posted January 23, 2011 07:35 PM            

I found this. Im going to read this more, before I comment.

Ready or not, Saturn makes you grow up. Saturn ages whatever it touches. This works in natal astrology as well. The planets that Saturn contacts through synastry, or in your natal chart, get a mature attitude. If you don’t want to grow up, you might reject Saturn’s energy. You may resist responsibility and maturity and feel that people are holding you back. You may resist forming lasting connections with people.

What grows up:

Sun-Saturn: The Sun person learns to be a more mature version of who he is. He comes into his own.

Moon-Saturn: The Moon person gains emotional maturity and no longer gives in to child-like emotional displays.

Mercury-Saturn: The Mercury person learns to communicate like an adult.

Venus-Saturn: The Venus person learns what it’s like to be in a mature relationship.

Mars-Saturn: The Mars person learns to act like an adult.

Jupiter-Saturn: The Jupiter person learns about realistic optimism and expectations.

Saturn-Saturn: These two Saturns learn about shared responsibility and equal dedication.

Uranus-Saturn: The Uranus person learns to temper the urge for freedom with the need to establish ties.

Neptune-Saturn: The Neptune person learns the limits of illusion, fantasy and idealism.

posted January 23, 2011 08:40 PM            

we have:

her saturn:

trine my sun
square my venus
conjunct my uranus
oppose my Jupiter

my Saturn:

Conjunct her DSC
Square her venus
wide conjunction to her uranus.

in our relationship, i am seem to fulfill the saturn role much stronger.

this must be because -

i have saturn square venus natally.
saturn trine mars.
saturn square moon.
saturn oppose jupiter/conjuct neptune.
Saturn in the 5th.

in her chart she has saturn conjunct mars
conjuct uranus.
possibly a Wide square ot venus (7 orb)

but she has moon in capricorn and DSC in capricorn.

shes older than me but the reality is, my demeanour is of a mature standard more often than hers

posted January 23, 2011 09:18 PM            

Kat

posted January 23, 2011 09:56 PM            

Im actually surprised here.. Wow my Saturn really hits most of his planets... So Im confused I wonder did/is he learning things? Or am I some how making him grow up?

First his Saturn conjuncts my dsc.. I did learn or figure out what I need to do in relationships... I also learned what I need out of relationships.. but im not totally there yet.. Still working on it..

We also have Saturn sq Saturn..
Saturn-Saturn: These two Saturns learn about shared responsibility and equal dedication.

wow... this is to hard to explain, but it does make sense...

Both way Saturn Sq NN (not on the list)
my Saturn to his NN 0.28
his Saturn to my NN 0.18
I can say, that now I am on a different path and I will not be the same after this.. Not sure about him..

In all his Saturn to me
saturn sq saturn
saturn sq neptune
saturn sq NN
saturn bq Chiron
saturn parallel asc
saturn sq MC

Now me to him... lol here where it gets funny
sq Mercury
quix venus
trine mars
contra parallel jupiter
sq saturn
quix Uranus
parallel neptune
conjunct pluto
sq NN
Contra parrallel chiron
sq Asc

posted January 24, 2011 12:13 AM            

I'm fascinated by how I have oodles of lessons with some important people in my life, yet minimal ones with other, or at least mutual surmountable ones.

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example..

My mother is here to teach me:
1) about realistic optimism and expectations - my Jupiter opposite her Saturn

2) how to temper the urge for freedom with the need to establish ties - my Uranus trine her Saturn

3) about the limits of power struggles in a relationship - my Pluto square her Saturn

I am here to teach her:
1) what it’s like to be in a mature relationship - her Venus conjunct my Saturn

posted January 24, 2011 12:24 AM            

I know we had major lessons to be learned, and I am sure we still do...all in all I think we have the majority of them between us resolved...I hope anyway!

Kat

posted January 24, 2011 12:41 AM            

I think maybe we have learned what we needed to learn, by having the communication. Now we have to learn how to be with out each other but still deal with each other...

Also I think that both way Saturn NN is happening, sending us on paths we are suppose to be on, even though its different paths.

Also that Saturn sq Saturn... W have shared responsibility, but not equal dedication. IDK but to me it sounds like we both have to find a middle ground to agree on.. We have tried, but I gave in more to him, then him to me.. SO I met him his way... I learned not to do that crap again... lol

I do know he would have never walked away from a friendship with me... I know I had to be the one to end it...
I know its going to have some type of effect on him.. He probably wont ever show it or tell me about it, but I know he's effected by it..

posted January 24, 2011 10:29 PM            

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted January 24, 2011 10:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
How about a two way double whammy of Sun square Saturn ZERO and ONE degrees both ways. WHOA!

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Sounds scary.... Im still trying to get away, from that Saturn on my Dsc... Its seems nearly impossible..

My ex husband Saturn was on my Asc... Omg.. now that I look back, he made me so boring!!! But I do grow up and become EXTREMELY responsible. I had no choice..

posted January 24, 2011 10:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Having your Saturn on someone's Dsc is such a vulnerable position..you feel like the other person is going to reject you (venus/saturn) or you reject and/or criticize 1st to avoid that feeling.

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