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Topic: You Moon by sign and house: What makes you feel secure?
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Lara
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posted November 15, 2010 03:06 AM
  
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I am a very secure person, I belive in my self, maybe because I have the Moon trine Saturn, when I was young I was not that secure, maybe I started to really love my self
Agree ariescancer... l have moon cj saturn and am the same way. Lonake - l don't need a relationship to feel secure cos l also appreciate that security and all that jazz comes from within  IP: Logged |
meta_4
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posted November 15, 2010 04:10 AM
I don't need relationships to feel secure, Lonake!  I am really restless. And I can't be around the same people for long. Like, a few days at max. Then I need an escape. So traveling, literally, relaxes me. I drive around in my car for hours not knowing where I'm going, and not really caring about a destination either. Car, train, bus, walking. Planes are alright, but I don't like not being in control of my movement. Anywhere. It just rejuvenates me. And words. Words make me feel secure. I like letters, and long conversations. I like reading and poetry. Someone who I can share my words with makes me content. Knowing how people feel sets me at ease. Aqua Moon in the 3rd. IP: Logged |
letram
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posted November 15, 2010 05:19 AM
my moon rules my 12th? iv no idea what that means for security lol..i don't need relationship to feel secure within! i want one alot though, my lifes ambitions and goals are modest. IP: Logged |
lechien
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From: in a giant room with 2 little furry friends
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posted November 15, 2010 05:33 AM
i said earlier that i secretly want someone to pamper me but i refuse to, but deep down i think it's the need for family. i never had a real family environment and feel family = obligations, but on the other hand, i feel background-less. i think having a stable (and pampering) relationship is the step one to having a family. but i cannot imagine having kids at the moment. that's the 4th house Aries Moon for me.IP: Logged |
mir
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posted November 15, 2010 09:23 AM
Nothing makes me feel more insecure than to lay my death in the hands of God or societies system.This Scorp-Moon in the 3rd must be prepared to arrange her own humanitarian death, anytime.
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oceaneyes9
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From: missouri
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 15, 2010 09:45 AM
mir what else makes you feel secure? some ppl with that placement feel safer aloneIP: Logged |
mir
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posted November 15, 2010 11:55 AM
Yes, that's absolutely the case. It's what makes lasting (love-)relationships with others extremely difficult.
My pisces and I finally broke up because of the unimaginable space I needed.
Our struggle from the start; he could never see me enough, for me it was ALWAYS enough.
I've wished so many times that one day he could accept this space. Well, what makes me feel secure is the deep talk with my best old stellium in Cancer friend, 4 to 5 times a week. When I'm an emotional mess, if I need advice, in better times.. he's always there for me. It's me approaching him, always. IP: Logged |
mochai
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From: Charon
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 15, 2010 12:05 PM
Taurus moon in the 10th house. It used to be having lots of money, but knowing the meaning and purpose of life and that there is something out there has helped a lot. Knowing on a biological level that we are hardwired to perform best with love and compassion. Being in a position where I can care about others and knowing that I'm not alone in that makes me feel very secure. I'm also secure in knowing that I can eat. I seriously get euphoric about knowing I can eat a cookie whenever I want to. IP: Logged |
amowls*
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posted November 15, 2010 12:28 PM
Well, I am more emotionally fragile when out of a relationship and I need at least a crush in order to get out of bed in the morning. It's not that I feel that my self worth is threatened when I'm out of a relationship/don't like anyone, it's that I am just plain old depressed/bored. Similarly I get depressed if I'm not able to express myself (5th also rules self expression). Like I need a creative mode of expression. My Moon is also the ruler of my second house. Retail therapy helps when I'm depressed. IP: Logged |
VirgoPianist
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posted November 15, 2010 12:32 PM
My Taurus Moon is in the 4th House. I feel most relaxed at home and in other familiar surroundings (i.e. favorite bookstore). Being around loved ones also makes me happy.IP: Logged |
electricmind
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posted November 15, 2010 12:33 PM
@amowls*
[quote]Well, I am more emotionally fragile when out of a relationship and I need at least a crush in order to get out of bed in the morning. It's not that I feel that my self worth is threatened when I'm out of a relationship/don't like anyone, it's that I am just plain old depressed/bored. [\qoute]i though it was just me! it was so hard for me to get out of bed this morning and i was just depressed this weekend because my love interest is out of town. for some reason having a crush or an SO motivates me and makes it easier to do things that i want to do. I think it has to do with my moon ruling the 7th house and being in Aries. i must be able to communicate my thoughts. and only by talking or writing can i even know or feel what i feel. otherwise i'm just one ball of confusion. when i get all emotional and can't express it i get confused and discouraged. i guess that's aries moon in the 3rd house for ya. IP: Logged |
AbsintheDragonfly
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From: Gaia
Registered: Apr 2010
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posted November 15, 2010 12:41 PM
Another Taurus Moon here.Mine's conj. the MC in the 9th house. Cancer sits on the Cusp of my 11th house and in it resides Mr. Saturn. IP: Logged |
amowls*
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posted November 15, 2010 01:12 PM
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for some reason having a crush or an SO motivates me and makes it easier to do things that i want to do.
Same. I only go to class if there's cute boys ^_______^ But I have a Libra Moon. It IS opposite my 7th house ruler (Jupiter). IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 15, 2010 05:58 PM
I'm not sure what security might mean to different people. I'm reading security as safety. I feel the safest and happiest when I'm relaxing in the sand on a fairly empty beach or swimming in the sea. I really feel at home. The next place that makes me feel most at home - is the airport. It can be any airport. I love airports and traveling by plane. Interestingly I don't like traveling by boat as much.. Even though I love the sea.
