posted January 23, 2011 01:12 AM
I was just wondering if the people who are in what they would consider to be good relationships have aspects in synastry that are considered "bad" or "challenging". How they have (or haven't they) played out during the course of the relationship?For example, with the man I am seeing now, we have the dreaded Venus square Neptune and I am the Neptune person. Well, I am not being deceptive or manipulative but, I can see how the daydreaming and fantasy stuff takes up a lot of his time (yeah, just his, , plus Neptune rules his 7th) and I can definitely see the pedestal I can standing on. But it is very sweet and romantic. I just thank goodness we have lots of tight, positive Saturn stuff.
I just think it is important that we discuss the positive side of "bad" aspects because I did a search the other night for some of the Neptune squares in our chart and I just kept finding out that I am a fraud, a charlatan! I can just imagine what the people with Pluto squares must be reading so I just want to get some good stuff out there.
So, what is going on in your synastry charts? Let's hear about those "awful" squares, oppositions and quincunxes!