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From: a previous life
Registered: Apr 2009

posted November 18, 2010 06:53 AM         

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My husband (new as of this Saturday) has the split personality thing going on. I will talk to him on the phone, and by the time I get home, he is evil. Turns into another person who wont talk and has a hateful look on his face. How do I handle it?? How to I learn to let go of his good side-because I get let down when he turns evil. It really hurts my feelings sometimes and also can be quite draining. It happens about once a week, maybe twice.

What makes it worse is our composite asc is Cancer, and we do bounce off one anothers feelings. Sometimes since it hurts my feelings I will just pick at him to try to make him talk. I take it very personal, but he can be so rude. Like when he is being the evil twin he will not sit with us at the dinner table. He will sit somewhere else looking evil and wait for us to finish.

If anyone would like to give some advice, please share!
And what exactly makes my fellow knowflakes who are geminis just change so suddenly. Feelings aside it is quite fascinating.

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From: Planet Love
Registered: Oct 2010

posted November 18, 2010 08:37 AM         

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Theres nothing wrong with it it's just them expressing themselves from mood to mood. Doesn't mean they have gone evil. Just don't take offense to it because I'm sure he gets over it in minutes even of he is mad.

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From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009

posted November 18, 2010 08:24 PM         

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Explain to him how you feel. Communication is probably good.

I'm a Gem Rising and sometimes I can't help but be in a bad mood. I know this hurts my Cancer Sun boyfriend but when he tells me that I'm hurting his feelings, I try to curb it.

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From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009

posted November 19, 2010 02:21 AM         

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Let him have his moods. Maybe he needs a lot of alone time, and he feels that explaining this to you would cause drama. So, he just shuts down.

Perhaps you should have a lets-not-talk-to-each-other-the-first-hour-we-come-home agreement. This way the pressure to be "on" all the time will be off him.

Maybe it was my upbringing, but I'm always fascinated by people who are pleasant when they come home after work. My mom, a Gemini riser, was notoriously scary after work.

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