posted December 14, 2010 02:07 PM            

I had a tight grand cross with Moon, Pluto, Venus and some (doozy) asteroids with my ex. The Moon was extremely stressed.

That relationship was/is intense, at times obsessive, and just really hard to walk away from. Attraction elements (physical, emotional, mental) were through the roof but it's like we had all this energy between us and STILL couldn't get it together. We had either the best communication in the world or the worst--no in between. In fact, it was impossible to be "in between" or "neutral" towards each other in the relationship. Action was demanded, it was either 100% all or we had to be in no contact.

Venus was in Capricorn, Moon in Aries, Pluto (conjunct Dejanira) in Libra, and Nessus in Cancer. So it was a Cardinal Grand Cross with really intense planets/asteroids and a Nessus/Dejanira square to boot!

It wasn't abusive, just codependent.

Basically, a lot of "tension" that is hard to resolve. The energy is "bound" up in the cross. But if you do resolve it, it will lead to massive personal growth.

That's where we are now.

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