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Topic: Bad Synastry, yet compatible?
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vertiver
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From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 26, 2011 01:33 AM
  
For the past two years I've basically been smitten for my best friend who happens to be only 3 weeks younger than me. Were both Leo Suns and we both have Water Moons Pisces & Scorpio and our ascendants are trine- he has Leo ASC. I have Sag. ASC. But besides that the synastry isn't that great, there are no great Moon connections or Venus conjunctions, etc. But yet I've never had the same chemistry and feelings that I get when I'm with him and trust me I've dated quite a bit since we first met.  IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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From: canada
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 26, 2011 02:59 AM
compo moon conjunct amor? i'm not a huge asteroid person but my last two relationships have involved an exact conjunction to my amor (mars and now mercury) and i REALLY think there is something to it, as what appeals most to me about these two guys is thir direct, no holds barred approach to me (previous) and forward way of speaking to me (current). my amor is in aries. IP: Logged |
winter
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From: Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 26, 2011 03:29 AM
I’m not sure what determines bad synastry but when the situation crops up that the undeniable attraction is not explained by the synastry I always look for contacts to the midpoints, most importantly the Sun/Moon. The orbs on those contacts need to be tight and the degrees are not displayed but it looks pretty much like your Venus ruled MC is his Sun/Moon.And it also looks like his MC (also ruled by Venus) is your Venus/Mars, and your Jupiter is his Venus/Mars. Looks nice to me.
Go for it. 
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vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1059
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 26, 2011 12:13 PM
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Originally posted by woah cakes:
compo moon conjunct amor?
Yes, I forgot about the composite... The composite Moon is exactly conjunct Amor in Capricorn in the 3rd H, and Juno is conjunct the MC. Not sure what that means? I'm a bit of a pesimist though. Were both not inclined to do the whole dating thing, so this relationship at the most would became frequent friends with benefits. He lives out of town which is a bummer. IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1059
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 26, 2011 12:22 PM
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Originally posted by winter:
The orbs on those contacts need to be tight and the degrees are not displayed but it looks pretty much like your Venus ruled MC is his Sun/Moon.And it also looks like his MC (also ruled by Venus) is your Venus/Mars, and your Jupiter is his Venus/Mars. Looks nice to me.
Go for it.
Oh your right his Sun/Moon mid is at 10 degrees Libra, so the orb is 3 degrees from cojuncting my MC, is that tight enough? It looks like my Sun/Moon mid is conjunct his Venus/Mars mid, can two midpoints be conjunct? Oh and his P. of Fortune is conjunct my Venus/Mars mid. not sure if that is significant or not but the composite between us is frightening as well... IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1059
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 27, 2011 12:24 PM
Here is the composite, not that anyone will be interested. I know its self-indulgent to talk about synastry, but I'm not bragging, I mean look at this composite, Libra is the ASC. and Venus is so afflicted, it would scary if this was a persons natal.  IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted January 27, 2011 01:03 PM
Looks great to me (the synastry, I don't really read composites)--what's keeping you two from hooking up romantically?Edited: when I say, "looks great", I mean his Mars loosely conjunct your IC, your Sun-Merc loosely conjunct his ASC...or is it loose? Sorry, I have foggy vision and three brain cells today. But that Mars-IC would bring a sense of passionate belonging. And, I'm not one of those people who discounts generational conjunctions, I think Saturn-Saturn and NN-NN, for example, can make things really sticky and long-term. IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1059
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 27, 2011 06:12 PM
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Originally posted by Lucia23:
When I say, "looks great", I mean his Mars loosely conjunct your IC, your Sun-Merc loosely conjunct his ASC...or is it loose? But that Mars-IC would bring a sense of passionate belonging. And, I'm not one of those people who discounts generational conjunctions, I think Saturn-Saturn and NN-NN, for example, can make things really sticky and long-term.
The Sun/ASC. conjunction is at a orb of 4, so somewhat tight? I think what is keeping us up from hooking up is immaturity. When we first met, we bonded instantly (Mars/IC conjunction maybe?), but I was really unexperienced at the time, so I never really specified that we were dating, etc. But not until recently have we actually had sex, so now this whole new thing has started.
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Lucia23
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posted January 27, 2011 10:23 PM
Wait, so you have had sex with each other? Or you've both only recently become sexually active period, but not with each other? Inquiring minds want to know!!Anyway, I think it looks like fun. IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1059
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 27, 2011 10:50 PM
Haha, yes we had sex with eachother. So the whole only friends thing is out of the question. And it was awesome, for some reason I seem to have the best sex with Leo Suns. IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted January 27, 2011 10:53 PM
It could have some long term potential, I think, if you and your Pisces Moon feel ready for a long term thing.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 27, 2011 10:58 PM
Ahhh.. I wish I could meet a leo, that I could connect with... Me and other Leo's hummm too much fire... IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy
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From: US
Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 27, 2011 10:59 PM
Well your sun and mercury fall into his 12th house, which is usually an indication of a past life connection, correct? Do you have a lot of psychic intuition with this guy? I imagine that would also be magnified with your moon falling into his early 8th house (a lot of people would interpret that as the 7th, but considering the sexual connection I'm going to side with it being in the 8th house) - it being in pisces would certainly make for a very other worldly experience. Also, as someone else said, his Mars loosely circling around your IC.. yet another deep sexual aspect, especially on your part. His ascendant and sun falls into your 8th house. Damn dude. This definitely looks like it would be a fun connection to say the least! IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1059
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 27, 2011 11:07 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Ahhh.. I wish I could meet a leo, that I could connect with... Me and other Leo's hummm too much fire...
