posted February 05, 2011 11:31 AM            

go to Thefutureminders.com and sign up. Once you log in you will see "Astro Reports" in the top right corner. Click on thay. Then at the top of the page click on "Free Personalized reports."

then select the Compatibility and Romance report and fill out your birth data and the data of somebody else.

It's amazing, it tells you what aspects you have in common with someone

example:

quote:

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Both of you have Sun conjunct or in hard aspect to Neptune:

Both of you are dreamers, and your imagination and inner
world are apt to be just as real to you as anything "out there".
The use of fantasy, imagery, or an ability to connect with the
unseen or intangible world can be an important part of your
lives.

Both of you are also extremely sensitive, psychically open
and receptive - too much so at times. You may seek to avoid or
escape from the harsher or more mundane realities of existence.
At its worst, your relationship could become a mutual attempt to
live in a make-believe world. At your finest, you could
encourage one another's spiritual development and creative or
artistic gifts.

Both of you have Mars conjunct or in hard aspect to Neptune:

Both of you struggle with feelings of discouragement,
self-doubt, and lack of confidence in your ability to stand up
for yourselves. Avoiding direct confrontation, you may allow
yourselves to be dominated, or you may find subtle, underhanded
ways to get what you want. You both fear losing or being a
failure so much that you may simply not compete. On the other
hand, both of you tend to idealize masculine strength, power,
competition, and maleness in general - all qualities that, deep
down, neither of you feels you have enough of.

Mercury & Uranus hard or conj for mabel, soft for M:

Both of you have inspired minds and are always open to new
angles, novel or experimental ideas, alternative approaches.
mabel is more of a radical, however, and is frequently impatient
and contrary to anything which impedes change and progress.
mabel feels compelled to wake people up a bit and doesn't mind
startling or even outraging others from time to time. M, on the
other hand, integrates new ideas without necessarily rejecting
the old and traditional, or offending more conservative people.

While both of you are interested in stimulating fresh ideas
and approaches, M communicates these ideas with more tact and
smoothness - something mabel could learn from M.

Mars & Pluto hard or conj for mabel, soft for M:

Both of you can be very passionate and driven, and work or
achievement can become an obsession for you. Whenever a desire
makes itself felt in either of you, tremendous energy is
released and you will pour yourself wholeheartedly, even
compulsively, into fulfilling it - sometimes to the detriment of
your health, relationships, or other areas of your lives. Using
force and will appropriately, is easier for M than for mabel.
When mabel's will or desires are blocked, mabel is prone to
become intensely angry, and possibly destructive. mabel wrestles
with the destructive side of anger, and may fear anger and/or
claiming personal power. The tendency to block rage and the
necessity of learning to release it in constructive ways is one
of mabel's lessons - something M may well be able to help with.

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BUT WAIT !!! That's not all !!!

It can also be used as a natal report. I love it for that, too.

Check it out, what you do is you put YOUR information for both of the profiles. So then it describes just your important natal aspects because it thinks you've found someone who has all the same aspects as you, lol.

Example:

quote:

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Both of you have Sun conjunct or in hard aspect to Neptune:

Both of you are dreamers, and your imagination and inner
world are apt to be just as real to you as anything "out there".
The use of fantasy, imagery, or an ability to connect with the
unseen or intangible world can be an important part of your
lives.

Both of you are also extremely sensitive, psychically open
and receptive - too much so at times. You may seek to avoid or
escape from the harsher or more mundane realities of existence.
At its worst, your relationship could become a mutual attempt to
live in a make-believe world. At your finest, you could
encourage one another's spiritual development and creative or
artistic gifts.

Both of you have Sun trine or sextile Pluto:

Both of you are passionate, intense, and wholehearted about
whatever you are doing, and you won't gladly spend time and
energy on superficial things that you don't really care about.
You are very focused, one-pointed, and fixated upon your
objectives, and don't want anyone to interfere with you. You're
apt to enjoy one another's intensity, to understand and respect
it. Both of you are also drawn to esoteric knowledge and the
mysterious side of life.

Both of you have Mercury conjunct or in hard aspect to Uranus:

Both of you have ideas that are very innovative and
progressive, and somewhat ahead of your times. You share a keen
interest in scientific discovery, physics, radically new
technologies, electronics, and/or esoteric sciences (like
astrology) that bridge the gap between soul and body. Each of
you is prone to lightning-quick realizations and intuitive
insights, and you both have a tendency to get over-stimulated or
overloaded with information and ideas. You both tend to be a bit
high-strung and sensitive to stress, and would benefit from
unplugging the television and stereo sometimes, and regularly
cultivating peace and inner stillness.

