posted November 16, 2010 02:09 PM         

Do you guy's think.. well I was reading that a Composite chart can be compared to a third parties birth chart, to see how the third party affects the relationship.

I tested this theory with a couple, and it turns out that my Sun is exactly on their Composite Venus.

Do you think this means I come in between their love? Or that I influence it in some way? Because I'm very much in the man's life...

posted November 16, 2010 02:16 PM         

I just would like to know what your intuition feels about a third parties birth chart being compared to a composite chart..

posted November 16, 2010 02:22 PM         

Haha.

Well they aren't really in a relationship, and I don't really want to destroy anything, but I did feel threatened by the other girl, but My Sun on their Composite Venus makes me feel like they don't have a chance.

posted November 16, 2010 02:37 PM         

I'm gonna check Angelina and Brad/Jen.

posted November 16, 2010 02:52 PM         

And this is not cynism, I am serious.

posted November 16, 2010 03:30 PM         

I just checked my effect on a relationship that I was "the other woman" in. My Neptune is on their composite Mercury, but that's generational so everyone around them has their Neptunes on their Mercury. I don't have their birth times so I can't tell you about what house that's in.

posted November 17, 2010 12:07 AM         

"Comparing the Composite Chart to Each Individual's Natal Chart

In my notes above, I mention that I look to see if the personal planets in a composite chart conjunct any of the personal planets or points in each individual's natal chart. If you are studying a relationship in-depth, you might also consider taking this concept further. The composite chart is a chart of the relationship itself, and reveals the specific dynamics of that relationship. As such, we can conceivably compare natal charts to the composite chart in order to see how the relationship itself impacts an individual, and vice versa. This individual can be either of the individuals involved in the relationship—but it can also be someone else altogether! For example, when analyzing family dynamics, it can be revealing not only to study the synastry between mother and child and between father and child. We can also compare the child's chart to the composite chart of the mother and father in order to see what kind of impact that relationship has on the child—and the child's impact on the relationship!

In these kinds of analyses, sometimes the symbolism is very literal. For example, parents of a friend of mine had divorced because her father had had an affair with another woman, whom he later married. My friend had birth data for both of her parents and the "other woman". The degree of the other woman's Sun was exactly conjunct the married couple's composite Sun. In this case, the other woman's birthday fell at the midpoint of the couple's birthdays, symbolically "coming between" the couple."

I had a situation that was 'kinda' similar to whats described above, except it didn't turn out that way. A long while ago, a mutual guy friend of ours was constantly going behind my back and telling my then boyfriend things about what I said, but he'd twist my words around and put words in my mouth, adding things I never said. My boyfriend was upset and he told me everything our so called 'friend' said. After we cleared things up we actually became even closer, and I also started ignoring the lying a** of a friend. Eventually I forgave him though, but he never stepped outta line again. Because of what he tried to do, I think a lot of our other friends didn't trust him after that as well, but he brought it on himself. His natal Merc & Venus conjs our composite Sun (and my natal Sun/Moon mp).

Another friend of mines, a female, her Moon conjuncts our composite Venus. She was the other couple we loved spending time with. She NEVER came between us though, not once. I'm still friends with her today.