posted February 05, 2011 12:58 PM            

Why oh why am I dating the perfect man with an awful, awful moon! I just want to punch it out of his natal into another sign I swear lol. No offense to you other Aries mooners

Doesn't help that it's opposite my Libra moon, either.

Grrr!!!

posted February 05, 2011 01:26 PM            

Aries is also on his 7th house cusp, so that's is kind of a bummer.

I've just found that I don't do well with Aries qualities. My (former) best friend had an Aries sun and moon. A lot of other people that I just don't mesh well with have an Aries sun.

posted February 05, 2011 01:46 PM            

None of the Aries I've known exhibited horrible tempers. And I've known a lot of Aries.

Fixed signs, o yes (have you ever seen an Aquarian go off? the word detached flies out the window). Mars/Saturn, yes..Angular Pluto, yes ma'am, Mars/Mercury hard aspects, more than most, and others, but not Aries IMO.
They're forthright, and maybe a lil blunt, but I think that's cute.
I've never seen them like to fight just to fight, just to pick something.
They're lambs.

posted February 05, 2011 09:01 PM            

I have a cancer sun, though.

posted February 05, 2011 11:09 PM            

My bf's brother is a cap sun, with Virgo rising and an Aries Moon. He cracks me uppp, because he is so dramatic. Everything that happens is the end of the world, in his eyes.
He has blown my phone up with dramatic VM's and texts (my phone was turned off cause it was dead) and in the morning when I listened and read them, I was in a panic calling him back, breathless... like, "whassa matter? are you ok, OMG, your message!!!!"

And he said, "Oh, yeah, I'm fine, just wanted to talk was all."
Jeez.

I say bless their hearts, they can't help it too.

posted February 06, 2011 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Haha i chuckled when i saw that someone said Aries dont have tempers. Are you serious lololol. They're like rams, ramming their head into anything and anyone when they're angry. They're even like rams when they're NOT angry.

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That's me.
All the Aries placements I've known (no ASC that I'm aware of) Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, they're tame.

OR

Maybe I mean that they're tame in comparison to me

OR

Maybe it's that I calm them down so around me they can talk and chill out.

posted February 06, 2011 04:09 PM            

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My bf's brother is a cap sun, with Virgo rising and an Aries Moon. He cracks me uppp, because he is so dramatic. Everything that happens is the end of the world, in his eyes.

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I'm SOOO like that. lol. I always thought it was because of my Leo Mars though.

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I don't equate Aries with nasty temper at all.

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Agreed. Well, at least from the Aries Moon standpoint. Many people think that we have 'tempers' because we don't mind openly displaying irritation or annoyance with a situation or a person. We (well, I) usually try not to make it a personal attack on a private part of their life, because that means I'm trying to intentionally HARM THEM. Usually when I am mad, I am mad at the situation more than I am at the person, and therefore I do not want to harm the person I am mad at.

To me, this is not the same thing as having a temper. Having a temper means bottling it all up and then letting it explode on one person and making it extremely personal and using personal attacks to intentionally harm a person.

If you think an Aries Moon is being selfish, please ask yourself what you did to contribute, because chances are, either they didn't KNOW what you wanted because you didn't tell them (and this can come off as selfishness because we're usually off in our own little worlds), OR you injured them somehow and now they're mad so they don't care if they are being selfish.

Also, we don't really carry grudges, so if the fight wasn't that 'important' to us, we will forget about it in a few days, even after the other person is still nursing their injuries. This can also be misconstrued as selfishness. It's not really. We just literally don't care anymore once it's been resolved. "It's resolved. Why bring up the past?"

Now, we are unable to take fault sometimes, and we do like to one up others. That, I'll cop to.

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Fixed signs, o yes (have you ever seen an Aquarian go off? the word detached flies out the window).

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posted February 06, 2011 06:34 PM            

See, to me this is honesty, something to be commended. Not a temper.

"either they didn't KNOW what you wanted because you didn't tell them"

posted February 07, 2011 09:42 AM            

But he definitely flies off the handle as easily as he can get back on.

So I'm curious, what else in his chart could indicate this?

posted February 07, 2011 10:58 AM            

but i am a leo sun with leo asc, with pluto square asc and uranus trine sun.

but..

i have moon trine asc, and my aries moon is usually on a leash with saturn square it, and often i need peace because i have venus in libra and neptune square moon.

i agree, look at the aspects for anger management issues.

lonake, what you said about liking aries moons made my day a little, since my partner is a capricorn moon and i always was astrologically concerned that it wont make her happy, but, i think my saturn square makes my moon cappy like, ( read the compability description for aries moon with cappy moon, and i could relate to what the cappy moon feels about the aries placement, i feel this way about aries in all placements (mars/sun alike).

posted February 07, 2011 11:02 AM            

(moon aries, sun leo, venus libra, mercury virgo).

heres my theory-

yes its mars square pluto, for anger issues but the reason he hurts you is because his mars squares moon. this meens his masculine side conflicts and hurts femininity in him, and is likely experienced by the women close to him in his life. because his martian hostility is felt and experienced by his moon.

i interestingly enough have mars quincunx moon.

my partners ex was physicallly abusive to her and he had that aspect (mars square moon). aswell as square uranus.

her ex was actuallyh born around the same year as taht guy, and also has Sun square uranus, jsut like that guy, and north node in leo! (he was an aqua sun with gemini moon)

with mars in pisces)

what you can expect:

Moon in aries - bluntness, open honesty, and their patience can be tested easily. prepare to be encourage to go into a higher gear when around him, especially if he wants you to do something. this placement alone doesnt indicate violence and hostility.

Mars square pluto -
intesity, and control are the key issue here. if he doesnt get his way (control) that is likely what will cause his hostility and violent anger to start seeping out. although unfortunately, this may be emphasised or more of an issue because his moon in aries wants its own way anyway, and patience isnt high in that placement, watns are emergencies, see the issue? when he wants his way its going to potentially be a problem if he doesnt get it. especially since his moon depositor (mars) is actually the mars square pluto.