posted December 16, 2010 08:13 AM            

I would say that the Sun person feels as though she is being blocked and frustrated by the Saturn person. The Saturn person being set in his ways and not swaying toward the Sun's ideas/thoughts. I can see the maturity level needed for this aspect, which can build into a stable relationship.

If Sun square Saturn is noted as a love aspect, it does not seem too loving. Perhaps in the long run it is . . .

posted December 16, 2010 08:34 AM            

Saturn is the planet that gives a sense of responsibility and duty which is fine if you want to be in a relationship with someone out of a sense of duty but personally I would hate that...I'd feel cheated.

posted December 16, 2010 08:47 AM            

if you had natal sun-saturn it may be easier to handle within synastry and the composite may give a different outlook for the sun/saturn square

posted December 16, 2010 08:49 AM            

I have experienced this aspect in a few different types of relationship scenarios. Every single time it has been/is an extremely important relationship, where I have learned a great deal about myself and life in general. Every single time it has been challenging but rewarding, particularly when I have been the sun.

I agree that too much Saturn can usually prove to be difficult to overcome and sustain a happy relationship, however having a few hard Saturn aspects to personal planets is definitely important because it makes you put the work in, and reap the rewards and gain the foundation and stability.

Yay for Saturn

posted December 16, 2010 01:33 PM            

I have Sun square Saturn Natally. And it is quite a difficult aspect. But it is a powerful and useful aspect as far as accomplishing things in life.

My current partner has his Sun exactly conjunct my Saturn. And I truly do look at him as a wise teacher. I can just sit and listen to him talk for hours, and I do. Since my Saturn and his Sun fall in my 10th house, he really embodies so many of the qualities that would like to be or have in myself. He has my best interest at heart, even when I don't want to hear what he has to say.

posted December 16, 2010 02:02 PM            

Electricmind, we have the opposite situation from you and your current partner. I am the Sun, he is the Saturn person. I admire his intelligence and common sense regarding life situations so much. One time I asked him to explain something about his job that most people would find uninteresting and he said, 'Do you really want to know, or do you just want to hear me talk?' We both smiled and chuckled.

posted December 16, 2010 03:48 PM            

His Venus is perfectly conjunct my Jupiter/Ascendant conjunction. So there is definitely a DW teacher/student thing going. We learn so much from each other. We also have DW Moon opposite Pluto. CRAZY LOVELY synastry/composite.

posted December 18, 2010 01:32 AM            

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted December 18, 2010 09:31 AM            

one of the saturn aspects is HER saturn (7th house ruler, and moon depositor) trine my SUN (my 1st house ruler).

what strengthens this wisdom/sun-saturn energy more so than a normal trine is the fact taht her saturn is IN my 5th house.

and my sun is natally in Leo, while her saturn is natally in capricorn. is very strong saturn-sun theme in us.

posted December 19, 2010 02:34 AM            

I think Linda included the Sun square Saturn aspect in her Love Aspects chapter because it is a longevity promoting aspect. Most people who ask for synastry readings or consultations are whole-heartedly fixated on wanting the relationship to last a long time or to have it end up as a marriage. This particular aspect is what I would term a "glue aspect". It promotes longevity with a high focus on responsibility and control as a theme within the couple.

For example: President Bill Clinton and Secretary of State Hillary Clinton. They have the Sun square Saturn aspect and everyone can see what their marriage has been like, the power and strategy dynamics, as well as the challenging hard work it has taken to keep their marriage together through one of the most difficult challenges that a marriage can endure (especially under the spotlight of the media). No matter what their marriage looks like right now or what you believe it to be behind closed doors, the marriage is still viable.

posted December 19, 2010 01:05 PM            

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Originally posted by maira:
A double whammy sounds good, even if it's negative, ie you teach/irritate/inhibit/ him just as much as he *same intepretation* you

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That's what I guessed, it would be a mutual thing. Plus, she and I (yes, I'm a guy lol) both have Sun sextile Saturn natally so I figured we'd might be able to navigate this aspect a little easier.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted January 25, 2013 09:21 AM            

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted January 25, 2013 09:44 AM              

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Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
Hey Stellium
I agree with your comments, Saturn is needed within synastry to hold the relationship together but too much of it will just kill off any romance or softness.

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posted January 26, 2013 01:52 AM            

He thought he was sooo smart, and he was so cocky about it (Sag Moon), but in reality, he was stupid. And I let him know. Even though I was pretty harsh with him, I still, to this day, maintain that he deserved the criticism. He had all these chauvinistic theories which really made my blood boil. His "theories" lacked logic, and it made me even more angry that he lacked the intelligence to understand that.

We stuck together for a while, but it was very on-off. I would consciously try to limit my criticism of him, but his idiocy overcame me, and I had to stop seeing him. He felt very criticized and judged by me, that's for sure, but he still calls me and tries to get back together (it has been a year since I cut him off).

I have zero interest, though. No way. I haven't even called or texted him back in a year. For all he knows, I could be dead. I feel nothing but disgust for ever dating him! Transiting Uranus was also squaring my 7th house ruler, Mercury, at the time, so I was bound to have one of those "what was I thinking?" relationships that fizzled out suddenly. But, ugh, what an idiot.

posted January 26, 2013 01:59 AM            

Brad Pitt and Angelina have: Her Saturn opposite his Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars.

Brad Pitt and Jen Aniston have: Her Saturn square his Moon, Mercury, Venus; his Saturn square her Mars and conjunct her Sun.

Brad likes the Saturn because his Moon/Mercury/Venus/Mars are in Cap. He can handle it.

posted January 26, 2013 08:25 AM            

We enjoy talking and doing things together, we do feel alright together.I had a feeling of love at first sight when I met her and it seems that I know her for a long time.
We got close very soon.

It's true that at times, I feel unable, blocked to resume relation, to talk again, to be again together after couple of days of non-talk or after short separation.

posted February 25, 2021 12:33 PM            

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Originally posted by starfairy:
In my last "relationship," my Saturn in Scorpio squared his Sun in Aqua. I'm pretty easy-going normally, but I was sooo critical of him. I was constantly putting his ideas down. I really thought he was an idiot, and still do. I thought he was childish and immature, too. It sounds horrible, I know, but I just couldn't help the fact that I thought he was a moron. Pretty much everything he said or did ****** me off!

He thought he was sooo smart, and he was so cocky about it (Sag Moon), but in reality, he was stupid. And I let him know. Even though I was pretty harsh with him, I still, to this day, maintain that he deserved the criticism. He had all these chauvinistic theories which really made my blood boil. His "theories" lacked logic, and it made me even more angry that he lacked the intelligence to understand that.

We stuck together for a while, but it was very on-off. I would consciously try to limit my criticism of him, but his idiocy overcame me, and I had to stop seeing him. He felt very criticized and judged by me, that's for sure, but he still calls me and tries to get back together (it has been a year since I cut him off).

I have zero interest, though. No way. I haven't even called or texted him back in a year. For all he knows, I could be dead. I feel nothing but disgust for ever dating him! Transiting Uranus was also squaring my 7th house ruler, Mercury, at the time, so I was bound to have one of those "what was I thinking?" relationships that fizzled out suddenly. But, ugh, what an idiot.

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