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Topic: The chart of a hyper sensitive person?
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JohnFKennedy Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Los Angeles, CA, US Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 10, 2011 12:48 AM
I'm curious to know what your guys' take on this chart would be. This person is definitely one of the most interesting people I've ever met - charismatic, charming, intelligent, mostly beloved for the surface face he puts out for the world. However, when I got to know him closer (because he wouldn't leave me the hell alone initially and out of nothing better to do, I caved), he was really one of the most tragic figures I've ever had the pleasure (?) to analyze up close and personally. He could navigate the waters of the emotional world beautifully with his words that didn't sound overly Shakespearean or trite at all, but he just had.. such a nervous energy to him? He was so hypersensitive to criticism, and could forever notice the smallest detail about a situation years later with the exact precise date. He could look at you with the most shockingly emotional eyes when you would least expect it to be apart of his character, and was very gentle and soft hearted. Genuinely. The sincerity of it never failed to surprise me every time. But just as easily as you could see that side to him - BAM, he could switch off into his goofy (or overly serious) public persona and you'd be left wondering if you saw a mirage or something. So.. for total curiosities sake, what do you think gives an indication to that in this chart? Do you think that's his real nature, or just a facade? IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 3122 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 10, 2011 01:36 AM
Do you have the t.o.b. or is that chart hyp.IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Los Angeles, CA, US Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 10, 2011 01:38 AM
He told me he was born around 2pm a while back, and as I put it variations of 2:15, 2:30 etc. this is definitely the most adequate chart I can come up with. He's def. a Pisces rising, though IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 3122 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 10, 2011 02:00 AM
Aside from the Asc in Water he has indicators for personal sensitivity, Moon conj Venus & Merc/Sun/Pluto in Scorpio.As for goofiness, the Moon/Venus in Sadge. Part of what you stated regarding memory is ruled by Cancer, or a strong Moon, if his is conj the Mc then it would be strong, and then he has Jupiter in Cancer for emphasis on that. I could see all you said in his chart, if you think it may not be genuine, I would just say his chart has conflicting factors, like almost anyone, and they're gonna express different parts of themselves at different times. Also, the Moon is reflexive, and in Sagittarius it would bounce back to that behavior to get back to a comfort zone. Moon conj Uranus also points to a sudden turn of mood, even if in different signs, the conj is still in orb. And of course water adds to moodiness. Water/Fire combinations are the most dramatic, and he has, Water Asc / Fire Mc Water Sun Fire Moon Water Mercury Fire Venus Air Mars (these are the most personal points in a chart) Plus he has SN in Leo, ruled by the Sun Scorpio conj Merc/Pluto. IP: Logged |
roadwarriorsdp Knowflake Posts: 954 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 10, 2011 04:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by JohnFKennedy: I'm curious to know what your guys' take on this chart would be. This person is definitely one of the most interesting people I've ever met - charismatic, charming, intelligent, mostly beloved for the surface face he puts out for the world. However, when I got to know him closer (because he wouldn't leave me the hell alone initially and out of nothing better to do, I caved), he was really one of the most tragic figures I've ever had the pleasure (?) to analyze up close and personally. He could navigate the waters of the emotional world beautifully with his words that didn't sound overly Shakespearean or trite at all, but he just had.. such a nervous energy to him? He was so hypersensitive to criticism, and could forever notice the smallest detail about a situation years later with the exact precise date. He could look at you with the most shockingly emotional eyes when you would least expect it to be apart of his character, and was very gentle and soft hearted. Genuinely. The sincerity of it never failed to surprise me every time. But just as easily as you could see that side to him - BAM, he could switch off into his goofy (or overly serious) public persona and you'd be left wondering if you saw a mirage or something. So.. for total curiosities sake, what do you think gives an indication to that in this chart? Do you think that's his real nature, or just a facade?
This is a good short post I can answer, or try. First thing that I've see is jupiter retrograde in cancer. My brother Dino, and my cousin Dino, go figure, are both jupiter cancerians. Both of them have done really bad in school, but both are extremely gifted. Also there entire generation has jupiter there, or born that year, I forget how fast jupiter moves, but the point is jupiter is definately exalted in this sign. When I meet these guys or girls, who were born five years after me..so they are adults now..I am immediately drawn to there generous nature. However, this is not a rule, as I've met a few taht probably had jupiter afflecited. IP: Logged |
roadwarriorsdp Knowflake Posts: 954 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 10, 2011 04:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by roadwarriorsdp: This is a good short post I can answer, or try.First thing that I've see is jupiter retrograde in cancer. My brother Dino, and my cousin Dino, go figure, are both jupiter cancerians. Both of them have done really bad in school, but both are extremely gifted. Also there entire generation has jupiter there, or born that year, I forget how fast jupiter moves, but the point is jupiter is definately exalted in this sign. When I meet these guys or girls, who were born five years after me..so they are adults now..I am immediately drawn to there generous nature. However, this is not a rule, as I've met a few taht probably had jupiter afflecited.
