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Topic: Aries men?
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Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2395 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 23, 2011 10:25 PM
quote: The ones I know who are in their 20s are usually metrosexual types. They don't seem very 'macho'. They are a little feminine actually, love shopping and very interested in fashion.
Wow, my recent ex was an Aries man in his 20s and he is SOOO macho, the manliest guy I've ever been with, very "Me Tarzan. You Jane." He wasn't a jerk about it. But he was all about winning and climbing the highest mountain and extreme sports and romance-novel bodice-ripping sex and grunting while eating large plates of spicy meat. I love Arieses. They can be selfish. Even their way of showing how much they love you is sharing themselves with you! But my ex was gallant and heroic and, in a strange way, innocent and pure. They are PASSIONATE.
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lunagoatlion Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 23, 2011 11:03 PM
Ya, RAS, Aries are quite luscious, almost primitive in their urges at times! I think I'm attracted to them because I'm a 29' Cancer (so close to Leo) and I have a Leo rising. They definitely ignite my fire!IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 23, 2011 11:05 PM
How do an Aries Sun and an Aries Mars differ?IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 24, 2011 12:35 AM
Lioness - quote: my recent ex was an Aries man in his 20s and he is SOOO macho, the manliest guy I've ever been with, very "Me Tarzan. You Jane."
Do you know what his background/culture was? Was it Western or other? The ones I mentioned are Western, mostly of an Anglican background with some Italian in there lol IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2395 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 24, 2011 11:53 AM
That was me, not Lioness, Betty Boop--so I'll answer....My ultra-macho Aries ex was anglo (Irish and Central European)...from a rich background, elite schools, very well-travelled. The metrosexual guys I know (mostly older though, in their 30s and 40s, my Aries was 9 years younger than me) are mostly really watery--Pisces, Scorpio, Cancer suns. Metrosexual Scorpios are really frigging weird. But that is a topic for a different thread. IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2395 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 24, 2011 12:02 PM
Blugrey--the Sun is the overall personality, and Mars is how the person takes action.So Aries Mars will take action in an Aries way--single-mindedly ramming into what he wants--and then that tendency will be tempered by other planets, and how they aspect. So a Pisces Sun, Aries Mars would have a generally Piscean personality (mutable, drifty, heart-centered, dreamy, deep, a tendency towards escapism), but take action toward goals in a more Mars way. Like if he was interested in a girl, he'd likely walk up to her and ask her out. An Aries Sun, Pisces Mars would be overall Aries-ish (wanting to lead, competitive, risk-taking, single-minded, direct), but his way of taking action would be more Pisces (drifting around, letting things flow.) He might not pursue what he wanted in the ultra-direct way of the Aries Mars. The whole chart overall, including chart ruler and house placements of Sun versus Mars, is important. The ultra-macho Aries ex I'm talking about had Sun-Mars-Mercury in Aries. So his overall personality was Aries, the way he communicated was Aries, and the way he took action was also Aries. IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 24, 2011 01:08 PM
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blonderiverkat Knowflake Posts: 931 From: Tri-State Area Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 24, 2011 05:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by cappy1277: MARTIANS!! LOL!! 
LOL cappy! My oldest son is an Aries, but not from Mars...elsewhere! He is definitely different...bu no way immature...the opposite...very smart, and goodlooking...was a pain in the arse as a young one though! lol His moon is in Leo, with Cancer rising... Hey wait a minute now...I am an Aries in Draconic! lol  Kat ------------------ 'Anything and Everything is possible with Anything and Everything' IP: Logged |
Moons Of Jupiter Knowflake Posts: 150 From: Australia Registered: Jun 2010
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posted January 24, 2011 07:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by electricmind: babies who you can't help but want to take home. then you hate yourself because you can't get rid of them and the more you push them away the harder the push to be with you and the more they act cute and cuddly the more you want to stay and then they do something crazy and you feel sorry but you want to hate them because they are so freaking selfish and then you wonder if they even notice that there are other people in the world besides themselves but then you shoot yourself in the foot because you are in love after they say something that melts your heart away and then...
