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From: brooklyn, ny usa
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posted November 10, 2010 04:10 PM         

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Where in the charts does it show if someone (me) just can't, won't or doesn't want to believe that someone could actually love them? I have this weird thing, where even if the person tells me they love me, I still don't believe it.

And regardless of what they may do, I write it off as "can't be love."

Or am I just weird?

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posted November 10, 2010 04:18 PM         

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Unastrologically, I believe it is damaging family patterns (alcoholism, verbal abuse, even just unhappy parents) that contribute to this kind of self-esteem problem.

In the natal chart:
-Saturn conjunctions to Venus, Moon, or Sun can make your feeling of free expression of your Self, love, or emotions feel very restricted and inhibited
-Saturn square Sun or ASC
-Saturn in 4th, 5th, or 7th house
-Saturn in Cancer (mucks with your ability to be nurtured)

Transit-wise:
-this current Venus Rx in Scorpio-Libra seems to be bringing up these kinds of issues for lots of people

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posted November 10, 2010 05:39 PM         

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I think it shows up where the natal chart is that of a woman.

Love is house 7/Libra/Venus. Therefore no love must be Aries, unless you assume lacking love can be house 6.

This can show as a refusal to have someone dependent on them, or to remain single.

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posted November 10, 2010 06:51 PM         

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my venus is in gemini.
I definitely want to be loved. just don't know how WORTHY or DESERVING I am of it. Or if people are being genuine.
Could it be my capricorn asc?

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posted November 10, 2010 08:25 PM         

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Hey someone else in denial today, or recognising denial, must be a transit thing - I shall have to look it up.

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