Both of you have Venus conjunct, trine, or sextile Mars:

Both of you are warmly affectionate, passionate, expressive
creatures and you need the flame of romance to be burning
brightly in your lives in order to be happy. Physical
love-making is extremely important to both of you, an essential
aspect of your vitality and self-expression. Fortunately, you
have in one another a companion who is as ardent as you are.

Both of you have Venus conjunct or in hard aspect to Saturn:

Both of you at times can seem cool, emotionally distant and
unavailable, or disinterested in people, but this is only a
mask. Inwardly, you are apt to feel unlovable, unworthy, or
simply afraid to open up and share yourselves. A fear of
rejection inhibits your expression of love and affection, and it
may seem to you that relationships are too troublesome and too
painful to bother with. Security may become extremely important
to you, so that you are apt to choose "safe", reliable people to
be with -perhaps individuals who are older or more established
and settled than you are. Learning to be more playful, and to
overcome your fears of intimacy and your tendency to isolate
yourselves, are challenges in life that you have in common. In
one another, you may have found a wonderful friend who
understands your shy heart and your loneliness. You also have
come across one who will mirror for you some of your own most
difficult life lessons.

Both of you have Venus conjunct or in hard aspect to Neptune:

Both of you have very idealized, romanticized images of
love, and love-yearnings which no ordinary mortal can fully
satisfy. Fantasies of the perfect lover or true "soul mate"
often color your attitudes towards the people in your lives, and
you both are apt to have experienced some disillusionment and
disappointment in trying to live out these dreams. You perhaps
see only what you wish to see when it comes to other people,
particularly those you are romantically attracted to. You may
find that real human beings do not want to be put on a pedestal
and adored, but accepted with all of their limitations. You may
believe self-sacrifice and love are synonymous - with disastrous
effects!

Both of you are attracted to people who have an angelic,
unearthly quality, people who are highly artistic, very
sensitive, or who are spiritually inclined. You may long for
someone who is unattainable to you, in part to avoid having a
concrete relationship with anyone! Both of you tend to have
phantom loves - people you dream about but never actualize a
relationship with.

At best, the two of you could share your great love of
beauty and your devotion to the Beauty or Divinity inside each
person. A common spiritual path may well be the "glue" - or at
least an important part of it - in this relationship.
Both of you have Venus conjunct or in hard aspect to Pluto:

For both of you, love is an intense, deep, all-consuming
experience which will take you both to heaven and to hell! Each
of you is learning about love and sexuality, and how to use your
magnetic or attractive powers in a positive way. Issues of
control, power, and surrender, of possessiveness, trust, and
jealousy, and of the potential for healing inner, psychic wounds
through loving and being loved will arise again and again for
each of you, no matter who you are with. However, together all
of these matters are intensified, so your relationship will no
doubt be a very "hot" one - nothing lukewarm about it! There is
apt to be a love-hate quality to your relationship as you
trigger one another's deepest needs, vulnerabilities, and hidden
or forbidden feelings. At least both of you have a "taste" for
this kind of intensity!

Both of you have Mars conjunct or in hard aspect to Neptune:

Both of you struggle with feelings of discouragement,
self-doubt, and lack of confidence in your ability to stand up
for yourselves. Avoiding direct confrontation, you may allow
yourselves to be dominated, or you may find subtle, underhanded
ways to get what you want. You both fear losing or being a
failure so much that you may simply not compete. On the other
hand, both of you tend to idealize masculine strength, power,
competition, and maleness in general - all qualities that, deep
down, neither of you feels you have enough of.

Both of you have Mars conjunct or in hard aspect to Pluto:

Both of you are intensely self-willed and can be
compulsively driven, controlling and domineering, whether you
realize and admit it or not. You both tend to overpower people,
or engage in relationships where fierce struggles over power,
competition, and personal ambition are the primary themes.
Relationships with men in particular are apt to be loaded with
these dynamics.

The obvious challenge for the two of you together would be
how to not make your relationship an arena for this type of
battle. This could easily spill over into the bedroom as well,
and take place on a subtle level.

Both of you have Saturn conjunct or in hard aspect to Neptune:

Both of you are prone to experience a lot of doubt, worry
over imaginary difficulties, and an overly acute sense of
spiritual duty which generates feelings of guilt or inadequacy
within you both from time to time. You both tend to be extremely
hard on yourselves when you cannot live your ideals. However,
all of this is likely to motivate you both to delve deeply into
spiritual questing, and to take the transcendental or inner
mysteries of life quite seriously.

