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esheep123
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posted November 10, 2010 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for esheep123     Edit/Delete Message
What would each sign do if a girl came onto him, and he just didn't like her? What would each astrological reaction be?

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britterfly
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posted November 10, 2010 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for britterfly     Edit/Delete Message
I think an Aquarius would be completely indifferent to the person, show no emotional reaction whatsoever, perhaps even avoid the person after a little while. We Aquarius, I think, try to get out of situations like that by "showing" complete and utter apathy.

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posted November 10, 2010 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Still_Hopeful     Edit/Delete Message
I am aqua sun, mars and moon aries, Scorpio ascending.
Instant first reaction would be shame in the next 5 min it would be "How dare he to reject me"
in 1 hour "Oh... well at least I try" and I would act like it is not a big deal and act somewhat indifferent

But it would take a lot for me to appoach a guy. May be bottle of nice red wine
and to be honest I did it ONLY once.

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britterfly
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posted November 10, 2010 07:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for britterfly     Edit/Delete Message
However, if the person hitting on us was a close friend, the Aquarius would probably use the above method combined with a kind and gentle "i love you, but not like THAT; let's just be friends" conversation.

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britterfly
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posted November 10, 2010 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for britterfly     Edit/Delete Message
From my experience, also, I think a PISCES would use complete avoidance altogether. They would hear you out and let you talk, but you won't be getting ANYTHING out of them at all.

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posted November 10, 2010 07:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for britterfly     Edit/Delete Message
And I think a Taurus would be a total A-hole to you, and leave you with absolutely no doubt that you are on his sh*tlist. Well, a taurus would tend to make you feel like crap any which way you spin it, no matter what tactic they use, even if they're being nice. Taureans are just direct and callous like that.

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posted November 10, 2010 07:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for britterfly     Edit/Delete Message
And I think a Leo would flirt back. That's what I've observed of Leos: they like to flirt. But boundaries would definitely be drawn. Confusing? Maybe! But always fun!

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posted November 10, 2010 07:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Still_Hopeful     Edit/Delete Message
Taurus really?
Not in my life time
They were awkward and hurt but not a A-Holes.

I think Mars Scorpio can not handle rejections whatsoever... and they are revengeful

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posted November 10, 2010 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coffee     Edit/Delete Message
An Aquarius riser like me would die of shock. Can't even get the escorts to come and chat me up.

All these women programmed into being what they are told to be. Almost as worse as men being weak by making the first move.

These men sure are desperate for sex!

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posted November 10, 2010 10:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message
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And I think a Taurus would be a total A-hole to you, and leave you with absolutely no doubt that you are on his sh*tlist.

Quoted for truth.

The Capricorn will mention within a few seconds that they're in a relationship. Or not looking for one right now. But, in my experience, won't be as nasty as a Taurus.

Virgo. This one is a little cryptic. Maybe a little passive-aggressive. Dropping hints, and cutting down communication.

The Libra would be firm but polite.

The Gemini, as said about the Leo would probably flirt back and confuse the heck outta you.

The Aqua, like the Gemini will be intrigued and move in closer out of curiosity. In the process confusing the heck out of you. This one can get a little nasty.

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Betty Boop
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posted November 10, 2010 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message
Edit - sorry for the huge space-less block.. I'm on my iPad. Typing on here can be annoying after a while. Like random letters get capitalized etc blehhhh lol


Aries would hook her up with one of his mates asap - possibly that very day.
Taurus would date her anyway - you never know! After all she made things easy for him. She's right there. She wants him. He got to do what he loves doing most: nothing at all. And he can continue doing that while she runs the show or until a more attractive woman comes along. -Yawn-
Gemini would be friendly, flirt and split as fast as possible.
Cancer would go hide in the toilets or try to play himself down in every way possible to put her off.
Leo would take her out to a nice dinner.. Buy her something pretty and never speak to her again.
Virgo would point out all the reasons why the two of them would not work. He would bring a pre-written list.
Libra would be pleasantly surprised that yet another woman likes him..He would convince her she's beautiful and there isn't a man in the room who wouldn't want to be with her ----- unfortunately he isn't single..
Scorpio would tell her he isn't interested and absolutely nothing extra.
Sagittarius would kick back a few more beers... Pretend she is someone he is attracted to and have sex with her, splitting the next morning if not earlier.
Capricorn would act neutral at first, then he'd do an in-depth background check and decide on the next course of action lol. Attraction or lack thereof will go straight out the door if she is well off, financially stable and socially acceptable. If she is not he'd completely ignore her.
Aquarius would be curious about her as he is about everyone.. So he would see her at least 3 times to find out absolutely everything he can about her. Then he'd get bored and she'd become a friend.
Pisces likes everyone - this question doesn't apply.
The Piscean swimming back and forth not knowing what they want has zero connection to what they feel. They like every woman just as much.


