posted February 08, 2011 09:21 PM            

She is Moon: Sun-Taurus, Moon-Aquarius, Venus-Aries.

Quick Story

Mercury is a pretty strong individual. He has a lot of pride. He doesn’t like to rely on others for emotional support. When he is faced with a problem or stress he will silently put it on his shoulder and take care of it. Because of this Mercury sometimes gets overloaded with everything and others around him may sometimes be surprised when he finally melts down. When Mercury has his weak moments he tries to communicate to his Moon that he needs more support. However, Mercury has a tendency to say things on his mind without considering Moon’s feelings and point of view. Moon feels like Mercury is attacking her. Moon doesn’t understand why. Moon tries so hard to make Mercury happy. But to Moon all Mercury seems to do is complain and attack her…. and ignore all the other things Moon does for Mercury.

posted February 08, 2011 09:57 PM            

But Good luck!
It's nice that you're trying - because it shows you care.

posted February 08, 2011 10:40 PM            

I just replied to your other thread.

Now that I've seen both of your charts... I actually think that you are more likely to be emotionally hurt by this relationship than she is.
I'm saying this because you are very watery and hence very emotional. She can be colder. She can withdraw and leave you feeling lonely. Also - relationships are not seen as a threat to her survival.
After a failed relationship you could feel physically ill - whereas she would find it easier to move right along.

I can only interpret what jumps at me from the charts. But I'm sure you'll get other advice - and maybe other people will see this in a more positive light.

But to answer your question re: Mercury/Moon - I have a Capricorn Moon and he had an Aries Mercury closely square my Moon.
I felt like he was not actually listening to my problems at all - and that he couldn't understand me. I felt like his response to me was often to ignore me. If I was sad or hurt -- He would simply ignore me completely that day.
He would then come back when I was happy again.
He wanted to basically avoid my emotions rather than deal with them. I also felt he was not taking my opinions into consideration. It was always his way or the high way (but that could just be an Aries Mercury thing).

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