At your finest, you can support one another during critical
or dark passages in your lives, and encourage one another as
fellow travelers on a spiritual journey. Try not to reinforce
one another's fears and doubts, however, as that too is a
potential here.

---

posted February 05, 2011 10:57 PM            

There are differences between you, though. Chris is quite
candid, often to the point of being blunt, though in a
good-natured manner, while Marielle is generally very diplomatic
and gracious. Chris has strong convictions and beliefs and
expresses them very openly, while Marielle may not take a strong
stance to avoid offending someone. Marielle is more personable
and more aware of other people's responses, while Chris is
cheerfully oblivious to others' responses and feelings at times.
Chris is sometimes boisterous and outrageous, while Marielle's
behavior is always in good taste.

Also, Marielle needs companionship and a lot of affection,
and may feel insecure without a close partner. Chris is more
independent and sometimes enjoys going off on a solitary
adventure.

Both of you have Moon conjunct, trine, or sextile Jupiter:

Both of you seem to have been born with the proverbial
silver spoon in your mouth, because you attract so many benefits
and so much good fortune into your lives. You share a leaning
towards optimism, hope, emotional generosity and good will,
which sows seeds of blessings in your lives.

Both of you would enjoy a big family, and even if the
number of your actual blood kin is not large, you will create a
large family of friends in your community, church, etc. The
desire to include everybody - to exclude no one - is something
you have in common.

Joint ventures are apt to be quite successful, especially
when you get a "little help from your friends".

Mercury & Saturn hard or conj for Chris, soft for Marielle:

Both of you tend to be deep thinkers, and are not impressed
with exaggerated claims. Realism and practicality are the
"bottom line" for both of you, when it comes to embracing or
rejecting an idea. Chris, however, tends to go to extremes with
this tendency and to become rather rigid, overly serious,
skeptical, and closed-minded. An obsession with details, hard
"proof", or examining all of the variables, can obscure rather
than illuminate the truth of a matter. Marielle, while also
predisposed to intellectual caution, is not nearly so
constricted.

Mercury & Neptune hard or conj for Marielle, soft for Chris:

Both of you have rich, active imaginations, but Chris is
much less likely to get immersed or lost in fantasy. Marielle,
on the other hand, sometimes has trouble staying grounded,
clear, and present. Imagination is a big part of Marielle's
life.

A common interest in art, creative writing, drama, or other
expressive art forms may be an important factor in your
relationship. Spiritual development and an attraction to
metaphysics may also be a key shared interest. Chris may be able
to help Marielle keep a sense of balance and proportion
regarding these things.

Venus & Pluto hard or conj for Marielle, soft for Chris:

For both of you, love is a highly-charged, intense matter
that is a potentially life-changing, transformative experience.
Intimacy and relationship make up the arena where you encounter
your deepest selves, including those aspects of your character
that you might prefer to remain hidden. However, for Chris, this
deep bonding and self-revelation are apt to be profoundly
satisfying and easier to surrender to, while Marielle is apt to
struggle with issues of power and control, fear of loss, lack of
trust, jealousy, and other deep feelings which can prevent these
relationships from proceeding smoothly. Together the two of you
could have a very deep sharing, if each of you is willing to
enter deeply into it. This won't be a casual or superficial
relationship.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

posted February 06, 2011 01:41 AM            

Both of you have Moon in hard aspect to Pluto:

You share a tendency to be emotionally fanatical and extremely intense, especially in regard to your mothers, your children, and the women you are closest to. Both of you are dealing with psychological wounds from an early loss,separation, or death, which tend to get re-stimulated every time you are intimate or vulnerable with another person. If you are not conscious of this, you may become either extremely controlling and manipulative, or the "victim" of another's emotional power games. You may feel that every intimate encounter is a life-and-death situation! Healing the pain fromyour past and resolving unfinished emotional business are truly necessary for either of you to have peace in your personal
lives.

posted February 08, 2011 08:38 PM            

soulful122,'s Sun in Sagittarius and H's Sun in Leo:

Warmth, enthusiasm, vitality, and joy are kindled when the
two of you are together, and there is great magnetism between
you. soulful122, draws H out, evoking the more light-hearted,
fun-loving side of H. soulful122, also keeps H from getting
stuck in a rut, introducing new ideas and experiences that H
enjoys. This is a mutually beneficial relationship which
promises lots of good times and a very active life together.

