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Topic: A question for the MEN on LL...
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roadwarriorsdp
Newflake Posts: 22
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posted December 14, 2010 01:48 PM
  
Maybe lilith is the "***** " archtpe projected by men, and the "******* " archtype projected by women, but the part of that archtype which is bonded to sexual attraction...Not love hate here, more like syncronistic massicistic trysting in a parisian modern romantic sense.IP: Logged |
roadwarriorsdp
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posted December 14, 2010 01:51 PM
I say that because the men that have responded, including myself, generally have each assumed a different thing about all women, more or less, involving the house and sign lilith is in...For instance, my lilith is in ariesso I said that women who are aries are trying to be vengeful unmerciful towards me, but there is strong sexual friction, etc. etc. etc....and lilith for me is in the 11th house in aries.... Someone with lilith in capricorn in the 5th said he knows all the games women play and they all bore him, etc.....more practical generalization abou tthe creative nature in male female interaction....etc. etc. IP: Logged |
roadwarriorsdp
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posted December 14, 2010 01:54 PM
So essentialy lilith is the reflection of the female shadow, not the female shadow itself or the anima, for males....I feel this may be right? The reason it's not the shadow is because that's pluto mixed with venus, a dominant archtype. I think Lilith represents a fractal of this archtype which has been around since time memorial....She represents the part of you that is repressed after you have uncovered repressed material, but that part which cannot ever be assimilated....the reflection of a female shadow. IP: Logged |
BanxManx
Knowflake Posts: 229
From: Venus
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 14, 2010 02:09 PM
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Originally posted by raspberri:
Lilith in Capricorn can do that.
Can you elaborate Raspberri and Mochai? IP: Logged |
BanxManx
Knowflake Posts: 229
From: Venus
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 14, 2010 02:11 PM
quote:
Originally posted by roadwarriorsdp:
So essentialy lilith is the reflection of the female shadow, not the female shadow itself or the anima, for males....I feel this may be right? The reason it's not the shadow is because that's pluto mixed with venus, a dominant archtype. I think Lilith represents a fractal of this archtype which has been around since time memorial....She represents the part of you that is repressed after you have uncovered repressed material, but that part which cannot ever be assimilated....the reflection of a female shadow.
So why am I not seeing the woman's shadow? Why can I see her for what she is without any hostility? IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1047
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 14, 2010 02:28 PM
Ok.. I think Im getting a different perspective of lilith. The impression I am getting on mens lilith placement is the type of women he unconsciously fears. Even though strongly sexually attracted, maybe he feels lilith would over power him.. So in return he rejects lilith? What do you think..
@banx
I wonder... Do you somehow feel that strong women, will over power you? (these are questions)
In return you see all women (5th house romance)as playing games... Deep down inside maybe you are afraid of the games.. So in return you rejected it.. You fight it in every way possible? Your afraid of loosing control?
I was thinking about my own Lilith.. I have Lilith in Scorpio in my 8th..
When I met Scoprio men, I can only be friends with them.. I just dont really find them all that.. Even though Leo/Scoprio is suppose to be a strong attraction. I did met one Scorpio, that I did date a bit.. But we had 8th to 5th Synastry. So it was inevitable.. lol
He had a Scoprio Stellium in my 8th.. First I had serious doubts about him.. Feeling he was up to something.. Honestly I didnt find him sexual enough,and I got bored really quick.. (I know its funny..lol) I wanted a lot more from him sexually, but just didnt seem to like he wanted to do other things.. So I got bored.. There was nothing wrong with the intimacy, I just wanted more than lets say the norm.  Add.. I do want to say, that I did really really like talking to him.. We had really nice and deep conversations.. I really connected with him on a mental level.. IP: Logged |
BanxManx
Knowflake Posts: 229
From: Venus
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 14, 2010 03:08 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
Ok.. I think Im getting a different perspective of lilith. The impression I am getting on mens lilith placement is the type of women he unconsciously fears. Even though strongly sexually attracted, maybe he feels lilith would over power him.. So in return he rejects lilith? What do you think..
@banx
I wonder... Do you somehow feel that strong women, will over power you? (these are questions)
In return you see all women (5th house romance)as playing games... Deep down inside maybe you are afraid of the games.. So in return you rejected it.. You fight it in every way possible? Your afraid of loosing control?
I was thinking about my own Lilith.. I have Lilith in Scorpio in my 8th..
When I met Scoprio men, I can only be friends with them.. I just dont really find them all that.. Even though Leo/Scoprio is suppose to be a strong attraction. I did met one Scorpio, that I did date a bit.. But we had 8th to 5th Synastry. So it was inevitable.. lol
He had a Scoprio Stellium in my 8th.. First I had serious doubts about him.. Feeling he was up to something.. Honestly I didnt find him sexual enough,and I got bored really quick.. (I know its funny..lol) I wanted a lot more from him sexually, but just didnt seem to like he wanted to do other things.. So I got bored.. There was nothing wrong with the intimacy, I just wanted more than lets say the norm. Add.. I do want to say, that I did really really like talking to him.. We had really nice and deep conversations.. I really connected with him on a mental level..
No, you are misunderstanding me. I play along with these games. I have never met a woman that I was afraid of. IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1047
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posted December 14, 2010 03:17 PM
I dont mean your afraid of her in general.. I feel subconsciously you afraid of loosing control, by the hands of a woman.. I think it may deep inside of you, maybe you dont even realize it.. You want to control the situation? Your thinking about all women are playing games, that they are maybe up to something.. Maybe trying to trap you somehow? Is there women like this.. yes.. there is also men like this... But not ever women is like this...
you have to get to know someone, to know what type of person they truly are..
It takes effort.. from both people.. One person wont show their real self, if they feel the other person is up to something... Or if there is no trust... IP: Logged |
BanxManx
Knowflake Posts: 229
From: Venus
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 14, 2010 03:22 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I dont mean your afraid of her in general.. I feel subconsciously you afraid of loosing control, by the hands of a woman.. I think it may deep inside of you, maybe you dont even realize it.. You want to control the situation? Your thinking about all women are playing games, that they are maybe up to something.. Maybe trying to trap you somehow? Is there women like this.. yes.. there is also men like this... But not ever women is like this...
you have to get to know someone, to know what type of person they truly are..
It takes effort.. from both people.. One person wont show their real self, if they feel the other person is up to something... Or if there is no trust...
yeah, I understand that not every woman plays a game. IP: Logged |
mochai
Knowflake Posts: 130
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 14, 2010 03:24 PM
I don't know about lilith. I never got the archetype. I was just saying Banx you seem like the kind of guy who would be that way. Besides, you've got healer written all over your chart. I also wrote about the whole shocking people thing btw banx, but I got carried away on kundalini stuff. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
Newflake Posts: 20
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 14, 2010 05:06 PM
My Lilith is 16* Cancer in my 11th house. Squares my moon and Pluto in Libra. Never dated a Cancer woman and none I have met have the ability to drive me over the edge.------------------
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
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