Next I see an oppositon of clustered planets in the lower realm near the fifth, and fourth, between the 10th...this makes sense as his fortune is in the second house, he will enjoy making money, he will enjoy earning luxury things, or enjoy them in general, in its highest form, he may enjoy the arts, or be a patron of them, he may also simply enjoy working hard.....if material values are involved...and this is in conflict with his jupiter, expansion, love, ceres, divine mother, etc....so he is someone who is aware of ethics...he may hold alot back because he feels a tug aware between the machiavalian tricks people pull in the work place or at the carreer, and what he believes in his heart and mind - or soul, to be true. IP: Logged |
roadwarriorsdp Knowflake Posts: 954 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 10, 2011 04:22 AM
His true node is in the twelfth house like mine. He'll have trouble early in life merging in groups, but will excell at it later....another astrologer told me this about myself. He said that my gifts would be appreciated later, but what he really ment was that I would learn to offer my gifts in a more acceptable way. For this reason he will be slighted alot, as people will undoubtedly think he has it easy...and when he tries to be an individual, they will team up on him. This is north node in teh 12th trust me. A Squirel hides his nuts dodging hunters. That's what I see here. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 3122 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 10, 2011 04:34 AM
So NN 12th look like silver spoons people?IP: Logged |
roadwarriorsdp Knowflake Posts: 954 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 10, 2011 04:49 AM
By silver spoon what do you mean?One more thing that I see is that his neptune is conjunct saturn - in capricorn. One possible manifesation of this is that his limitations at work, as he percieves them, will affect his dreams, and ideals, or his ideals in a sense will be at odds with his limitations, but inseperable, as in now way around them...This is a man who is very careful about everything he does at work in essence, as it effects his neptunian framework - intuition... For example, if he may see a new employee as an imediate threat, or not, based on how that employee is percieved as limiting to you. IP: Logged |
roadwarriorsdp Knowflake Posts: 954 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 10, 2011 04:51 AM
Uranus conjunct moon, holy smokes!! That explains it all.. I thought uranus conjucnt mercury was hard... I wonder how taht works...this one is elusive to me. IP: Logged |
roadwarriorsdp Knowflake Posts: 954 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 10, 2011 04:53 AM
I really feel this persons pain alot just looking at the chart.I really do. Was this person blackmaileD? IP: Logged |
roadwarriorsdp Knowflake Posts: 954 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 10, 2011 04:54 AM
This person transforms one on one. His vertex is in the 7th house....i've read the vertex is the initial point causing transformation and therefore is linked to pluto, of course it's all free will, he's not going to transform every time he talks to someone, but it could explain why he's more prolific, one on one.IP: Logged |
roadwarriorsdp Knowflake Posts: 954 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 10, 2011 05:58 AM
Holly smokes I just though tof something.With true node in teh 12th house, this person is going to probalby get alot of names put on him... This is the house of archtypes... PEople would be devlishly cruel to me, no sob stories here just case en point examples... I would have nicknames that would stick, and I never nopticed anyone else who did, if they did the nicknames went away.. It's trivial later in life, when the person builds a stomach, but he will be teased alot, or percieve to be cast out from the group, it's part of learning to flow right with the crowd, so to speak. I still have this stigma today. PEople call me weird alot. Atleast it's not creep. But It's probably because they're projecting. I think everyone these days is infected with the "I'm going to call you weird" collective concious. IP: Logged |
roadwarriorsdp Knowflake Posts: 954 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 10, 2011 05:59 AM
Let me give you a better example.I call two people Jay Leno. Jay leno is a small archtype, but an archtype none the less. A Jay Leno, has a big chin, and he wears a suit, and he acts silly. So they call person a a jay leno, and he doesn't have a true node there, or maybe it's chiron i'm thinking of, probably, anyways a 12th houser may experience this anyways, if they have there true node there. Person A will just laugh, and forget about it Person B may have a true node there with no planets, or he may have a chiron there, something to act as a funnel, and make or direct his energy there. To him this is going to be a great burden. PEople will notice it weaknes him, and he will eventually breakdown and wonder why he can't escape the name/stigma. It could be drug addict, homeless man, etc. These are cruel things to call people. Cruel indeed. They dehumanize.... It's his response to it that matters. IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Los Angeles, CA, US Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 10, 2011 02:42 PM