soulful122,'s frequent indifference or obliviousness to
others' personal feelings can result in blunt comments that
wound H's easily hurt pride. H is also more loyal than
soulful122, is, who tends to wander (in actuality and fantasy)
more than H does.

soulful122,'s Moon in Leo and H's Moon in Pisces:

soulful122,'s basic emotional tone is vibrant, sunny and
warm, while H's is dreamy and moody. soulful122, has an
underlying narcissistic streak and cannot bear to be ignored,
unappreciated, or considered mediocre. Often soulful122, will
exaggerate feelings, become loud, boisterous, and melodramatic
in order to get attention. There is a strong domineering or
controlling aspect to soulful122,'s character as well, which
makes soulful122, something of a household tyrant at times. H,
on the other hand, is very receptive and gentle, not aggressive,
not a fighter. Because H is so sympathetic and so readily
identifies with other people's feelings, H is inclined to give
up personal desires and rights in order to make the other person
happy. Thus a pattern may develop between you where soulful122,
is running the show and H constantly obliges or acquiesces to
soulful122,'s wishes. Compared to soulful122,, H may be
something of a door mat (especially if other astrological
factors do not indicate a strong will or strong sense of self).

Also, H is rather chameleon-like, emotionally speaking, and
is strongly influenced by the emotional atmosphere and inner
feelings of others in the environment, so when soulful122, is
up, the warmth and optimism raises H's mood considerably. But if
soulful122, is feeling negative, this is very debilitating to
H.

Moon & Mercury hard for H, soft or conj for soulful122,:

Both of you want and need to communicate on a personal
level quite a lot. H in particular is apt to get restless,
fidgety, and bored if there is not enough social and personal
interaction, and may find that trivial conversation, gossip,
television talk shows, and the like fill a need when no real
outlet for communicating intimately exists. H may be somewhat
addicted to talking without making a point!

soulful122, also alleviates stress by talking about it, but
not so compulsively.

Taking long walks together and enjoying one another's
conversation and observations could be a very pleasant aspect of
your relationship.

Moon & Saturn hard or conj for H, soft for soulful122,:

Both of you have a great need for security and emotional
stability in your lives. soulful122,, however, has a more
reliable base of family support and a solid sense of heritage
and tradition -things which H needs and is learning to develop.
Issues of trust, commitment and loyalty, which come naturally to
soulful122,, are areas that H struggles with. soulful122, can
give and teach much to H by being faithful, reliable, and a
constant, supportive force in H's life.

posted February 08, 2011 08:45 PM            

Chapter 1: On the Ascendant

Ascendant in Libra:

Together you will require peace and harmony away from the
maddening crowds. You will have a flair for artistic and
creative projects and can talk up a storm. Indecisions will
fluctuate from "yes" to "no" to "I don't know", and all within
the same breath, the more time you spend together. Legal careers
are a nice compliment to your temperaments, with the ability to
see both sides of a situation while remaining unbiased.

Since you both have wonderful sense of colors, decorating,
painting, drawing or any field that allows you to match patterns
with surroundings would be good for you to experiment in.
Diplomacy is a natural state of mind as well, and you are
endowed with good reasoning abilities and more tolerant natures
than most other couples.

Relationships that are not harmonious with a sense of
cooperation and above all becoming friends can really mess up
your internal wiring. Approval and recognition coming from each
other for work well done is a necessity for balancing your life
together. You are naturals at giving of yourself and when
unappreciated you wilt like a flower that has been stepped on.

Marriage is very important to you both, but you must look
before you leap into it because you have the tendency to marry
very quickly, and suffer the consequences of your impatient
quest until you can bear it no longer. You put your friendly and
enchanting face forward in a non-aggressive manner and you would
much rather make peace with people in an agreeable way which is
your approach to win people over to your side. Look to the house
where Venus is located to see where Money can be made, and where
you can share a luxurious lifestyle together.

Ascendant is in Libra, Aquarius Decanate

Ruled by the planet Uranus, together you have a strong
intellect and are governed by reason than emotions. Take a
project and systematically make it work because that is your
strong suit. Kindness and sympathy for people around you are
very positive traits, and should be utilized at every
opportunity to bring success back to you. Caution carried to
extremes promotes inaction, which is a danger as well.

