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posted November 18, 2010 03:38 PM         

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Hello all,
I used to be on here many moons ago. Anyways, I just started and recently ended things with a guy. I felt unusually drawn to him and for the first time pictured myself with him in the future (like having babies!). Perhaps it was because of the Venus Rx, but things just never took off. I still want to be around him though, and after looking at our synastry I guess I know why.. He just seemed like a broken soul, and I myself am a little broken as well, so I figured we would be good for one another. Is that the sun conjunct ascendant talking or what? lol

(I'm on the inside, he is on the outside)

We are so quiet around each other, but I thought that was just how he is. He would still hang out with me, but now wants to call it quits for the lack of spark.. The fire side of me told him to quit being so standoffish and maybe there would be some sparks So, do you think this can work out? Or is the Saturn, north node stuff too heavy?

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posted November 18, 2010 04:32 PM         

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Broken souls, huh? I don't think it's any coincidence that your chirons are both in Taurus.

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posted November 18, 2010 04:56 PM         

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I'd say it's more like your AC/MC conjunction.

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posted November 18, 2010 05:11 PM         

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Not only that your Mars is conjunct his IC and his Venus.

IC connections, tend to make us instantly feel like we have known this person for ages, but if he has issues with his past, etc.. Maybe he felt uncomfortable with the familarity that you felt towards him, plus your Venus is in his 6th house, which suggests that you would sacrifice a lot to please him, and he is the one with the Virgo ASC. so he should be the self-sacrificing one, hope that helps

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posted November 18, 2010 05:18 PM         

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Sorry I read the chart wrong, I meant he has Gemini ASC. Which means short attention span, lol!

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posted November 18, 2010 05:20 PM         

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What is the IC all about?

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posted November 18, 2010 05:28 PM         

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Vertiver, hehe Yes, he did have a short attention span, which was a little frustrating at times.. He does have major issues with relationships. His last relationship was almost 2 years ago with a woman whom he was engaged to. She left him right before the wedding for another woman, so I think he may have some trust issues.. I tried to tell him that, but he thought I was crazy. In his mind, all of the girls left him before a relationship could get started. So, he has just been a serial dater.
Do you think that his saturn-venus conjunction could also be why he pushes away those that want him? I just don't like the feeling of this being over, for the first time ever, I actually pictured a future with this guy.

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posted November 18, 2010 07:42 PM         

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Curbo-
Do you mean what is the IC all about in general?
The IC represents home and family life.

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posted November 19, 2010 12:12 AM         

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Well your Mars is activaing his Venus-Saturn conjunction, so it would make sense that his more detached side would be emphasized. I noticed that that Cancer is on the cusp of the 2nd house which represents values and the fact that his Moon is in the 5th would suggest that he values the conquest of a love affair but is conflicted with commiting because of his past relationships?

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posted November 19, 2010 11:08 PM         

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Thank you vertiver for your input.
So you think this guy likes a conquest? I also noticed that saturn and venus are sextile his ascendant that I am activating with my mars. So that could also be why he clams up around me.
It seems that the consensus think this is a one-way relationship, but doesnt this chart show marriage aspects? I would just really like to know how he feels about me, but with his Virgo sun, I dont think I will ever know. I think I am going to give it a couple of weeks to see if I still fell this way and ask him out just as friends. Any one else want to chime in if they think this is a good/bad idea?

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