Wow, Lonake and Road. Thank you so much for your perspective, I really appreciate it. There are definitely a few awesome points I have to address, so let me just do that. Lonake - You're so right about the primary water/fire zig zagging in his chart. It's funny how such a simple observation as that can go un-noticed when you're trapped looking at so many details! Missing the forest for the trees, so to speak. Road - You've hit the nail on the head with soooo many things, what resonated with me the most (and is a huge insight into his character) was that he WAS born with a silver spoon in his mouth! He was the youngest child in a family of extremely wealthy, prominent people. His older sisters went to the most expensive universities in the US (Princeton and Yale). I can actively see him rebelling against that prestige, which you mentioned with the Moon square Uranus natally. Everything you said about NN in the 12th is perfection. "and this is in conflict with his jupiter, expansion, love, ceres, divine mother, etc....so he is someone who is aware of ethics...he may hold alot back because he feels a tug aware between the machiavalian tricks people pull in the work place or at the carreer, and what he believes in his heart and mind - or soul, to be true." I really see that pull with him. He was raised by a lot of ruthless, Machavillian people that definitely emotionally starved him. There is innate sensitivity though. But he's been so ingrained with this belief about success from extremely successful people.. that what he beliefs to be Goodness versus what he finds himself doing is totally at odds. I see a lot of nervous energy/hysteria often resulting in his emotions sometimes. "Was this person blackmailed?" He was picked on A LOT when he was younger in public school, as well as being the youngest child in his family. You can tell he gets really defensive or hurt when you mention anything long the lines of former nicknames and what not. I also see a lot of rebellion in his appearance, so people won't "mess around with him" anymore and stuff like that. Uranus also transited over his Ascendant about 2 years ago, so that helps explain that.. There is a lot of pain in his chart.. I totally get that vibe as well. When I first looked at it, I was like, "Wow. Talk about a perfect chart. This is obviously a really well put together person." But the more I saw the focus on the 10th house, as well as the 8th being activated in Scorpio, with Chiron in the 5th... I knew there were a lot more deeper, hurtful forces going on amidst all this "glory", so to speak. IP: Logged |
zanarkand112 Knowflake Posts: 92 From: Maryville, TN USA Registered: Jan 2010
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posted January 14, 2011 02:25 AM
It's funny you used the word mirage, and he has a Pisces Asc. One word: shifty. It also no wonder he reacts to criticism the way he does with a Pisces ASC. I'm sure having a Scorpio sun conjunct Pluto in the eighth this is pure hell, because whatever he is feeling will tend to show up immediately on his face -- then the scorp part will kick in and tell him to hide his feelings and not be so weak. The intensity this man feels is probably overwhelming, and that's why he carries around such nervous energy. It's not the Virgo anxiety type energy as much as it is him trying to keep his composure while out in public.It is fine to be there for people, but just make sure this guy is not a psychic vampire. If you feel emotionally drained or tired with him be very cautious. You mentioned that he "wouldn't leave you alone". His Sun in the eight(other people's resources) mixed with that psychic Pisces energy(chart ruler neptune sextile the sun in the eighth) I fear might allow him to drain you so he could try to sustain himself if he's drowning in his own negative emotions. It's not wrong to be there for others, just protect yourself. One the more positive side, with Venus and Moon in Sadge,(strong 10th house too) with South Node in Leo, I think this person despite struggling at all times to try to remain in control of himself would be able to really inspire optimism and hope in others. Backed with the will of Scorpio, should this man make set his mind with a goal in mind, he could be a nearly unstoppable force for good in this world. With nearly limitless energy and potential to tap into to boot. But...he'll have to fight and conquer his own battles first or he'll always be at other less fortunate aspects in his chart's mercy. Blessing or curse...it's up to him. I also feel that with Saturn in the tenth conjunct his chart ruler Neptune, opposing his Midheaven's ruler in the forth there there may have been a burden to bare at home growing up. There may have been a "baring the world on his shoulders" type feeling for some reason, or pressured to do great things or be successful when he grew up. Saturn or Pluto in the tenth especially when hard aspects are made to it, often can indicate an abusive father or father figure in his life.(mother if the father wasn't around) He might also live with a lot of people(which he might of initially done generously) or had a bunch of people live with him through his life that he felt like he had to take care of. He needs lots of time for introspection, but he may swing from finally feeling like he understands himself to not knowing who he is at all. He thinks you are a good person, or else he wouldn't be drawn to you. The switch from letting his guard down and confiding in you to humor or extreme seriousness has to do with the fear I was talking about in the "scorpio" thread. Only he can change that. Just give him time, and you'll know what your relationship means to him and you soon enough. IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Los Angeles, CA, US Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 23, 2011 11:35 PM