Chapter 2: On the Midheaven: How you are seen as a couple

Midheaven in Cancer:

Since this is the most "visible" part of the composite
chart, it represents how you are actually seen in the world by
others. It represents your more outward or public face and where
you are likely to encounter success, and your reputation in the
world as a couple. Your mutual goals together will exhibit very
sensitive characteristics, retreating when feeling threatened
emotionally. You are psychic and receptive to everything in your
environment, and feel things on a deeper level than most other
people. Your responses to life situations are emotional rather
than intellectual which can have mixed results. Moods change
like the incoming and outgoing tide, and just as often. A career
that brings you into contact with the masses would be an
excellent career choice.

Making extreme changes in your life or going away from your
base of operations which you consider safe and secure is
detrimental to your well being. You keep a tight grip on people,
possessions, memories or sentimental objects. Your home and
domestic security is very significant to you and you run on pure
"instinct".

In connection to other people in your environment you are
very loyal, protective, supportive, loving, compassionate,
softhearted and sympathetic to their needs. People seek you out
in a time of crisis because they know you will understand and
provide help if at all possible. Perhaps they know you are just
a good listener. You will never forget the thoughtful or
thoughtless, kind or unkind things that are said and done to
you. You may forgive them, but never forget any injustice.

Mood wise, you drive people crazy with your open methods of
communication or your withdrawn nature that keeps in touch
through thought waves that others are supposed to understand,
and sometimes do.

The tenth house is the home of worldly aspirations and
attainment. This sector shows how you present yourself to the
public, and deeds for which you leave behind as your legacy, or
what you will be remembered for. The tenth has domain over the
profession, public offices held, and your reputation. The
combined energy of Cancer here, indicates that the two of you
will take great pride in whatever you do, nurturing each other
and the environment in which you live. You enjoy taking
responsibility and need respect for your self worth and
confidence. At the same time you will be very sensitive about
what you do and how it relates to your standing in the
community. Helping people, catering to peoples needs or caring
for home and domestic matters would be an ideal situation for
you both. Look to the house where the Moon is located to see
what kind of career you might choose, or how you will be
remembered.

This synastry is with myself lmao.

soulful122,'s Sun in Sagittarius and L's Sun in Sagittarius:

There is great camaraderie between you. A love of traveling
and a restless wanderlust are traits that you have in common.
Both of you are optimists and you love to shoot for the stars.
Minor details annoy you and pettiness is abhorrent to you. You
have a youthful enthusiasm, and have a spirited, progressive
outlook on life. With so much in common, you are able to have a
wonderful time together. Neither one of you takes life too
seriously, so you can count on having a lively relationship with
lots of variety, new adventure, and play. Both of you are also
rather philosophical and if you develop different philosophical
or religious viewpoints, you may find it difficult to feel
really close to each other! Also, both of you are often blunt
and lacking in subtlety and often oblivious or indifferent to
others' personal feelings, but fortunately neither of you is
insulted very easily. Overall, you are very well-matched in
terms of temperaments and interests. You will be good pals if
nothing else, and friendship is something you both prize as much
as romance.

soulful122,'s Moon in Leo and L's Moon in Leo:

Both of you love to be made to feel that you are very
special and important, the favorite, the best! Proud and
somewhat egotistical, you are sensitive to being ignored,
slighted, or put in the background. You need personal
recognition, appreciation, and respect very much, and you also
want to be associated only with people you admire and respect.

You both have a warm, sunny disposition, and you don't want
to acknowledge your own problems or weaknesses, so you generally
show only your bright face to the world.

Both of you are also rather theatrical, dramatizing or
exaggerating your own feelings or emotional responses. (If you
like something, you ADORE it. You're not just irritated, you're
ABSOLUTELY FURIOUS, etc.). This is one way that you dominate,
overpower, or try to control (in a subtle way) the people
closest to you.

You are both strong individuals and the obvious problem you
will face together is: Who's the boss? If either or both of you
are too insecure to be able to share the limelight with someone
else, you will not be very happy together. On the other hand, if
you are secure in your own worth, you are likely to admire one
another enormously.

Both of you have Sun trine or sextile Jupiter:

Things come easily to both of you. Opportunities and
support on many levels simply seem to flow to you both without
great strain or effort on your part. An innate faith that
everything will work out favorably is something the two of you
possess. You often rely on luck, grace, or the beneficence of
the Universe to provide what you need.

An urge to travel, to learn, and to experience as much of
the wonder of the world as possible is also something you
share.

