posted December 22, 2010 06:16 PM            

I have venus opp. saturn with this guy i really like. (i'm the venus and he is saturn.) I can tell he likes me too. I can see it in his eyes, and feel it when we are close. (btw he is a scorpio) but we can't seem to get things started. He hints at things, but does not initiate anything, and when i try to initiate things he backs off.

posted December 22, 2010 06:50 PM            

" Although this relationship may begin with a strong feeling of comfort and compatibility, over time, some very challenging dynamics are likely to surface. The Saturn person, fearing the Venus person's withdrawal of affection, loyalty, or respect, can easily become critical or demanding of the Venus person. In response to Saturn's critical demeanor, Venus may withhold affection. A vicious circle can quickly occur. The Venus person could begin to view the Saturn person as unsympathetic, and the Saturn person could come to view the Venus person as childish and undisciplined. Care should be taken to avoid getting into this negative cycle. It will be important for you to maintain an adequate social life, as the tendency with this interchart aspect is to appease one another's jealous nature by cutting oneself off from hobbies, social activities, and pleasures outside of the relationship. You may be critical of one another's tastes and hobbies, but at the root of this is some form of jealousy over the attention that you give to outside interests. Commitment and loyalty to one another will be vital, but also the source of some friction. "

posted December 22, 2010 08:01 PM            

But I also heard that venus opp. saturn can also serve to put up a wall and restrict people from coming together.

posted December 22, 2010 09:03 PM            

and this is his chart

posted December 22, 2010 09:39 PM            

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But I also heard that venus opp. saturn can also serve to put up a wall and restrict people from coming together.

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I'm sure there are couples who have surmounted that hurdle before.

posted February 16, 2012 11:59 PM            

Saturn is the ultimate glue. My wife and I have Saturn square Saturn, Saturn opposite Venus and Saturn opposite Mars.
Once we know how the square manifests, we can anticipate it in the next transit and prevent a lot of damage.
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posted February 17, 2012 05:23 AM            

I have personally experienced saturn opposite venus.. I was venus i have to say, it was binding and painful. We had chiron-venus going on so that softened it a little, yet we could not make "us" official due to circumstances that were beyond our control. We still love each other deeply, and if the opportunity comes to create something with our love, we will. For now, it is indeed tragic. And i wanted to add, there is A LOT keeping us apart, (especially previously made commitments and mistakes) we go way back. If that is not the case for you two, i don't see why ego related issues cannot be overcome with understanding and patience IF this is something both of you desire.

And with a DW, its different. Although im sure it turns into a square in the composite, both of you are "on the same page" regarding what has to be done so to speak. I have found this article on saturn-venus to be very informative http://theinnerwheel.com/2010/08/03/synastry-studies-rethinking-venussaturn/

Also, you guys have some powerful conjunctions. Neptune-venus (romantic, idealistic, sometimes creates illusions), moon-pluto (very intense, deep feelings, manipulation) pluto-sun (obsessive, domination, transformation) mars-asc (very, very sexual).

I have read that pluto wants to bury anything it touches, and i have indeed experienced that. Awareness will be very important in this relationship.

Asteroids are very informative as well. Valentive, amor, juno, aphrodite, angel, adonis, eros, psyche etc.

posted February 17, 2012 05:45 PM              

Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html
To enter this forum you need an extra password – astrology….

Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% (ONLY for syn bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. To enter this forum you need an extra password – astrology….Composite should be 85% orbs

when you get this chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages –at a glance planet to planet. Scroll down to last page and *aspect grid* (ONLY for syn bi wheel) THIS is very important as it seems to show more aspects than is visible on the bi wheel…

problem is uploading to photobucket you have to change this from abode format into a picture. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid/bit in front of you,on screen then( if bit big press ctrl and - to reduce image). the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ - top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has copied to clipboard.

Paste into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart press IMG and past link into thread.... done

posted February 17, 2012 06:08 PM            

Venus hard aspect saturn DW, and also saturn conjunct mercury.

Also there might be alittle power struggles (with the sun conjunct pluto and moon conjunct pluto)