posted November 19, 2010 07:10 PM         

In celebration, I'm turning it into a synastry game for my friends at Lindaland.

I'm posting all three of the synastries, their charts inside.

GUESS:

1) Which Aries ex am I still intensely, hopelessly, madly in love with? (And I took it hard when we ended it)

2) Which Aries ex did I have the crazy-hot sex with?

3) Which Aries ex was the most insanely jealous? (Nevermind, this is a trick question, they are all insanely jealous, they are Aries men)

4) Which Aries ex did I NEVER really feel that attracted to--we just dated briefly, and never had sex (and he took it hard when we ended it)?

5) What personality traits would you guess about each Aries man?

6) Which is the most technically good-looking? And which is the one I am most attracted to? (note: they are different)

posted November 19, 2010 07:36 PM         

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are u an aries? because this thread sure makes it sound like it.

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Huh? I don't see why this thread makes me sound particularly Martian. I have no Aries in my chart.

posted November 19, 2010 10:11 PM         

With Aries no. 3 I think it was long term but more like a friendship in the end, and kind of boring.

Best looking - The one with Taurus Venus.

The one you find most attractive - Aries no. 1

How did I go? Lol

posted November 19, 2010 11:48 PM         

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1) Which Aries ex am I still intensely, hopelessly, madly in love with? (And I took it hard when we ended it)

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Aries 3, maybe with your moons conjunct?

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2) Which Aries ex did I have the crazy-hot sex with?

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Aries 2, with the ASC. conjunction maybe?

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3) Which Aries ex was the most insanely jealous? (Nevermind, this is a trick question, they are all insanely jealous, they are Aries men)

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posted November 19, 2010 11:50 PM         

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1) Which Aries ex am I still intensely, hopelessly, madly in love with? (And I took it hard when we ended it)

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Aries 3, maybe with your moons conjunct?

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2) Which Aries ex did I have the crazy-hot sex with?

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Aries 2, with the ASC. conjunction maybe?

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3) Which Aries ex was the most insanely jealous? (Nevermind, this is a trick question, they are all insanely jealous, they are Aries men)

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posted November 20, 2010 12:18 AM         

But Aries 2 is probably physically attractive also. He has Venus and Mars both dignified. He is probably very fit - because he has a lot of energy to burn and sooooooo much fire in his chart lol

posted November 20, 2010 12:35 AM         

For Aries 3 - I thought - long term but more friendly than romantic, because this was my own experience with conjunct Moons.
You have perfect Moons for each other. Both conjunct Saturn. You are in perfect harmony emotionally. But it feels brotherly-sisterly almost.

posted November 20, 2010 12:50 AM         

Here are the answers:

1) The one I'm still in love with=ARIES 2. He left me and I've been grieving through this whole awful Venus Rx, and tonight I'm going to move on.

2) The crazy-hot sex=ARIES 2 (although there was lots of sparky chemistry early on with Aries 3, I'm just kind of over it now)

3) It IS a trick question--all three of these guys get jealous really easily. Even though I only ever gave Aries 3 a reason.

4) I never felt really attracted to=ARIES 1. I went out with him because he's so smart and interesting, but I never felt a real spark of lust or love.

5) Personality traits:
ALL THREE: Very competitive, like anything that's hard to get, good sense of humor

ARIES 1: Very intellectual. A weird combination of very high self-regard and very low self esteem. Sometimes he really bummed me out. He was always comparing his success level to other people's.

ARIES 2: Brilliant, adventurous, athletic. Loves traveling, extreme sports, mountain climbing. Has intense, sometimes rigid ideas about living by his principles. Passionate and romantic. His 12th house Moon-Neptune shows up after you get to know him better; at various times in his life he's drifted into 12th house escapism (drugs, music, movies, dark places.)

ARIES 3: Witty, activist. I knew him when we were teens, and he hasn't grown up, he's still into the same things. Very, very charming and charismatic.

6) ARIES 3 is the most technically good-looking, ARIES 2 the one I'm most attracted to. Of course that's all subjective, right now since I'm so hung up on Aries 2 I feel like he's the most beautiful guy who ever lived.

Betty Boop, you're right about #2 being too fiery for me...although HE ended things. It was a complicated ending though, a little bit mutual. He has no water though, other than Scorpio Saturn, which, ew. Interestingly, the ex of his he was most in love with is a Cancer. I think it's because Cancer (and Leo, depending on your house system) planets fall into his 7th house.

And you're right about #1 being difficult and likely to be single for a long time...it's part of why I ended things so quickly, without anything ever happening between us physically--because he had issues! So you're very half-right. I'm not at all drawn to men who would make me see a child in need of protection...that's why I'm still in love with #2, he is very much a MAN. I have an uncomfortable relationship with the Cancer in my chart, my taste in men is more Leonine. I like the man to inspire me and impress me.