I don't know what it is, but I'm like a Leo Sun or ASC. magnet. I've had sex with 3 Leo Suns and one Leo ASC. that I know of, but this one by far, I'm the most physically compatible with, he is 6'4 and I'm tall myself so its like giant Leo Sun extravaganza. IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1059
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 27, 2011 11:11 PM
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Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
Do you have a lot of psychic intuition with this guy?
Wow, you made it sound so mystical and romantic Kennedy. We share a great sense of humor, I can't say I have a psychic intuition with him, unless I'm not aware of it. But he is the one of the only guys that I can gauge if he is feeling uncomfortable, etc... So I guess that is something, and the Mars-IC must explain the instant attraction, with this weird sense of familarity. IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted January 27, 2011 11:46 PM
Haha, it doesn't really take big intuition or a deep psychic connection for Leos to understand each other...we're simple folk. (Even those of us with 8th house stellia/water moons.) With two Aries Mars-es, I'm surprised a couple of weeks ever passed before you became not-just-friends. IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1059
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 28, 2011 12:02 AM
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Originally posted by Lucia23:
Haha, it doesn't really take big intuition or a deep psychic connection for Leos to understand each other...we're simple folk.
Yes, we share a lot with fellow Aries, were straight forward folk. So I'm guessing you've had your fair share of Leos? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 28, 2011 12:48 AM
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Originally posted by vertiver:
I don't know what it is, but I'm like a Leo Sun or ASC. magnet. I've had sex with 3 Leo Suns and one Leo ASC. that I know of, but this one by far, I'm the most physically compatible with, he is 6'4 and I'm tall myself so its like giant Leo Sun extravaganza.
Me and Leo men is a no no... I have one LEo male friend... but thats rare... I usually dont get along with Leo Men.. Im ok with Leo women, not men.. Shrug weird I know... As for that 12th house.. OOO... IDK what to say about that.. It took me along time, to be able to handle the 12th house synastry.. It really had my head going in spirals. I was annoyed, yet deeply intrigued.. but very afraid.. Its been a life changing experiences either way though... I will never forget this..
Im almost a better person (yeah right!) lol
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Lucia23
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posted January 28, 2011 02:01 AM
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So I'm guessing you've had your fair share of Leos?
Not yet! Lots of Leo friends, but never a lover. I'm convinced if I met the right one, I'd be so happy doing the Leo-Leo thing. IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1059
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 28, 2011 01:14 PM
Haha, well its not to late to meet a Leo lover. I suggest going for a Leo Sun with a Water Moon though. I've never been romantically involved with an Aries or even a Sag. Just Leos, which is weird. I thought I'd always go for a Sag. But they kinda annoy me, lol! IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted January 28, 2011 01:55 PM
I just had my heart broken by an Aries, but I would do the Ram thing all over again. He was just so....fiery! In some ways I bet Leo/Aries is easier than Leo/Leo...because that way there's just one Leo in the relationship. Aries can be the winner and Leo can be the most adored. But a Leo would be nice because Aries is always leaping between tall buildings. I always felt less brave than him. IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1059
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 28, 2011 11:40 PM
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Originally posted by Lucia23:
I just had my heart broken by an Aries, but I would do the Ram thing all over again. He was just so....fiery! In some ways I bet Leo/Aries is easier than Leo/Leo...because that way there's just one Leo in the relationship. Aries can be the winner and Leo can be the most adored. But a Leo would be nice because Aries is always leaping between tall buildings. I always felt less brave than him.
Yeah that is true, now that I think about I'm always adoring the other Leo and getting nothing in return. But that is true with most dudes in my case, they just have issues in their 20's lol! IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted January 28, 2011 11:49 PM
I bet this guy with his watery Moon and Venus adores you.IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1059
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 29, 2011 03:54 PM
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Originally posted by Lucia23:
I bet this guy with his watery Moon and Venus adores you.
Oh I wish, but he is already being flakey. I knew it was too good to be true. But at least I have a back up or I think I do? IP: Logged |
Taurus81
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From: in a copper apple on a tree in neverland...
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 29, 2011 04:41 PM
are you experienced with transposing houses? his sun is in your 8th for oneIP: Logged |
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