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posted November 10, 2010 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message
LOL... Hilarious!!

But one question are Leo's confusing?? If so why? Whats confusing..

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posted November 11, 2010 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message
Lol Lioness.. I think this is because Leos are generally warm hearted and not into hurting people.

Like the other fire signs they have strong ideas about moral and immoral behavior. These ideas are pretty traditional (not so for aries and sag). For instance, a Leo man might think he has a duty to put women and children first... To open doors, to pull out seats and to protect everyone who is seemingly weaker.

Harming a girl's ego by outright rejection is probably not his cup of tea.. But I can see how this behavior can lead to confusion. Because he might be nice out of courtesy, rather than attraction.

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Lucia23
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posted November 11, 2010 12:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Betty Boop, awesome!! So accurate.

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posted November 11, 2010 01:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
My personal response would depend on a lot of factors. I could really not be into a person whatsoever, but if they were to flirt playfully I might indulge in some harmless flirting myself, whereas if they were to seriously sit me down to tell me how into me they are, I'd just try to diplomatically get out of the situation. This is just one scenario. There are really so many considerations I would take into account.

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esheep123
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posted November 11, 2010 06:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for esheep123     Edit/Delete Message
That was really cute Betty Boop!

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Ami Anne
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posted November 11, 2010 07:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message
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Cancer would go hide in the toilets or try to play himself down in every way possible to put her off.

That is so funny. That is what I do--Cancer moon/mars.

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GypseeWind
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posted November 11, 2010 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
Capricorn would tell her right away he is taken (paraphrasing there)

I wish that is what my husband would of done. He is the biggest flirt on earth and nobody ever knew we were married because he refused to wear a ring.
He takes all flirting as an ego boost and therefore thinks it's awesome. Oh well.!

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NickiG
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posted November 11, 2010 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NickiG     Edit/Delete Message
lols, ami i can almost always tell its you when i dont look at exactly who had made a certain reply just because of that little laughing joker smilie

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esheep123
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posted November 13, 2010 06:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for esheep123     Edit/Delete Message
Any experiences with Scorpio? If he wasn't interested, but still flirted?

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britterfly
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posted November 13, 2010 07:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for britterfly     Edit/Delete Message
esheep,

sounds like a big jerk. he gets his ego massaged cus someone digs him (and scorps have epic sized egos) so he flirts back to encourage the continuation of the massage of his ego. biiiig jerk.

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Ami Anne
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posted November 13, 2010 08:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, Nicki

Various people get associated with icons LOL
I recycle my guys

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Ami Anne
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posted November 13, 2010 08:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message
Coffee
You are so cute

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posted November 13, 2010 10:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meta_4     Edit/Delete Message
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Like the other fire signs they have strong ideas about moral and immoral behavior. These ideas are pretty traditional (not so for aries and sag). For instance, a Leo man might think he has a duty to put women and children first... To open doors, to pull out seats and to protect everyone who is seemingly weaker.

Unfortunately this is accurate. I get in this jumble all the time. When I'm flirted with by a man I'm absolutely not interested in, I feel the obligation to flirt back. So I joke. Kid around. Nothing too serious. Or I just pretend I don't realize he's flirting with me, and ignore his little comments. It's rude not to, unless he takes it too far. Then you have to assert yourself. But otherwise... it's like, I realize how vulnerable coming out and telling someone you like them makes you. To shut them down harshly isn't right.

But then it makes people feel like they've been lead on. It's a lose-lose situation, lol!

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