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Topic: Taurus Male Taurus Female
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Stephenie
Newflake Posts: 8
From: San Luis Obispo, Ca USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 17, 2011 08:39 PM
  
Well, I am 23 a taurus. I don't know all of my aspects too well. I was born May 14, 1987 at 535 am. Yreka, Cal. I recently met a taurus male, his birthday is the day after mine! I took a yoga class, he was the teacher. When I first took a class from him I got a strange feeling. I didn't want to come back to his class. But one day I came to a class at the same studio expecting the usual teacher, and to my surprise he was there substituting. Well, it was strange but after the class I stayed. Not intending to. I felt like I could see him, I mean like I understood his energy and knew why he did what he did. I called "him out" (as he put it later) on many things, and it was pretty shocked. He thought i was phsyic or something. He took MY number, of course, pointing out that he would not give his. On his terms, no? Well, I just accepted it, smiled and went on my way. It took him about a week or less to contact me, in text message. Well we hung out and the conversation was interesting. It was strange for both of us after awhile ,but we liked it- not having to say anything, but "knowing" the other. yet there was just this feeling that perhaps things were a bit off. some sort of caution. I don't know. We are both equally cautious, although I am a but more "genuine" about it or up front.
Eh sigh, it's such a long story.. but one day we were supposed to hang out and I was with a friend, my ex, and he knew this. I openly told him what i was doing and who with, so he would know. We went to a lunch that was a fundraiser for a man who recently got into a hang-gliding accident. The restaurant was giving all the profits to the family. My ex told me about it and I wanted to go. Well, when i was done i contacted him but he changed his mind about seeing me.. I left a note on his car. He lives at his parents and he is very weird about bringing people "home" and .. seriously wouldnt allow me to know anything about it or know where he lived. he even sort of gave the impresion that he did not live with his parents at first. Until later when he was so upset he had to talk to me about what was going on. it's rather silly.. Anyhow. I left a note on his car and waited by his house (for myself, because I lived 20 minutes away and didnt want to drive home then. plus I wanted to see him, and just felt relaxed right there). Well it's still just stipulation at this point, but he just flew off the handle (he had done that once or twice before) and said a bunch of things to be hurtful and pretty mcuh cut me out of his life. Well i tried to do what i could to make amends, understnd, and back off. I told him my feelings and to my face he cruely said I don't like you. It was quite hurtful. But I felt like I understood where he came from, and nonetheless I just didn't try to see him after that. I did text him a few times, and asked to see him once. He refused.
Well, suddenly here he is now.. Contacting me. casually. I told him I would like this if i knew it was genuine! "You're right.. I'm a fake" he says. so, I was straightforward and told him that i could not deal with this unless he planned to make up for it some how. and to be light hearted, i then said.. on the other hand we can just make it easy, say forget about it all, and go for a walk. Eh. I know that I have done this before someone.. where i disappear for awhile, then come back..disappear..come back. Etc. I take the time to understand my feelings and needs before I approach this.
I am patient. I just wonder I suppose.
I really do miss him sometimes. even though i am now spending time with my ex. again.Well anyhow, any advice or thoughts. Anything is welcomes. thanks. Stephenie IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2011 08:41 PM
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Stephenie
Newflake Posts: 8
From: San Luis Obispo, Ca USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 17, 2011 08:44 PM
Thank you ^^)IP: Logged |
hmm
Knowflake Posts: 130
From:
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 18, 2011 04:49 PM
lol, you're just a day older than me : ))
i have a sag moon, not scorpio though....wanna trade??hmm,
taurus taurus.
i think when those two come together, they both sense that this will lead to an unbreakable comminment (even if things are bad).
once you guys are hitched that's it.
sensing this, if one of you has any doubts or if there is a small part that's not ready for somehting so serious, then they will run. being a taurus, i'm sure you know you can't force anything on us, including commitment. the less space you give him, the less interested he's going to be. i haven't come across too many tauruses (esp guys)...but the couple i have...it's always like we avoid each other, avoid, avoid, and out of nowhere we feel like an old married couple that's been together forever.
once i start getting the feeling i'm looking at myself in a mirror (just with a beard or w/e.) it gets weird and we go back to pretending like we never felt close, like we don't know each other, or see eachother, avoid eye contact, etc. i don't really feel any kind of passion with tauruses, but if i was going through a crisis and needed someone non judjmental, i'd only feel safe with taurus people.
