
"Mars in major aspect to pluto-passionate and intense! Great aspect for a lover to have if your into rougher sex or domination."

Mars in Aquarius square Pluto in Scorpio.
Fits me I think..

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electricmind
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posted November 05, 2010 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for electricmind     Edit/Delete Message
mars in scorpio conjunct saturn in the 10th house. square aquarius sun.

i am very sexual. and i just realized how repressed i have been. now that i am letting go, i realize that i am ALWAYS ready for sex. i can go for hours. and i enjoy deep emotional and spiritual/metaphysical sexual experiences...tantra etc.

i am very creative and can feel how that creative energy is the same as sexual energy. i am always creating and/or feeling sexually aroused.

ETA:i know someone with mars conjunct moon opposed uranus. and ur description fits him. he always gets aroused after he eats lol. he is VERY affectionate and loving. and his arousal hits like a lightening bolt...very suddenly and strong from the outset. he has great stamina too.

his mars is square a triple conjunction of his NN, ceres and juno!

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lechien
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posted November 05, 2010 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message
whoopie, my Leo Mars is sextile Pluto, square Uranus, trine Venus, trine Neptune and trine Moon! *edit* right, it's also in my 8th house.

i used to be almost addicted to sex and am open to all sorts of ideas and adventures! i've never said "no" to partners cuz i'm always ready, and have always been complimented afterward. i've been too stressed lately for it but seriously i believed the day i lose interest in sex is the day i die. but here i am, still hanging. things will catch up though.

my partner's Mars is in Scprpio, sextile Uranus and Moon. mmm, weird but sensitive?

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Cynnared
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posted November 05, 2010 07:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cynnared     Edit/Delete Message
I have Mars in Capricorn in the 8th house - involved in a T square with My Sun in Aries(11th) and Uranus in Libra (5th). Mars is Trine to my 12th house Saturn in Taurus.

Sexually I can go like a camel and not have sex for a while. My boyfriend thinks I'm some kind of nympho. He thought he lost his virginity before he met and but that has majorly changed for him and now he says I have sexually corrupted him - in a good way.

From what the grapevine has told me is that I am good in bed. I don't know what makes me good and I don't care really. Sadly, one of my exboyfriend's wanted to pimp me out for sex cause he thought he would become rich off of me.

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Nadiya368
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posted November 05, 2010 08:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nadiya368     Edit/Delete Message
I have mars opposite my uranus and neptune, which definitely plays out in my life.

I do fantasize a lot about sex and think about it. I used to be self conscious about the fact that I think about it more than the typical woman, but then I think about how often men think about sex and I don't feel too bad ; )

Uranus makes my actions towards sex pretty erratic and inconsistent. I'm very unexpected in a way, my sexuality is very unpredictable and a bit unique. I do however favor a little offbeat flavor as far as sex goes, something out of the ordinary.

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posted November 05, 2010 08:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message
quote:
Mars in major aspect to venus-not sure in a woman's chart, but in a mans he makes a passionate and skilled lover if mars is stronger, if venus is stronger his style is too passive and lazy for my sexual tastes(venus can soften the martian sex impulse too much).

I have Venus in Taurus trine Mars in Capricorn. I think this makes me love myself - quite literally. Self-love can be sexually attractive.

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Mars in major aspect to uranus-sudden excitability, sometimes likes it fast and lots of times does not want long, drawn out foreplay. Also gets aroused in strange circumstances. Sexual shocks.

I have Mars exactly parallel Uranus. That's kind of true about long foreplay.

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Mars in major aspect to neptune-Lots of sexual fantasies, may like role playing or pornography, this can sometimes become deviant in sick people.

I have Mars conjunct Neptune in Capricorn. Very VERY true - I have constant sexual fantasies. It makes me happy and gets me through the day. Love role playing. I find porn funny because it is so aimed at men (primarily visual input with zero psychological input) - so the story lines do nothing for me. I still watch though.

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Mars in major aspect to Pluto-passionate and intense! Great aspect for a lover to have if your into rougher sex or domination.

Mars (Capricorn) sextile Pluto (Scorpio) ---- Let me put it this way: A world without rough sex is a world I wouldn't want to live in.
With the right man - this is one of the few things that makes me extremely happy and completely relaxes me.
I am generally submissive but I don't mind switching (If it's a huge fantasy for him).

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Lioness
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posted November 05, 2010 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message
Funny I think all these Scorpio transits has everyone talking/thinking about sex more...

