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TigerMystic
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From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2010

posted December 16, 2010 10:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TigerMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
First, greetings to all here at Lindaland! I recently discovered this site as I was searching for insight into a recent, totally unexpected relationship development with a man (a work associate) that has me turned upside down, inside out, and all sorts of wacky yet wonderful things. There are so many strong contacts between our charts it drives me silly with amazement, but due to time constraints, I can only touch upon a few of the major ones now--

I met this Sag-Sun/Sag-Venus/Libra-Mars gentleman (my boss, actually--LOL) in early August when I took up my current job. I didn't notice or feel anything out of the ordinary for him or between us until perhaps mid-November. That's when I tuned in to some subtle cues on his part that he had somewhat of an attraction to me, even if platonic. I also tuned in at that time to his incredibly uplifting, positive, energizing effect upon me--how being in his presence motivated me to give my best, to please him, and how it made me feel much more confident in and better about myself.

LOTS has occurred within the last few weeks, though I am still confused about the exact nature of our relationship due to strong undercurrents I feel and sense running between us (I'm really starting to care for the man A LOT). As it "officially" stands, it is still business-only, but the friendship component definitely grows deeper every day. There are certain glances, jokes (we tease each other terribly!), smiles, and helpful actions from him that sometimes seem to communicate more than is superficially apparent.

Well, tonight I made the two "mistakes" of (1) pulling out my ephemeris and checking out Venus' activity on and around this guy's Nov. 23rd birthday, as well as (2) running a Progressed chart on him (though I know little about how to interpret Progressed charts). I was blown away yet another time by what I saw.

In the context of our relationship, I am trying to make sense of:

1. His Mars/Neptune (conjunction) exactly conjunct my late Libra Ascendant and exactly trine my Aquarius Moon, and his Pluto exactly sextile my Ascendant and exactly opposite my Moon. His Sag Venus is sextile my Ascendant and also my Moon, though the orb is a wider 5-6 degrees. His Neptune is conjunct my (ASC-ruler) 1st House Venus, though the orb is about 6°.

2. LOTS of helpful Jupiter and Moon aspects synastrically (though also mutual Pluto opposition Moon).

3. Transiting Venus in late Libra passing back and forth over his Mars/Neptune and my Ascendant for the last couple months, right after I started my job with him, and finally stationing there on his birthday, and for basically a couple weeks before. This also happened to be the time that I finally keyed in to his apparent (though often very covertly displayed) attraction to me (although I was completely unconscious of what was occurring astrologically at the time--I didn't even know his birthdate until the celebration day arrived, and I unfortunately still do not know his exact time of birth. ).

4. Transiting/Retrograding Venus acted similarly in sextile to his natal late-Leo Pluto both before and on his birthday.

5. On his birthday (Nov. 23), amongst other things of course, Venus was conjunct his natal Mars, Neptune and my ASC, Mars was within 3° of being conjunct with his natal Venus, and Mercury was conjunct his Natal Venus.

6. According to his progressed chart run on his birthday, his Aqu. Venus is conjunct my Moon, trine my Ascendant and his natal Mars/Neptune, and opposite his own Pluto. His Prog. Sag. Mars is conjunct his natal Sun.

As I mentioned, there are many, many more synastric aspects involved, including some to our Chirons and Lunar Nodes. For anyone interested, my birth info is:

09/12/1962, Cleveland, OH, 10:22 A.M.

His is 11/23/1955, Cleveland, OH, time unknown, though he mentioned thinking it was "at night."

Anyway, I just felt a need to share all this with SOMEONE! LOL I can't share anything about it at work, and it's been so much on my mind. Not only is the relationship fun, playful, friendly, full of kindness and generosity of spirit, and energizing unlike anything I have experienced before, but I have also experienced a definite healing component. It DEFINITELY has "growth" written all throughout it. I just hope he is experiencing goodness within it, too. But part of me, while trying to surrender to the moment and let things take their inevitable course, desires very much to be able to carry on even a friendship with him outside the context of work. I just feel strongly, though, that if there is to be more between us, HE is the one who should take the initiative, not me.

Any insights or reflections are welcome!

Wishing you all Peace and Fullness of Spirit--

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ladybates
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posted December 16, 2010 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ladybates     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome TigerMystic!

You will probably get a better response if you post the charts. If you have any questions on how to do this, you can look at the FAQ section. Just make sure you upload the charts on a free photo hosting site.

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Randall
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Registered: Apr 2009

posted December 18, 2010 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome!

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