posted January 07, 2011 04:05 PM            

I would love to have your objective opinions on this chart if any of you happen to have the time. We were romantically involved at one point, but I adore this person so much as a friend that I want to start from there, so this would inherently be an 11th house question.. we haven't talked in nearly 2 years if that counts.

posted January 07, 2011 07:34 PM            

Thank you for reminding me about Regimontanus.. I always tend to forget about that chart style whenever horary is concerned

posted January 07, 2011 08:27 PM            

_he's saturn in libra (strong there) but in 6th house generally a weak house= again don't know
_he's in your 12 house, which would explain why you feel attatched to him at somewhat of a spiritial level??

there's some connection btwn venus and saturn.

you're moon is in saturn (worry) in 11th house (about friendships)
there's a positive apect btwn your moon and his signifier there which makes me think that he knows you'd like to be friends and doesn't want to hurt you.

his co-signifier is in cap(worry) in 9th house (would there happen to be any distance btwn you guys)
IDK i suck at this!!

overall, i'd say there'll be a weak connection. you guys won't be supper tight, but you'll maintain some contact with each other
(i don't know the relationship btwn venus and staurn though, i'd base my final answer on that)

I'M LEARNING RIGHT NOW, SO IF ANYONE CAN HELP ME OUT, I'D REALLY APRRECIATE IT
can't wait to see what others wrote....lol

posted January 07, 2011 09:00 PM            

that's a 3ed house question

no!

you guys are both worried about your frienship, you're also thinkng about him in romance sort of way.
he wants to be friends, but would not like any pressure to take it beyond a purely platonic level, so i say don't call him.
he's also in your 5th house, which again indicates that you're attracted to him as more than friends.
don't ask too much of him. you say freinds, but i get the feeling like deep down you're interested or hoping for a little more, something that he's picking up on and has him worried.

posted January 07, 2011 09:30 PM            

Anyway I think you did really well for being a beginner at this!

"_you're venus in sag in 7th house= you're thoughts are at least somewhat relationshipo based and are grand in nature, you're optimistic(?)
_you're in his 1st house= idk (you're important to his identity??)"
Yes and yes to both of that! Although I won't be so narcissistic as to put words in his mouth, but his friends have commented on the second part in private to me.

I don't see Saturn in the 6th as beingsuch a terrible thing as is normally associated with it, as he's exalted in Libra and the 6th house is one of putting in work. Definitely workaholic tendencies and stress there.. sometimes fruitless. But I'd like to see the trine to the Moon as being a good thing. He's willing to cooperate with me, but he's currently not in a good place (square Sun) and will have to improve upon himself first? That's the impression I get..

"his co-signifier is in cap(worry) in 9th house (would there happen to be any distance btwn you guys)"
There is currently distance! He goes to school 4 hours away from me right now. He's there right now, of course, as winter break is over.

I'm going to say that the moon in Aquarius represents an objective, humanitarian role on my part. Which is true! It being in the 11th house shows a lot of friendship, however detached on a surface level. That is my natal moon sign so it's fitting.

I think I'm being way too optimistic, lol

posted January 07, 2011 10:18 PM            

but say my signifier is mercury
and it's a 7th house issue
and my mercury is in his 7th house...does that mean anything

or is it like i'm mercury and he's jupiter then i'm found in the house that's ruled by either pisces or sag?? and then that means something

or do both mean something??

posted January 07, 2011 11:16 PM            

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Originally posted by hmm:
his moon is 5th house leo(sun/masculinity)
that's a good sign
i think he's stressing now cuz he's trying to figure out what he wants. he's being pulled in two different directions, which could explain the moon of voc.

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posted January 08, 2011 07:50 PM            

littlecloud - I definitely do feel like it's karmic in spite of myself. Every time I managed to will him from my mind, a huge series of circumstances will happen every time I'm successfully dating someone else and pretty happy. Just.. the weirdest coincidences. I'm not a terribly romantic person (Eris/Venus in Aries in the 7th plus an Aquarius moon in the 5th square Pluto), but this is the one person who I could ever actually see myself in a serious relationship with. Not to mention we were very great friends once upon a time.

I met him in high school, always saw him around, always heard his name all those years but never thought a thing about him until we had a class in 11th grade together. I was so impressed with his mind. It wasn't until the year ended where I found out he also admired me, then we got to talking and the rest was history.

He's a year older than me (he was born later in the year which is how he ended up in my grade). It's weird. I feel like he can be SO MUCH more mature than me in some ways, but in others I do feel like I'm more motherly to him, and I have a greater understanding of human nature than he does. There are a lot of role reversals that went on in that relationship. I really didn't mind though and it was the only time I've ever been allowed to be "myself" around a man, which was awesome.

posted January 08, 2011 07:55 PM            

Overall I feel like you guys are in a slow-cooker right now. You just got to let sit on the fire for a couple of hours and let it simmer, and afterward you'll have a delicious meal to enjoy.