My Mars is in Leo

Mars sq Neptune
Mars sextile Jupiter
Mars quinx NN

For me I like all nighters, the longer the better, I do like the role playing and being in fanasty world.. Keeps me from getting bored.. I like it different.. Sometimes romantic, sometimes wild and aggressive.. Im sure you get the picture... There;s nothing wrong with playin a little dress up

Im not sure how Jupiter plays into it.. Maybe I like to learn more about it :P
Wait.... Actually I do like to write sex stories.. I have, but have done it privately. I havent shared my stories with anyone..

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posted November 05, 2010 11:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message
My Mars is trine Jupiter (mutual reception) and I am a LAZY lay.

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mochai
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posted November 05, 2010 11:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mochai     Edit/Delete Message
I have mars conjunct dsc sextile uranus and semisquare merc/neptune. For a long time i was very much aroused by emotional and verbal abuse.. not sure if that's related. I'm still very much turned on by pmsy men though I will leave them in a hearbeat.

Mars also square ceres and guys that do the laundry and cook on occassion -really- turn me on. It doesn't make sense, but there's something sexy about a guy that makes panini and omelettes. He also has to get me intellectually (mars in aqua) and be exceedingly detached (also psyche/eros aqua). I also don't like long foreplay or long sex, but like it somewhat frequently and randomly.

To bring past lives slightly into the equation, my north node is taurus and my husband actually killed me in my last life and was abusive on many levels.

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Ami Anne
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posted November 06, 2010 01:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message
I have Mars in the 9th house in Cancer. My most passionate drive is toward 9th house things.
I MUST find out why we are here, what is life/death/existence all about.
I have always been like this from the time I was a little girl.
I started reading Edgar Cayce books when I was young.
I love to travel in my mind but am afraid to travel ,in my body lol
I wonder if Cancer on the 9th house cusp makes me fearful of 9th house things like long distance travel?

Does anyone have any ideas? I would appreciate that.
I am thinking it makes me an arm chair traveler

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GrlyGirl20
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posted November 06, 2010 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl20     Edit/Delete Message
My Mars is in Cancer in the 1st, Conjunct my Asc, and Sun...Opp my Moon, Inconjunct both Uranus/Jupiter, and Trine Saturn.

I think the most prominent aspects to my Mars is the Conjunctions, and Inconjuncts...I will be honest I did used to sleep around a bit and never got emotionally attached during sex (despite my Cancer Mars) plus I like variety. I don't have a Mars/Pluto aspect but I am very much so into rough sex and being dominated. But as far as sharing or anything in the past I never had a problem with that. I kinda was about trying everything. Now I'm abstinant and not missing sex at all lol...I can switch it off like a light bulb.

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vertiver
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posted November 07, 2010 09:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message
Venus actually tends to decribe a female's sexuality or least the female who is attuned to her more feminine side, and who doesn't like sex?

Personally I've encountered many men who had Mars-Jupiter conjunctions, they really can go for hours, and yes they do tend to be well endowed


Mars-Neptune contacts in the natal chart are frequent to anyone born within the same month, so I don't believe that every person that has these planetary contacts are fond of sexual fantasy. I've got a Mars-Neptune square and I'm adverse to sexual fantasies and anything that diverts natural sexuality verses sexuality that is dramatized.

The sign on the 5th house can also help to describe ones sexuality as well. I have Taurus on the 5th, so Venus describes my sexuality more than Mars.

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cappy1277
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posted November 07, 2010 09:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message
Cyn- I have mars in cap in 8th house too but I'm a cap sun& it sextiles my venus...I can go long periods without sex but when I have someone that I'm in a relationship with- watch out! The hidden nympho in me comes out! Lol....mars in 8th house is a sexy placement. Do you ever feel like men just chase you to get in your pants?? Ughhh...such a turn off.

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posted November 07, 2010 10:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message
That makes sense Cappy, the 8th house is all amount intense sexual intimacy in relationships and Pluto ruling the 8th house, means Mars works as a extremist either going one way or the other.

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posted November 07, 2010 10:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariescancer     Edit/Delete Message
Mars in Aries conjuct Venus and Sun, trine Moon, oppose Neptune, and trine Pluto I love rough sex, very passionate and hot.

My parter has Mars in Aries sextile Moon, oppose Neptune and trine Pluto he also likes rough sex.

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cappy1277
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posted November 08, 2010 03:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message
Tell me about vertiver....lol. not to mention mars is exalted in cap. I have self control but know when to lose control...lol

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Ami Anne
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posted November 08, 2010 05:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message
Dear Mochai
When you said about the guy doing the laundry, it reminds me of my male friend(Libra Sun, Aqua ASC, Virgo Venus and Libra Mars)
It amazes me that when he comes over ,he will DO things in the kitchen like make himself a cup of coffee .
When my dog went to the bathroom on the floor, he went to get a paper towel and clean it.
I just stared in amazement

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