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Topic: Does anyone else have Juno in the 12th?
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staborgi
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posted January 21, 2011 08:44 PM
  
How has it worked out for you? What have been your experiences with relationships? I just realized I'm always (initially unknowingly) attracted to people I think I can save, "victims" in some sense, people who live some very important aspect of their life in secret or seclusion, but who I feel a totally mystical bond to. There's something about my deepest relationships with men that forces me to do the work, they seem very Neptunian- dreamy, romantic, but incapable. I just found out the man I'm in love with has some serious drug problems that he was hiding from me up until now but I finally was able to get my head out of the clouds and put the pieces together. I don't know what's going to happen from here but I know the 12th house is also associated with sacrifice...in the past I have had to let go of relationships and take the high road it felt like...although I'm young and there haven't been that many serious ones. He's probably the first I really love. Anyway, would love to hear some experiences!IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 349
From: California
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 23, 2011 04:04 AM
I have Juno in Taurus in the 12th house, but I'm not sure what that means. I've only been in one serious relationship...at my young age, 22, I have an image in my head that I want for my future. A dream that one day I'm with the love of my life, working at our relationship, love conquering all, with kids, a house, and happiness and stability of being with each other. That's what I want. Maybe that's idealistic and indicative of the Juno in 12th, or my Neptune in the 7th house. It's not that uncommon to find those who have smoked weed but yes I do see them as victims if they tell me they smoke to "forget." That's trying to forget reality and it's irresponsible in a sense. My ex was like that. I myself, although I have a 12th house stellium, don't get addicted easily to anything. IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 349
From: California
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 23, 2011 04:07 AM
I do give my all in a relationship. I have a Scorpio Moon. Once I can trust I give my all so I don't trust easily. But I just learned the hard way that maybe it isn't best to give your all because you never know what will happen in the relationship. I regret it now.IP: Logged |
allouette
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 23, 2011 06:29 AM
my juno is in the 12th house, but i'm not attracted at all by the 'victim' archetype, i actually like men that are powerful, more precisely men that have their sensitive side, but somehow overcame it and are "in control".
what i've noticed is that juno doesn't really work for me (mine is in taurus and never liked any taurus, even if know 3 of them with their sun on my juno) BUT it definitely works for men. almost all the men that liked me and even wanted to marry me had their juno on my sun or on my venus/mars. it also works in transits.
if i think what type of man i like i look at my sun cj pluto = i like powerful men, at the ruler of the 7th = jupiter = i like foreigners, at saturn in scorpio = i like scorpios 
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LadyAries*
Knowflake Posts: 80
From: Saturn
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 23, 2011 10:06 AM
My Juno is in Taurus and in the 12th house.I am always attracted to people I think I can "save". I am literally so self sacrificing that it becomes my self-undoing. I am 22 as well, so I guess I have much to learn still. My Juno is very strong in my chart.
Conjunct Jupiter
Square Mars
Opposite Pluto
Trine Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune. I'm not sure what all that means yet, but I can relate to everyone's post. IP: Logged |
lunagoatlion
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posted January 23, 2011 12:48 PM
I am 35 and I have Juno in Cancer in the 12th house.I always attract and have, in the past been attracted to, men who were somewhat depressed and down on their luck. Many of them were starving artists while I am a corporate dynamo. Two had marijuana issues (one was a doctor and one was a rocker who dabbled in harder drugs, too), three lost parents at a young age (doctor, scientist, and personal trainer) and had heavy issues because of that, and one was a sex addict (the scientist) and I didn't know about it until we had been together for two years. Needless to say, I left immediately.Yes, I've attracted men who need to be rescued, which I am now completely against. I think that my Cancer sun coupled with my Cancer Juno (both in the 12th, along with my Cancer mercury and saturn) falsely interprets emotional struggle/vulnerability as depth. I am guarding myself against this tendency as much as possible now because Pluto is trine my Venus until the end of December 2012 and an astrologer told me that I was going to meet the man I would marry when the sun is in Aquarius or before August of this year (horary question that said 7 weeks or 7 months). We will see. I want to make better decisions about love and need to stop equating a victim mentality/pessimism with depth. The Cancerian desire to feel needed contributes to this. Like you, I initially don't realize the men are like this, but the fact that I'm attracting them makes me question my inner core and what I'm knowingly or unknowingly putting out there. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Cancer sun, mercury, Saturn, and Juno in the 12th house
Venus in Virgo in the 2nd
Moon in Capricorn in the 6th (more self-sacrificing)
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staborgi
Knowflake Posts: 471
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 23, 2011 05:10 PM
I'm finding that Juno doesn't really have to do with that I am attracted to consciously. If I were to describe my "dream man" I would never say that it is someone who I think I can save. It's more like other things attract me to the person (I have Mars/Pluto in 7th so usually its a sexual impulse) and later I find that they are pretty 12th housey/Pisces like...BUT like you guys have mentioned- I end up giving a lot- I feel like I give my whole self up in a way. I've found that I can't consider my own ego gratifying needs in partnerships. Circumstances always work out so that I have to let go of that. Usually I do it willingly, but it can be frustrating sometimes (my Juno is square my Sun, but it is trine my Mars). I don't "get my way." The relationship ends up being based on deep sympathy that surpasses ego stuff. I totally agree with lunagoatlion though that I probably need to stop equating emotional struggle with depth. SPOT ON. I do that ALL THE TIME. Even if I have not had a lot of serious relationships, I reject relationships with men if I do not see some sign of vulnerability or emotional struggle in them. Somehow this convinces me that they are deep and real and not full of b.s. instead of thinking- HEY, you're about to take on a relationship with someone who needs your constant help and who wont necessarily be able to do the same for you! IP: Logged |
lunagoatlion
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posted January 23, 2011 05:22 PM
How old are you staborgi? I'm just wondering if you're in your thirties or older because I finally understood, or rather, realized, in my thirties that being with someone who is always struggling does nothing but drain me. I used to get a warm, cuddly feeling within from any man that seemed to really need me. Now, I'm so over it. If a man can't bring something equal or greater to the table, I'm not interested. Emotional vampires are just not my thing anymore.IP: Logged |
staborgi
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 23, 2011 06:11 PM
I'm 23! I've noticed the pattern you're talking about but probably have awhile before I reach your maturity level about it :/IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 589
From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 13, 2013 06:15 AM
I'm thinking that Juno has more to do with your attitude towards committment and, unlike Saturn(where you commit because you want to make a "success" of something), Juno is where you commit with your heart and is extremely sentimental.Juno is the person you love, always will love and will defend vehemently when others talk of them badly. Juno is currently transiting my Midheaven and so, this could mean that , at the moment, I am committed to personal goals and have my heart set therein. My personal goals and the attainment of which , is something I feel personaly invested in. At the time of my birth, however, Juno was transiting my 12th house. I tend to be committed to friends who are strongly Neptunian in outlook. My best friend for many years has his Moon, mercury and Mars in Pisces. Add to that, his Neptune is in the 12th house. My other friend has Sun, Moon in Pisces. My BF has Sun, Moon in 12th house. I tend to form long-lasting commitments with 12th house/Pisces People or those with strong Neptune aspects to Moon and Sun. I'm not 'inlove' with my BF just yet, but I wouldn't be suprised if I marry someone with these above aspects highlighted(or atleast love them for yonkers).
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