Both of you have Moon conjunct, trine, or sextile Mercury:

Both of you have a great facility for writing, learning
languages, and for articulating what others may only feel or
vaguely grasp. Putting feelings into words is a gift both of you
possess.

You're also apt to share an interest in the past, in
history, genealogy, and the like, as well as in psychology. You
are both natural counselors, good listeners, able to ask the
right questions and draw other people out. Because you both need
to talk a lot about what you are feeling, you may become
indispensable confidantes and listeners for one another.

Both of you have Moon trine or sextile Saturn:

Both of you are deeply attached to home and family, your
tradition, your roots. Loyal and forbearing, when either of you
makes a vow or commitment, you take it seriously. You're both
emotionally responsible.

Each of you is apt to be rather circumspect, able to be
content with comparatively little, and to have a preference for
peace, quietude, and simplicity. You appreciate the depth, inner
quality, and emotional maturity of one another.

Both of you have Moon in hard aspect to Neptune:

Both of you are very empathetic and sensitive to others'
emotional states, and you also have rather tender, easily
bruised feelings yourselves. You share a tendency to want to
avoid the harsh truth, and you may make all kinds of excuses for
your own and others' weaknesses, problems, poor behavior, etc.

Each of you needs to beware of becoming a "victim" by
passively allowing others to take advantage of you or by
indulging in self-delusion and escapist behavior. Especially
avoid self-pity, and recognize that others are also essentially
responsible for themselves, including their mistakes. Each of
you is apt to feel that either you have to take care of the
world -or that somehow you deserve and/or need to be taken care
of. Learning about healthy emotional and psychic boundaries is
important for you both.

Both of you have Moon in hard aspect to Pluto:

You share a tendency to be emotionally fanatical and
extremely intense, especially in regard to your mothers, your
children, and the women you are closest to. Both of you are
dealing with psychological wounds from an early loss,
separation, or death, which tend to get re-stimulated every time
you are intimate or vulnerable with another person. If you are
not conscious of this, you may become either extremely
controlling and manipulative, or the "victim" of another's
emotional power games. You may feel that every intimate
encounter is a life-and-death situation! Healing the pain from
your past and resolving unfinished emotional business are truly
necessary for either of you to have peace in your personal
lives.

If you were both willing to, you could become great allies
and supports for one another in this type of therapeutic,
soul-cleansing "work".

Both of you have Mercury conjunct, trine, or sextile Venus:

Both of you have a fine sense of beauty, artistic design
and elegance. You enjoy those small, finishing touches which
delight the eye and make the ordinary into something beautiful
and special.

Sharing thoughts on love and romance and the more
lighthearted aspects of life is something both of you enjoy
doing - and do quite well. The art of relationship is one you
are both gifted in. Sweet manners are important to you.

At times you both tend to sugarcoat your words, or to avoid
speaking of the unpleasant side of things. This promotes rather
superficial or at least one-sided types of interactions with
people.

Both of you have Mercury conjunct or in hard aspect to Saturn:

Both of you are serious-minded and are prone to worrying,
pessimistic thinking, or allowing small problems to loom large
in your minds. It's difficult to convince either of you of the
potential worth of a plan, without concrete data, factual
analysis, or "proof" of its feasibility. You are skeptical,
especially of speculative ventures.

You also both tend to dislike a lot of superficial chatter
and may be ill at ease with the sort of light, casual, fluffy
talk that greases the wheels at most social functions. You may
seem critical and standoffish at such events. However, because
you both prefer more substantial fare, intellectually speaking,
you may well enjoy discussions with one another. At least, you
admire the depth of each other's minds.

When you are together, try not to focus on the negative
aspects of a situation, for you can reinforce one another's
tendencies that way.

Both of you have Venus conjunct or in hard aspect to Saturn:

Both of you at times can seem cool, emotionally distant and
unavailable, or disinterested in people, but this is only a
mask. Inwardly, you are apt to feel unlovable, unworthy, or
simply afraid to open up and share yourselves. A fear of
rejection inhibits your expression of love and affection, and it
may seem to you that relationships are too troublesome and too
painful to bother with. Security may become extremely important
to you, so that you are apt to choose "safe", reliable people to
be with -perhaps individuals who are older or more established
and settled than you are. Learning to be more playful, and to
overcome your fears of intimacy and your tendency to isolate
yourselves, are challenges in life that you have in common. In
one another, you may have found a wonderful friend who
understands your shy heart and your loneliness. You also have
come across one who will mirror for you some of your own most
difficult life lessons.