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Topic: NN conjunct planet in synastry- who feels it more?
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LauraSmith Knowflake Posts: 44 From: new york Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 16, 2011 12:05 AM
I was looking online for moon conjunct NN in synastry and am having a hard time who feels it more. With NN conjunct ascendant I was told the NN person is the more attached one. Is that true with the other planets as well?IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 6614 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 16, 2011 12:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by LauraSmith: I was looking online for moon conjunct NN in synastry and am having a hard time who feels it more. With NN conjunct ascendant I was told the NN person is the more attached one. Is that true with the other planets as well?
Yes,NN person feels it more; experience is relevant to NN person; NN-focus point Planet-energy IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 924 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 16, 2011 12:17 AM
I think the NN person does feel it more. My NN is conjunct this girl's sun I was interested in. We have really weak synastry but the house rulers were strong. I was definitely the one that was more interested. I'm not into her anymore though. ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 16, 2011 12:24 AM
I agree, the impact is on the NN with the NN/ASC conj.IP: Logged |
lunatic Knowflake Posts: 408 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 16, 2011 01:27 AM
I really hope so. I am the Asc person and i really feel the impact, like she is important for my path and evolution. I hope she'll feel the sameIP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: here and there Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 16, 2011 01:43 AM
Gosh, I have my NN conjunct my friend's Moon, and I think she might feel it a bit more. Her Moon is badly aspected, so I don't know if that comes in at all. Over the years, she has become very smothering, telling everyone how they should be living their lives. I don't really feel that level of attachment towards her.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9922 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 16, 2011 09:02 AM
I was the NN person, he was the Moon. I was *definitely* more interested. So yes, the NN person feels it more.IP: Logged |
crabbypatty Knowflake Posts: 822 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 16, 2011 11:56 AM
Me- North Node. Him- moon. There is no doubt that it hit me really hard and lasted for years, whereas for him it was just a pleasant connection. I am pretty sure he didn't spend an extra minute thinking of me, whereas he was on my mind 24\7.
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letram Knowflake Posts: 1141 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 16, 2011 12:07 PM
i don't think the planet person feels anything at all.the NN is a very subjective point, i think for the NN person, they behave like the Moon toward the planet person contacting the NN. but the NN individual probably see's the NN person a bit like the SN is that persons Sun sign. because the SN represents who we are alot.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 72038 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 16, 2011 12:40 PM
My Venus is on HIS SN.Who would feel this more. Thank you for any input !------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. You must face the dregs of Nessus to touch the love and beauty of Neptune. Me IP: Logged |
soulful122 Knowflake Posts: 522 From: ←↓↑→ Registered: Jan 2010
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posted January 16, 2011 02:04 PM
"i don't think the planet person feels anything at all.the NN is a very subjective point, i think for the NN person, they behave like the Moon toward the planet person contacting the NN." I agree with this a lot. I was the Moon person and the NN person was playing a lot of childish games. It seemed like she was acting out the negative aspects of my Moon and I didn't like it. I eventually stopped all contact with her. IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 2651 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted January 17, 2011 08:08 AM
Well, the thing I can say for sure is that in the beginning *he* definitely felt more... But as time went by and I got used to him feelings changed and it became more an equal match in feeling. I've also thought that if I'd got to know him 10 years ago that I wouldn't even give him a chance.. (just thoughts..)He once said; 'I've learned a lot from you' which made me think; 'Yes I can understand that but.. did I learn anything from you?' For me it's enough to feel comfortable with someone. I'm not really thinking in terms of *learning from..* My Scorp-Moon conjunct his Scorp-NN (2*) IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 646 From: Boston,USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 17, 2011 05:43 PM
What about Pluto Conjunct NN. It seems I can not find anything on this aspect . I am PlutoIP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6900 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted January 17, 2011 08:56 PM
The guy I dated when I was 18, His Mars is exactly conjunct my NN.. It was a long time ago.. I know I really really like him.. I fell for him very fast... When we first met, he was at work and he grabbed the handcuffs from the security guard.. He handcuffed me to the rail until I agreed to give him my number.... lololololol... He wasnt going to let me leave, until I gave him my number... We are still friends to this day (20 years).. I am very close to his family.. I go to his family parties, and also me and his wife (a leo) get along great.. She actually is the one who invites me to parties... I love his family more than him... lol So I cant remember if I "felt" it or not. My ex husband NN conjunct my Asc... I wanted nothing to do with him at first.. But he pursed and chased me down... He didnt give up for anything.. IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 646 From: Boston,USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 17, 2011 09:18 PM