My Moon is in Capricorn in the 7th. (AC in Cancer)
The ruler is Saturn in Sag - traveling connection?
(My 9th cusp is Aquarius - which is co-ruled by Saggy Uranus and Saggy Saturn)
My Neptune/Mars are conjunct in the 7th earlier in Capricorn.. Which could be why I love the sea so much. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
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posted November 15, 2010 11:25 PM
I guess an intimate relationship would make me feel very secure...if I could find one that was actually stable enough. IP: Logged |
aquarian/scorpio
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From: Middle Earth
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 16, 2010 04:45 AM
Moon in Scorpio, 7H.Finding someone trustworthy enough..and from there it should unfold.. Being around people who are not false, superficial, ignorant, inconsiderate................ makes me feel good. I also love to travel and find this as the ultimate getaway to recharge and is also a great outlet for me.
Ruler of the 7th in Sag in 8H. IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted November 16, 2010 05:24 AM
yeah i loooove travel too. i used to hitch a lot and there's nothing like that feeling of freedom. i've also moved a lot (to different cities).re "for some reason having a crush or an SO motivates me and makes it easier to do things that i want to do. I think it has to do with my moon ruling the 7th", [edit] it's interesting that i always seem to need a crush/obsession/relationship (but i can pretty much only handle one at a time, i mean, even in terms of crushes) and it makes me wonder about the projective nature of the 7th and how your moon must tie into that at a very deep level. also for me it's about a family thing more than about a relationship thing. i, too, lacked the security of a stable family growing up so i desire it intensely. IP: Logged |
Sunia
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Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 16, 2010 09:36 AM
Moon in Taurus in the 5th house.Animals/pets makes me feel secure. I really feel well around animals. ------------------
Sun Leo in 9th house;
ASC Scorpio;
Moon Taurus in 5th house;
Uranus Sagittarius in 1st house IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 16, 2010 08:36 PM
I have venus conjunct moon (2') in 7th house in libra.What makes me feel secure? An emotionally close, giving, compassionate relationship, where there isn't too much unneeded conflict.
I have Scorp in my 7th house too and pluto in my 8th house (in scorp) so I like intensity in emotions.
hahahaha. How typical aye.
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Alia
Knowflake Posts: 512
From: az
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 16, 2010 11:41 PM
Secure meaning what?
Emotionally?
Financially?
Existentially?I'm libra moon in 3h 1)I feel secure when I'm very desired by my man
2)I d feel secure w a room full of gold coins
3) I d feel secure if an angel descended right now in front of me and showed me the afterlife world
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popcorn
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posted November 17, 2010 03:17 AM
What feel me secure?1. Money make me safe and bring me an instinct for survival.
2. I feel me secure with people I know very well. I have my moon in gemini in house 11. I feel I expose my self and my whole inner sometimes. I cant bear any mask. I looks like an gemini moon totally. I sometimes feel me lika an clown who express my joking humor. I feel I get people around me to really be as they are. Maybee strange but I feel I sometimes break walls between people. My moon conj nessus conj p'fortuna conj lovejoy
square saturn
square merk/uran/kaali/pluto
sextile sun/AC
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Dionysian
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From: Earth
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 17, 2010 05:51 AM
Aquarius, 7th
don't understand the question thoughIP: Logged |
ariscopisgrl87
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posted November 17, 2010 05:55 AM
Moon: Scorpio
House: 8th
Security: Probably when I'm by myself for some reason...IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted November 17, 2010 11:42 AM
"don't understand the question though"Not me either. Diffuse question. Secure could include so much. As older I be and the more I learn and know the more unsure I be but.... the truth and everything have many sides . Now the life also make me secure to live on unsecure. I'm not an know-all woman and will never be. Yes I'm not secure in everything I want to do but I'm secure to ask about help if I must and need. As older I bee the more I be my self exact as I want. I feel me free to be my self every bit. I think the most of us people will be more secure in the life and in events as older we will be. The life and the year on the earth bring us wisdom and make us good to live in secure even if the life is full of unsecure.
My moon in house 11 is the most complex or complicated in my chart. I cant see noone have so strange connection to the moon as I've. I try to find out all the bad this aspect pattern should be. I'm 46 and cant see all the bad I read about but I really try  . But I feel and I really feel. I've the whole register of feelings and I'm secure to feel. Sometimes I say Gemini moon must be the worst place to have moon. Gemini do not want feel and in time I dont want it either.
My moon ruler merkur in Draconic conj my Moon/nessus/pfortuna/lovejoy.
also DR uran/kaali and pluto in conj to my N moon.
My DR moon/nessus/pfortuna/lovjoy conj my N saturn My N.N ruler is moon. My N.N trine my N saturn
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electricmind
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posted November 17, 2010 11:53 AM
@Dionysian
here are some possible definitions of secure
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–adjective
1. free from or not exposed to danger or harm; safe.
2. dependable; firm; not liable to fail, yield, become displaced, etc., as a support or a fastening: The building was secure, even in an earthquake.
3. affording safety, as a place: He needed a secure hideout.
4. in safe custody or keeping: Here in the vault the necklace was secure.
5. free from care; without anxiety: emotionally secure.
Moon in Aquarius in the 7th?
"I feel secure when I express myself uniquely and differently in relationships. I feel secure when I detached and aloof in relationships. I feel secure when I am free in relationships." IP: Logged |
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