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britterfly
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posted January 03, 2011 05:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for britterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say hard Saturn aspects would cause a long term relationship after everything is said and done. Good moon aspects wouldn't hurt either. Person A's Saturn on Person B's ascendant is a very bad idea though, unless person A has enough self control to be gentle and compassionate and person B is looking for a teacher. But even then, that aspect can get old after a while.

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posted January 03, 2011 05:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for britterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dude, I have the same aspect with the guy I am hard crushing on. I feel your pain! My Pluto is opposite his Moon, so he probably feels it more emotionally than I do, but it is indeed like a "secret" broiling passion. It's an aspect that points to an intensely felt personal relationship.

I found this reading for Calista Flockhart and Harrison Ford, who apparently have this aspect also!

Calista's Moon is Opposite Harrison's Pluto (Orb 4°30')

This is an intense and powerful relationship. Calista and Harrison feel a strong attraction to each other, one that seems to unconsciously draw them together. Calista's and Harrison's deep feelings for each other need to be nurtured in a loving manner in order for the union to be long lasting. However, this can be quite difficult for Calista and Harrison to achieve. It's not that they don't love each other, because they do care very deeply. The problem is that at times their intense emotions seem to erupt from nowhere. In fact the feelings have been simmering under the surface ready to be expressed at any moment. The pressure builds up quickly between Calista and Harrison and before they know it they are embroiled in an emotional drama. Of course this can vary, depending on how Calista and Harrison handle intense feelings. Some individuals thrive on intensity, while others feel threatened and powerless. Calista is likely to feel that her life has been transformed in some way by Harrison. It's possible that Harrison has changed the way that Calista feels about the world, making her conscious of things that have been bubbling under the surface for a long time. Life is not the same for Calista once she encounters Harrison. She may feel powerless, overwhelmed by Harrison's volatile nature. The key is for Calista is able to see through the explosive behaviour to the true heart of Harrison and to nurture Harrison's goodness. As a result Harrison will deeply appreciate the emotional support offered by Calista. If this does not occur then it is likely that Harrison will feel angry about the constant demands being placed on him by Calista. Harrison will start to withdraw and become isolated, only initiating contact in the relationship when he feels at boiling point. The challenge for Harrison is to maintain a loving attitude and to give Calista time to learn her emotional lessons. This is indeed a passionate personal union and one that needs to be loving, otherwise there is a danger of abuse. This combination can also signify a secret love affair in which intense feelings are indeed in the background. It can also depict an intense working relationship in which power struggles abound, but it is more likely to point to a personal union.

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britterfly
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posted January 03, 2011 05:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for britterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cafe Astrology call this a "challenging aspect", but I call it intense and hot and spicy, just the way I like it! (scorpio moon, aries venus, what can i say?)

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