however, you having scorpio moon, you and taurus people could have some success. advice....??idk....
he obviously has some commitment issues now, which is fine, but just realize that's something he has to work on by himself, so just leave him alone until he's 100% sure of what he wants.... ps. i only comented cuz we had close birthdays, not because i had something special to say ...lol :P
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Stephenie
Newflake Posts: 8
From: San Luis Obispo, Ca USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 18, 2011 11:15 PM
It's neat that we have birthdays that are so close. And your post was important enough! So Thank you for that. And well, ya. A scorpio moon, you say? I wonder- what is your source for finding this stuff out? I would like to learn more about it. Do you know what is said of "scorpio moon"? Well anyhow, I have been leaving him be. What else can I do, really? So I am focusing on my goals and so on right now. I just feel like it'll probably all pan out in the end, and whatever turns up is probably for the best. I know where I stand and my intentions, so that is enough for me I think. And it's also the best I can do! Well, life ^^ ) So fun (not sarcasm) =P So, about your experiences with taureans- By passion, can you articulate what you mean? I am interested. Thank you! IP: Logged |
Stephenie
Newflake Posts: 8
From: San Luis Obispo, Ca USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 18, 2011 11:24 PM
http://www.novareinna.com
Oh and you might like this site; it is unbelievably extensive and detailed, but one might want to take in account that it is also another perspective- a rather interesting one! Anyhow. enjoyIP: Logged |
Stephenie
Newflake Posts: 8
From: San Luis Obispo, Ca USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 18, 2011 11:39 PM
Are you sue my moon is not also sag ? what time where you born? IP: Logged |
hmm
Knowflake Posts: 130
From:
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 19, 2011 01:43 AM
i used http://www.0800-horoscope.com/birthchart.php ...it's not THAT great...but w/e.
for charts i go to astro.com ..they also have an interactive feature...which would probably be helpful for you.
i use the first website for people that i just want a quick view for
but you're right on the cusp. you'd have to know the exact details of where/when you were born to get the right answer. the passion...i've never dated a taurus, but imagining myself dating one of those guys, it seems like it's just be commtment for commitment sake.
and they feel more like big brothers to me. but like i said, if 10 yearrs down the line i needed help and haven't talked to them at all, i know i could show up at their door asking for help and they wouldn't think twice and vis-a-vis. but scorpio and taurus are opposites, so you guys would drive eachother wild. in ether a good or bad way...but more likely both....at the same time....lol if you're new, make a synastry or composite chart, i'm not an expert, but i wouldn't mind looking at it and i'm sure a couple of other people won't mind helping either..
or you could just look at the aspects and google them yourself.
most people here perfer using the astro.com website...
go to' my astro' (top right) and just take it from there if you're having problems just post your guys information and i'll do it for you...but you should learn how to do it yourself. LOL...argh...wth..i don't know why my posts end up being so long lately.....i didn't even say anything...
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Stephenie
Newflake Posts: 8
From: San Luis Obispo, Ca USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 19, 2011 10:55 PM
Yes, well. I have an astro page already. I have been on that site for some months now, and have had my chart done on it (not the full). It's good, I agree, but I suppose I am still curious. I have read quite a bit on astrology and synastry and so forth. However it some how still feels incomplete or not comprehensive enough!
There is an astrologist in my town that i was referred to. it is still in the back of my mid to go there and explore what she has to offer! I think she does a typical reading for $120 dollars. Not bad, I guess!
Anyhow, thank you for offering the help and suggestions. It's always good to collaborate and share ideas/experiences I think. My ex is a Libra/scorpio cuspian born 10/22/79 1254pm. I have known him for 10 years, and it's been.. interesting. he is a great friend, of course! But some aspects are questionable haha well.. I mean to say: I wonder how compatible we are at times. But then again, that goes without saying in most situations between people. Do you know much about that cuspian? I would like to hear what you have to share/say =) Well, thanks again Stephenie IP: Logged |
bonadea33
Knowflake Posts: 600
From: In The Hole
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted January 20, 2011 05:48 AM
Stephenie,I am a Taurus and I know that many of us are bit too slowly. Your new friend has disappeared. Maybe he has some problems and doesn't want to tell you? We don't tell so easy all about us, especially not to the person, we just met.
Typical Taurus must be sure that other person is the right one; otherwise he (or she) doesn't lose the time.
If you really like him, he will come back. Give him some time. Wish you good luck,
Bobbie
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