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raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 1397
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted November 14, 2010 12:12 PM
 
If you have a conflicted Uranus in the 8th house, does it mean that you may get married, but you will never reach that full intimacy? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 2465
From: Orbiting despite myself
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 14, 2010 12:34 PM
Well,one thing that IQ told me was that ANY aspect can be overcome, if I have that right  What would it mean?
Well, Uranus in the 8th is kinky, I think lol
If it is conflicted, you would have to work through layers of "distortions" I see the problems in the chart as almost problems of thinking.
IOW,if you have Venus square Saturn, you may FEEL unlovable but this does not MEAN you are. That is what I mean by a distortion. So, with Uranus in the 8th (conflicted) you would prolly have distortions you would have to face so it would,hopefully, not be so distorted. ------------------
Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 3340
From: Bay Area, CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 14, 2010 01:54 PM
My ex husband had Uranus in the 8th and it squared his sun, mercury (ruler of his 7th), and Jupiter.
Our relationship was intense but he didn't know how to resolve issues which came up. He was an escapist and did not want to work on problems. He had Venus square Pluto as well and I think in combo with the nasty Uranus aspects, he wanted passion and intensity handed to him on a silver platter but did not know or bother learning how to use it in a positive way. He was addicted to intensity sexually and it replaced his addictions (substance) for a time. But when reality set in, he refused it.
His form of Uranus 'rebellion' included refusing to acknowledge that he was personally responsible for his own actions. He saw things in a very black or white way and liked to paint himself and others into a corner. IP: Logged |
Chryseis
Knowflake Posts: 126
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 14, 2010 03:30 PM
I have Uranus in Virgo/8th conjunct Sun, Pluto, Mercury, sextile Neptune in Scorpio/10th, and opposing Chiron/Saturn in Pisces/2nd.Initially, I think this would predispose me to not rely on established methods in anything. Maybe that's where the kinky thing relates to that. I find many people are bound to what others say something is or how it should be done - though I will consider and use generalised information/methods I guess I am inclined to experiment with alternative ideas. So I might advocate the accepted to watch its application and how it plays out. I don't really see that I do this sexually - but I might - I don't really think about it. I know I get irritated with stock standard responses to how people think others should respond. Sometimes I can seem totally fanatical to by the book - I think this is part of a process of elimination. If I don't know how to do something I will follow accepted traditions to the 't' but then modify based on outcomes. So its a real learning placement. I am open to improvements. It's also a high stress position too. I think its just another liege to my perfectionism, and pressure to get things right. So I use it as a tool to fine tune - but can maybe end up lacking in trust, at a stand still because I can see a problem from too many angles, and also maybe miss the common sense/emotional details as well. So by taking a radical stance I like to really look at what works and doesn't. Generally, I am a purist, perhaps, so instead of on a wide ecliptic to try and revolutionise and wipe off all tradition, I am on the wide ecliptic to question tradition - invariably though much eventually seems to come back to the annoying but apt 'keep it simple stupid' idea - and this usually is not off the wall but maybe just less burdened by the gross. I think it can be the sign of an alchemist which I would not say that I am at this stage... IP: Logged | |
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