I agree NN person feels more. When I met the father of my baby, he persued me. I was avoiding me (due to age dif) but I gave up and we become lovers , but at the same time I did not want to go "public" with this relationship. I asked him to keep everything quite. Why? well... even though in the begining was initial attarction and recognition (past life connections) I felt something is off. Anyways, to make the story short. He is still in my life, even though I tried my hardest to "break free"BTW: I am pluto he is NN but we also have: my SN conj his moon and saturn his SN conjunct my IC LOL, I think he was my abusive mother in a previous life
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Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 17, 2011 09:34 PM
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Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 17, 2011 09:38 PM
If you are asking "who feels this particular NN aspect more?" -- I couldn't go with one person or the other - since they simply experience different things. The NN person has a lot to learn through example from the planet person. The planet person feels appreciated and useful. This is the positive manifestation. But there are others. The NN can be a *difficult* point. Many of us have a love-hate relationship with our NN (for some time) due to the opposition to our SN (which generally feels more comfortable). So if the NN person is not open to the "lessons" imparted by the planet person - they could easily have a schizophrenic reaction: "I need you in my life - but pleaseeee get away from me!" - It is a reaction of simultaneous attraction & repulsion, that is very common with the opposition aspect in natal/synastry. It could leave the planet person confused and feeling either rejected or outraged (with planets such as the Sun/Mars - the reaction could be more so aggressive... such as "who does X think he/she IS to treat me this way?" - whereas with the Moon/Venus the more likely reaction is sadness/depression. If the NN-SN individual begins to play out this opposition with the planet person - that is the point when the planet person usually has enough and leaves. Personally - I prefer relationships with those who have something on *both* my NN and SN, so they can understand both sides.. But maybe that doesn't apply to everyone. I already have conjunctions in natal as well - My Venus is conj my NN in Taurus and my Pluto is on my SN in Scorp. _____ BUT ---- If you are asking "Who feels -IT- more?" referring to romantic attraction feelings... That depends on SOOOOOOOOOO many things. This one aspect will never tell the whole story. IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 646 From: Boston,USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 17, 2011 09:39 PM
Betty_Boop I wholeheartedly agree " such as "who does X think he/she IS to treat me this way?" I really think this way about NN person I m not SUN or MARS I am PlutoIP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 17, 2011 09:46 PM
How interesting!!! ^I've never had Pluto on NN in synastry - Not mine and not theirs. But Pluto is a strong planet, a higher octave of Mars.. so I'm not surprised you are having this reaction. IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 646 From: Boston,USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 17, 2011 09:57 PM
Betty, what is more intersting, our baby has NATAL NN and PLUTO conjunction in a first house!!!! Can you belive it?IP: Logged |
ana_bee Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 17, 2017 07:17 AM
Both people feel it!! The planet person is always the one who gives the energy to the Node person. The node is like a vortex, and the planet gets sucked in. Both feel the attachment quiet strongly. It's always so irisistable and feels so fated. But here's the difference.. When it's the SN, so familiar territory, the SN person recognizes the planet person as someone who will readily provide to them.. whatever it is.. Usually it's love,, sex, friendship, energy, compliments, attention.. The SN person feels supported and very good around the planet person!! The planet person feels the attachment and also enjoys the position it gets in the SN person's life. They become part of the SN person's life journey! But after some time the planet person feels drained, if there is no contact to their own nodes!! When the karma is cleared, these people usually part ways. In case of the NN ... Both people feel the attachment as well, but since the NN is rather unfamiliar territory for the NN person, there is some reluctance on their part! So they do feel attracted to the planet person, but also repulsed and uneasy. The familiarity is not there yet!! So in this case the planet person becomes the pursuer! They sense their potential meaning in the NN parson's life. They want to give!! But it's up to the NN person, whether something happens or not! In case of angles to nodes.. This is something different!! Because they always work both ways! And the angles don't give of energy like planets do!! The angles are also developmental points. So when these points touch the nodes, it's pure chemistry! These two people get locked together. This of course does not mean that their meant to be forever! There is not one single aspect that could predict that! But an angle/node connection can be very powerful!! The best connection would be, if both people's nodal axis gets activated! Then the relationship becomes more balanced. Both people become very significant in each other's journey.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 72038 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 17, 2017 08:24 AM
I think they both feel the THEME of the relationship when it is a NN/planet aspect. I think the planet person BRINGS the theme to the relationship and they both live with it, for better or worse, my Friend.------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Kannon McAfee Moderator Posts: 2762 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 17, 2017 12:40 PM
Moving this to Interpersonal Astrology where synastry topics belong.------------------ The Declinations Guy > Expert birth chart rectification > Rising Sign Descriptions ♈ ♉ ♊ ♋ ♌ ♍ ♎ ♏ ♐ ♑ ♒ ♓ IP: Logged |