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Topic: "soulmates" in Astrology
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lunatic
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posted December 15, 2010 11:48 PM
  
Since in here, we are all people with some spirituality and we pay attention to the energies, i guess you'll have the chance to realise when the most important person for you, will hit your door. I don't think though, it's certain to last forever.. You must always work it.IP: Logged |
blonderiverkat
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posted December 16, 2010 12:02 AM
I started to read this thread and had to step in with my own 2 cents...I understand exactly what raspberri is saying about loving yourself. We all have faults, no one is perfect...but you must learn to love yourself before ANY relationship, loving all faults too...Not saying that some faults shouldn't be changed, or curbed, because that is why we are here...to fix our faults, so that we can eliminate that Karma. Love yourself with all of your faults and imperfections...only then will you reunite with your 'other half', no matter where they are. How can you love only one half of yourself?
Anybody can say you are their 'soulmate', it's a term used quite loosely actually, and I have been guilty of it myself in the past...that was before I started to learn to love myself, being okay with being 'alone', and waking up to the truths of the universe.
Twin flames have often times already moved on, or are perhaps married, or live on the other side of the world...I can see how rare it could be, or could have been. In these changing times however, more and more 'twins' are being reunited, because of the Great Awakening that our world is experiencing. It is all part of the plan, that souls would come back to reunite during these times. You must however, be on a spiritual path of some sort...it will not just be all fun and games with a 'twin', it is a very spiritual relationship...you come together with various lifetimes, of different experiences, to create a 'team'...a team that will help to find answers, teach, heal, guide, etc. I just felt compelled to get that out....   Kat IP: Logged |
lunatic
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posted December 16, 2010 12:20 AM
Thanks blonderiverkat 
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blugrey
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posted December 16, 2010 12:33 AM
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ekf
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posted December 16, 2010 01:43 AM
i'm going to toss in my two cents as I've had the "pleasure" of experiencing soulmates and self love this year.i believe where the confusion comes in is in a very romantic view of soulmates as "the one" or the kind of love you see in the movies. my understanding of the soulmates is that really soulmates are the other souls that your soul has made a contract with in this incarnation. but some of those souls are here to kick your ass depending on what lessons you are to learn, what your path is, and what the karma is between the two of you. often even painful soulmates are sent to you through romantic attraction as this is the universe's way of getting your attention. if someone offered you the possibility of fixing a bunch of outstanding issues but that it was going to require a great deal of emotional pain to clear it out, doubt many of us would pay attention. my soulmate experience this year (there was more than one actually) had the self love lesson attached to it. the patterns that he brought out were the fact that I have spent most of my life seeking love in others to compensate for the fact that i didn't love myself....but if they could just love me then it was a validation. what the whole process has taught me is first acceptance of who i am - warts and all - which means forgiving what i think i may have done and what i do and understanding that if god and the universe made me this way, then I am perfect exactly how I am. Once you have these "policies" set up and you can extend them to other people it was amazing how quickly people responded to me differently. a short post to try to effectively cover what has been the 3 hardest years of my life!!
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mochai
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From: Charon
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 16, 2010 10:36 AM
Just adding some random stuff, romantic soulmates can be abusive, and meeting soulmates can be terrifying from personal experience. There's a reason the term runner soulmate exists.I also have this guy that I supposedly don't have past lives with but has a high probability of being a twin soul/twin flame. My angel/juno conjuncts his sun exact, his asc/dsc is 12 minutes off my ic/mc and his draco asc and angel conj my trop moon, his angel conj my ic and exact conj my vesta/tantric stellium. His moon is exact conj my sun.. his psyche conj my eros and his eros conj my dsc, his valentine trine psyche/kaali, my valentine sq his psyche, draco sun conj spirit/pholus, spirit trine amour, spirit conj angel etc. Crazy synastry. My point being, I care about this guy deeply as a friend and it goes no farther. He developed extreme psychic links to me, and I was never attracted to him emotionally. His judgmental attitude just turned me off and he was very fearful. I've talked about him on other posts, he's told me they're not going to give him bodies after this life because he keeps messing up and hasn't evolved like he should. I don't know, but it's just not there. It doesn't feel right to me and I can't force feelings. He's said it's better for me to be with someone else as he's afraid he would hold me back. We did some enochian ritual shortly after we first met, and he's saying we'll work together for a while, but I feel like it's torturous for him and I feel bad. On the other hand, twin souls/flames can be repellant when they're not ready to meet and the guy tends to repel me in a lot of ways and **** me off in extremes that I do not understand even though we do care about eachother a lot. Just throwing that out there. Both sides have to be ready and right vibrationally for the other. IP: Logged | |
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