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Topic: lilith in synastry
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cappy1277
Knowflake Posts: 281
From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted November 18, 2010 01:37 AM
 
The orb may be a little wide (4d both ways) but a woman's 12th house lilith conjunct a man's mars & man's 11th house lilith conjunct woman's venus....how do you think this would all play out? Technically lilith is conjunct the ascendent & jupiter in taurus. Cannot find a lot of information on this. But from what I am reading lilith can show where a woman could be there downfall for a man if he is not in touch with his anime(?). For the first meeting chart, transiting lilith was conjunct his venus....intense, obsessive relationship?IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 3444
From: Bay Area, CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 18, 2010 01:43 AM
Every time I think of Lilith in a relationship I see it as wanting to like throttle the other person lol
I don't see any form of 'sexual obsession' that I've read about...to me it's just been that the person or the situation makes me foam at the mouth and want to do Lilith things (the scorned woman stuff which includes ugly behavior)I think she's shown as the 'downfall' of the man because she won't be able to control herself in exposing his weakness. She will go in for blood, and it will be because she's feeling pushed to do so from a primordial place, and if it's his chart that's being set off then Lilith is where maybe he can't stand the thought of being attacked. I never know specific houses with this stuff. On his Mars, the way he does stuff and maybe his active sexual or otherwise anger can come off VERY appealing at first and then become a subject of disapproval. I dunno, sorry, it's just my two cents. None of the stuff I read about lilith makes sense on an actual applicable level and I've had to kinda make my own interpretations in the process lol IP: Logged |
cappy1277
Knowflake Posts: 281
From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted November 18, 2010 02:02 AM
Thanks MVM! That was a great & you made some valid points...but:What if his "downfall" is just what he needs from the woman to acknowledge something a lot deeper on a subconscious level that he would've kept repressed...like he needs this to evolve on a more spiritual plane? There are so many takes on this and it seems so complicated.....lol. I kinda see it as setting off a defense mechanism in the man since men are not attuned to lilith as some women are. For me personally, with the synastric aspects, I see how he acts towards me as other women have acted towards him...its like the roles have reversed and he's uncomfortable with it. Major "playa " who had serious jealousy issues with other women. Can't just attribute it to lilith but seems to fit. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 2652
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 18, 2010 07:50 AM
Wow MVM
I know I have strong Lilith in synastry but now I am afraid to look  ------------------
Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
kama
Knowflake Posts: 34
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Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 18, 2010 08:55 AM
hi cappy,
would you tell us which aspects you have with him and how you do interpret them?
And the aspects he has with you?
With my lover I have my pluto opposing his lilith exactly and my lilith squaring his sun conjunct SN (also exactly).
His lilith trines my saturn/neptune conjunction (also to the degree).
I am asking you because I should not know how to interpret that, but as the aspects are so close it should mean something....
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cappy1277
Knowflake Posts: 281
From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted November 18, 2010 10:17 AM
His lilith conjuncts my sun in the 9th house and my lilith conjuncts his mars in the 12th. Our lilith's trine each other. My lilith quincunx his moon and his lilith squares my jupiter. I guess you can say I have a strong lilith since it conjuncts my ascendant & jupiter. His lilith is part of a capricorn stellium in his 11th.IP: Logged |
staborgi
Knowflake Posts: 289
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted November 18, 2010 11:44 AM
http://sasstrology.com/2010/03/black-moon-lilith-in-synastry.html IP: Logged |
cappy1277
Knowflake Posts: 281
From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted November 18, 2010 03:57 PM
That sounds about right...especially the lilith quincunx moon. Sometimes I want him to not go to work just so we can stay in bed all day. Lol!!I wonder who's lilith is stronger? Mine or his? IP: Logged |
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