posted November 21, 2010 01:04 PM            

I've been obsessing for something similar!
But I think that's what makes me learn Astrology and try to unravel the mysteries.

Our charts have a lot in common!
You have some good synastry there too!
It seems to me that the reason you'r obsessing over is due to he's Pluto opposite your Venus, I have this nataly and in synastry with someone! (Yiakes)

I had Ascendant conjunct someone's Pluto and the Pluto person always has the upper hand and seemed to influence my moods for good or bad! I don't like at all someone having that power over me...

Maybe he likes to be the one in control, so maybe it's wise to wait and see. And let him be the one giving the 1st step?

Like I told you, I have good synastry with someone and I've got indication that it's on a very karmic level!

When people sense a lot of intensity coming from a relationship sometimes they drop away for fear to open the Pandora box...

Sorry, not to be of more help but I'm still learning myself. It's just that I'm familiar with that configuration I've mentioned!

I wish you good luck!

posted November 22, 2010 06:28 AM            

1. Start talking about whether you prefer getting up early or staying up late, and then say something like: "Hey, I have this theory that people born in the morning tend to be 'morning people' and people born at night tend to be night owls. Do you know what time you were born?"

2. After they tell you their birthday, say "Wow, you were born on the exact same day as my (friend/neighbor/relative/etc.). What time?"

posted November 24, 2010 05:43 AM            

I suggest you break up your paragraphs into shorter ones. If you want to become a successful online publisher, then you must make your articles easy to read especially for people with very short attention span. Lots of white space...shorter sentences... and paragraphs of no more than 5 lines.

posted November 24, 2010 05:33 PM            

keep astrology for other discoveries so you experience this relationship 'potentially romantically) first hand.

but from an astro perspective, I think it is very interesting (I don't want to comment more for the reasons above)

I don't know if it's applicable since personally, I would find this advice very difficult to follow.

posted November 27, 2010 02:49 AM            

I also notice Jupiter conjunctions often bring with them that kind of neat, "lucky" coincidence of having unexpected connections.

Your Suns fall in each other's 7th house--you have that nice Sun-ASC conjunction, and Mars-Venus adds lots of sexual attraction. Looks like love potential to me.

In my opinion, though, each natal is much more important than synastry...and I have also developed the non-astrological opinion that, no matter what the synastry, obsessing on an astrological website about a relationship before it even has a chance to begin can really harm the quality of the energy someone puts out, changing it from "sexy love interest" to "shy, overexcited, desperate groupie." After spending six hours obsessively checking to see whether the draco asteroid Help-I-Desperately-Wish-I-Was-In-A-Relationship is conjunct his draco antiVertex, when you see him, your heart can get all frozen up, like you're a kid running into your favorite movie star.

Also you end up diverting the sexual energy into abstract obsession.

I can't see in your natal why you're doing that (is it Pluto?)--but stop. Stop looking at this one astrologically, and focus on being open-hearted, open-minded, and laid-back. Ban yourself from ANY online activities such as googling him, FaceBook or other social networking,obsessing about him in emails to friends, and looking at the charts. You can allow yourself to return to looking at the whole thing astrologically after the first time the two of you have made love.

The only way you can start reading him right is by chilling out and opening your heart when you're around him. Don't forget the little things--eye contact, touching his arm, smiling at him.