Perfect. I do have to say - as gorgeous and uncomplicated as they are, they ARE self-oriented, selfish, and in need of a lot of attention. If you can handle it...go for it. But expect a few early gray hairs. IP: Logged |
blonderiverkat Knowflake Posts: 931 From: Tri-State Area Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 24, 2011 07:25 PM
Moons of Jupiter...I think my daughter-in-law would have to agree with you on this one! lol  ------------------ 'Anything and Everything is possible with Anything and Everything' IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus Knowflake Posts: 349 From: California Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 24, 2011 07:27 PM
I'm positive that I never want to go out with an Aries/Aries/Mercury in Aries guy again. Total selfish, egotistical, who feels entitled to lie type of guy. Stay away. These people feel no guilt in lying because they feel what they do is so right and cannot see other peoples point of views. IP: Logged |
redshoes Knowflake Posts: 824 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 29, 2011 12:20 PM
I have known several aries guys who catchphrase is "what about me"what about you? :O IP: Logged |
Charlotte_E Knowflake Posts: 74 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 29, 2011 02:26 PM
I'm with a guy with a pretty strong Aries moon. He has Libra sun and is pretty immature, and usually irritable because he doesn't know what he wants (Sun-moon opposition in his chart).Irritable, double-standard (always more slack for him!), self-absorbed. Just like a baby. But very lovable.  IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1740 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 29, 2011 03:57 PM
BRK- my ex was an aries with a sag moon with a cancer rising....macho man cry baby...lol!! all he did was whine & complain. always wanted to be tooken care of and looked after. I already have kids, i wasn't looking for another one.  IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 2633 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 29, 2011 06:33 PM
This thread is so refreshing. I've had my fill of Aries men. Leos always get this bad rep of selfishness but really it's the Aries deserve the rep. The best part is when they say they aren't. One of my ex's even said "Yeah but I'm humble too" when his mom and I where talking about his huge ego. When he said that I laughed and his mother said, "No you aren't. That is what you need to learn." I can handle Aries women better but the men, Jesus, I've never met bigger babies. At first you're attracted to their enthusiasm and high energy levels until you realize the only one they have all this enthusiasm and energy for is themselves. I see nothing wrong with the child-like playfulness of a Sagittarius or Leo. But Aries men have this "I am a man. Your are a woman. Cook my food. Tie my shoes because I still haven't learned how" attitude. IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 2633 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 29, 2011 10:25 PM
I wanted to add that I have found that they all seem to be obsessed with their penis in some way. Either they think it's larger than it actually is or they want to believe that they are the biggest you've ever had. IP: Logged |
lunatic Knowflake Posts: 408 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 30, 2011 01:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by littlecloud: I wanted to add that I have found that they all seem to be obsessed with their penis in some way. Either they think it's larger than it actually is or they want to believe that they are the biggest you've ever had.

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blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 30, 2011 01:18 AM
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Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2395 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 30, 2011 02:29 AM
The one I'm all heartsick over had a nice big one.IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 30, 2011 02:30 AM
Hahaha, is that why? lol IP: Logged |
redshoes Knowflake Posts: 824 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 31, 2011 12:58 PM
haha that is funny and i agree. they also like to say things like "i am the man"  a mature(?) aries man i know blows so hot and cold, he asked my friend one day "marry me"? a couple of days later they rowed over something and he said "sorry cant do this anymore and walked away". he will be back probably tomorrow... sooooo immature!!  IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus Knowflake Posts: 349 From: California Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 31, 2011 08:02 PM
redshoes... yes, that is how they are. And mix that with libra and you have yourself an indecisive, impulsive aries.bluegrey, i thought that about my aries ex too. unselfish and giving...you don't know until you really really know them. IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2395 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2011 12:31 AM
They do have a double-standard. IP: Logged |