posted December 09, 2010 04:49 PM            

Maybe you can answer this for me blu, or anyone...what are the most common aspects in synastry? The definite aspects that can prove, disprove, or come close in a twin flame, or twin soul relationship? How about aspects in a 'soul family'? I ask this because, not only do my bf(love of my life), have the classic signs of twin flames reuniting, but I sense strong connections amongst our collective group...I am seeing some pretty strong connections in planetary and asteroid aspects amongst several of us...Any info, or experiences you can share will be helpful. Thank you, and have a blessed day..

posted December 10, 2010 02:59 AM            

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Originally posted by blugrey:
Hmm.. it's weird that you say that because we fight so much. Probably more than anyone else besides my dad (They both have stelliums in Leo and cancer Venus ironically). They way he lives his life makes me not able to respect him at all.

I'm just wondering if maybe the good aspects to their squares cannot be helped even if they have other good aspects to them.

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What a Leo Stellium w/a Cancer venus fight and argue... Ill never believe it.... lol

Im curious how does he live his life?

posted December 11, 2010 08:18 AM            

Chiron is a very powerful planet. It is unknown ,in many ways, compared to the other planets.

It can make for a powerfully good relationship or a powerfully bad one,I think.

It will be a powerful relationship ,one way or another with that aspect.

Chiron is like a bleeding wound.It forever bleeds, never heals.
The Chiron person goes to the planet/Asc person as this wound and as a healer,also.

Chiron remains wounded but can heal others through his wounds.

So, Chiron gives his powerful energy to the ASC person.

The ASC may give himself,his strengths or his own uniqueness to the Chiron person.

An alchemy will develop.What will happen?
I don't know but would be interested in hearing

posted December 11, 2010 08:18 AM            

Chiron is a very powerful planet. It is unknown ,in many ways, compared to the other planets.

It can make for a powerfully good relationship or a powerfully bad one,I think.

It will be a powerful relationship ,one way or another with that aspect.

Chiron is like a bleeding wound.It forever bleeds, never heals.
The Chiron person goes to the planet/Asc person as this wound and as a healer,also.

Chiron remains wounded but can heal others through his wounds.

So, Chiron gives his powerful energy to the ASC person.

The ASC may give himself,his strengths or his own uniqueness to the Chiron person.

An alchemy will develop.What will happen?
I don't know but would be interested in hearing

posted December 11, 2010 10:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
In synastry, Chiron conjunct the ASC would be POWERFUL, I think.

Chiron is a very powerful planet. It is unknown ,in many ways, compared to the other planets.

It can make for a powerfully good relationship or a powerfully bad one,I think.

It will be a powerful relationship ,one way or another with that aspect.

Chiron is like a bleeding wound.It forever bleeds, never heals.
The Chiron person goes to the planet/Asc person as this wound and as a healer,also.

Chiron remains wounded but can heal others through his wounds.

So, Chiron gives his powerful energy to the ASC person.

The ASC may give himself,his strengths or his own uniqueness to the Chiron person.

An alchemy will develop.What will happen?
I don't know but would be interested in hearing

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Ami I have kinda of a different perspective on Chiron conjunct the Asc... Not saying yours isnt accurate.. Every relationship is different..

My ex husbands chiron conjuncts my Asc... First I didnt like him AT ALL... Then I got hurt by gem, my ex husband was there to pick up the pieces.. ONLY he saw me as a lost soul.. He thought he could/ and DID be my savior. He did help me, but not at the level he believes... He felt that I would have hit rock bottom w/o him.. He would always tell me, where do you think you would be w/o me... My response was, the same place I am at now.. I took care of my self before you, during you and after you.. Only he see's it as he saved me... Weird..

He dedicate the song Kryptonite... This song really really explains the way he saw things.... He told me over and over.. Here are a few of the lyric's.

If I go crazy then will you still
Call me Superman
If I'm alive and well, will you be
There holding my hand
I'll keep you by my side with
My superhuman might
Kryptonite

posted December 14, 2010 01:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Lioness
There is not much written about Chiron in synastry.
People have to draw their own conclusions cuz of that.
Yours sounds like a deeply intimate and deeply transforming relationship.He, the Chiron came to heal you.
That would be Chiron,Lioness

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He did in a way help me get over it... But not at the level he believes.... He saw me as a lost soul, but hey that could be neptune, messing with him...

I dont really feel changed by him... I guess in a way I did learn some lessons.. but IDK Im still the same person..

I dont feel hurt or anything, by him.. I just feel done.... time to move on.

posted December 14, 2010 01:52 AM            

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Originally posted by blugrey:
I'm the 21 st and he's the 26.

But omg hahahaha, I guess that should come without asking. To be honest I usually do not get along with Leos, though the women are usually better than the men. Probably because I see the same traits in them as my father who I do not get along easily with. Again, Leo stellium and Cancer placements!

Anyway this guy is a friend of my friend who I constantly have to deal with. The reason I cannot respect him is that he's ten years older than me (he's 31), still lives at home simply out of pure laziness, he got kicked out basically because his parents got mad at him, so he finally got a job and then when my friend wanted to stop by his work all he did at work was goof off. But! His parents are very rich and all his clothes are designer and crap and he goes out to party like every single day. Then he talks trash like he is gods gift to women and that he could have sex with anyone he wanted. Insert my eyeroll here. Lol but! Even though he says that I told him to prove it. But whenever a girl made an advance on him he always rejected them immediately which makes him look dumb and he just seems so fake. Then when I got drunk I put my hands on his cheeks and mockingly went like "oh you are sooooo cute" and he like completely froze up and looked crazy nervous, which again makes me think he all games and is just puffing up his own ego when he really is just a loser who can't get girls. Finally, my frend went with him to a bar, she was my roommate at the time, and then brought him home when he was drunk and he was all just being an ass and then he tried to make a pass at her which again really ****** me off and i had to take care of him and drive him home again very annoying. Basically I felt more mature than someone 10 years older than me. Lame, really lame! He is just super irresponsible if you can see what I mean.

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Ohh Im sorry I just seen this.. Yes he sounds very inmature..

I have a Leo Stellium with a Venus in Cancer, and that's the total opposite of me..

posted December 14, 2010 11:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I think Chiron in synastry will effect you deeply in SOME way.
It seems like your guy did effect you in a big way.
Do you agree?

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