Oh my God, I can't believe I'm just seeing this post now! You were dead on in so many ways. I always thought that stacked Scorpionic 8th house was at the core of a lot of problems, but I couldn't articulate how considering I have so few Scorpio placements as it is, and every description I read about Scorpio stelliums are written pretty dramatically. But they absolutely carry a nervousness with them that sets them completely apart from Virgo, as you said. I don't think he was initially a psychic vampire. When we first became friends and that later turned into a relationship, he was in a really good place in his life and was just this beautiful, flourishing human being. He was so pure, and I found that to be the most refreshing thing. Later, I knew we had to break up because I couldn't make him happy. I wasn't emotionally stable enough to sustain him and give him strength or nourishment, so I had to end it for both of our sakes. Later, he just turned into overall the meanest person - to the point where even his best friends wanted nothing to do with him for a while. So while I see that potential where he can "inspire others" at his best, he just has.. so much psychological warfare to work out within himself. When I came back the second time as his friend.. he was absolutely a psychic vampire. I felt all the happiness and hope drain from my last as I tried to give him the emotional support I couldn't the first time around. It got to the point where I had to salvage my sanity and left for the last time almost two years ago. Of course who he is at his best is still the fixture in my mind, which is definitely represented by his moon in Sag and the lovely trine to his Sag. venus. His parents were definitely hard on him. He comes from a background of supreme privilege, so I don't get the impression his parents knew what deep emotional needs he had as a child so long as he was physically very well tended to, which is upsetting when I think about it. Anyway, thank you so much for your reply. It was so eye opening and helpful. IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 264 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 23, 2011 11:54 PM
Not sure about similarities in the chart, but my life is rather similar. I can totally relate to that guy... I hardly ever reveal my "deeper" side and I often wear masks, many of them at that. Probably one of the only similarities between Gemini and Scorpio. But I totally grew up as a spoiled only child, but was over protected and criticized and pushed to be the best. I rebelled but I still feel the pressure of my childhood and it can be difficult to overcome those habits. I am very very sensitive and I can be brought to tears easily though I swallow them if I'm not around someone I trust deeply. I honestly wonder what is good about me sometimes. Probably residual stuff from childhood. Though mine was primarily athletics rather than academics - though that was a part of it too. My father was certain that I was a genius capable of everything and that if I wasn't number one, I was basically told I was unworthy. I have since then, refused to ever give 100%. In every area of my life. I am totally unable to handle criticism in the moment, though my Gemini allows me to rationalize it later. I a full of nervous energy and my moods change like a flash. Even the smallest comment can bring me down. I feel like I often read too much into things as well. And so I am overly cautious in trusting what I feel and am constantly nitpicking and over analyzing everything. Anywho... maybe I am somewhat different, but I just feel like I am similar. IP: Logged |
lunagoatlion Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 24, 2011 01:48 AM
Bluegrey, I've nevr seen a chart like yours before. I'm very new to astrology and I've analyzed a few charts, but I've never seen one like yours. I'm going to really check it out because I'm really interested in squares and the potential for growth they represent. Looks like you have lots of trines too. I'm so sorry to hear that you were mercilessly criticized as a child. IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 264 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 26, 2011 03:03 AM
Well there are a ton of asteroids I added so it's just a little complicated, lol. In my natal chart minus asteroids, it's mostly oppositions/inconjunctions. IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 1981 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 26, 2011 09:48 PM
JohnFK. The first I saw in the chart about what you describe around the man was nessus square moon conj uranus. IP: Logged |
Cecile Knowflake Posts: 85 From: NY, NY, USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 27, 2011 05:02 PM
I'd like to hope I'm not hypersensitive (!), so I'm going to say I'm sensitive. I'm a Pisces moon so I have a tendency to suck up energy all around me whether its good or bad. I'm pretty sure me being a Cancer Sun, Venus and Mercury also contributes to me being sensitive as well as various moon afflictions in my chart.IP: Logged |
Cecile Knowflake Posts: 85 From: NY, NY, USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 27, 2011 05:03 PM
I'd like to hope I'm not hypersensitive (!), so I'm going to say I'm sensitive. I'm a Pisces moon so I have a tendency to suck up energy all around me whether its good or bad. I'm pretty sure me being a Cancer Sun, Venus and Mercury also contributes to me being sensitive as well as various moon afflictions in my chart.IP: Logged | |