posted February 12, 2011 12:47 AM            

my reason?: to distract myself from the fact that the guy i just walked away from is trying to get back with me. we have composite scorpio mars, so i have an idea (A-MAZ-ING sex) and hopefully be talked into being with someone with this placement, via rave reviews. i need to make a decision, like, tonight (impending dates with both of them over the next few days, if i want).

posted February 12, 2011 02:00 AM            

Best... for me... lol

I don't know if they are best for everyone.

I think women can have very different experiences with a Scorpio Mars man depending on how deeply he feels for them.
You could feel used, objectified and discarded - or you could feel absolutely loved and put on a pedestal.

I wouldn't rush things. Get to know him and see what he is like towards you.

As much as these men can envelop you in a layer of protective emotion and as much as they can make you feel like the most sexually attractive woman on the face of the planet - when they are truly into you..... They can also be cold, cutting and hurt you pretty badly if things go wrong.. if they feel betrayed, if they find you superficial (basically, they have their quirks!).

posted February 12, 2011 02:01 AM            

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i need to make a decision, like, tonight (impending dates with both of them over the next few days, if i want)

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posted February 12, 2011 02:29 AM            

anyway the other reason is cuz i really like this new guy and i feel WEIRD about seeing two people. just, weird. but maybe if i'm just open and honest with both of them, we can talk it through or work it out. i like both guys a LOT.

hmm, well i have mars aqua, but mars trine pluto! and square moon (widely)! and picnic table neptune!

posted February 12, 2011 03:15 AM            

Word of advice that's fairly inexpensive..
Under the bed restraint system.

posted February 12, 2011 03:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:

You could feel used, objectified and discarded - or you could feel absolutely loved and put on a pedestal.

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posted February 12, 2011 03:43 AM            

heavenlyhera, wow!! well, i can't see him being QUITE that intense, but you've illustrated that scorpio passion most definitely!

posted February 12, 2011 04:49 AM            

For some reason the first Leo just isn't like other Scorpio Mars men (actually he isn't like ANY men I know.. He's just strange)... He is very mechanical and robotic - I get what you mean exactly, even though I did not sleep with him. And he is SO damn critical... He cannot relax.
The second Leo is an emotional person, but it could just be the Cancer Moon. I've never been too keen on him sexually though, but I've known him since we were kids.. (well literally since I was born) - I'm probably biased.

woah cakes,

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leo and scorpio blending to me feels like PASSION

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Well my Leo guy has Scorpio Mars and he is very passionate and he is a warm-hearted person lol He is very different to the guys I mentioned above. It could be partially the age difference (he is quite a bit older..), but also the difference in aspects.
Mars in Scorpio conjunct Jupiter is a little odd... because Scorpio is a very secretive sign but Jupiter is boisterous and show-offy.. Somehow it feels out of sink..

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his guy's so tender and sweet and kinda like a teddy bear or something so it's hard to imagine him simmering with intense passions underneath

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LOL I sleep with his photo because he reminds me of a teddy bear...

They really seem cute and sweet..
But it's partially an act...
They are NOT that innocent.

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melt into his big warm arms and eyes.

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A word of caution -- They tend to test people.. and sometimes it is so subtle that you'd never imagine he was testing. They are intelligent and they know a lot about human psychology. They love reading up on psychological/neurological things. They actually STUDY this... so they know how people react to certain body language.
Like for instance - did you know that making eye contact more than 60% of the time makes people uncomfortable - and that starring at the point in their forehead where their brows meet accentuates the discomfort to the point of intimidating the person?

Neither did I.

Guess who told me?

lol

But once you get past this "wall" they've built.. they are actually much like a teddy bear (although not sexually... they upgrade to grizzly bear sexually!)

posted February 12, 2011 04:59 AM            

They can also wait so long to have sex they are practically born-again virgins, or they can be complete sex addicts viewing it as a necessity comparable to food. It's the whole Pluto and extremes thing here...black or white which Pluto seems to view everything in. I have seen Scorpio mars or mates who are with one say that they do use sex as a weapon, and will withhold it if they find their partner to be somehow "unworthy" of being intimate with them at the moment as a form of punishment.

Some think that this sign is guaranteed to be the "rough n' tumble" type but that's not exactly true. There are a lot of sweet and gentle types out there, but one thing is for certain: the magnetism and passion they carry is very intense -- and they do want some level of control or power over you in the bedroom.(even if they are very submissive) If something about you makes them feel uneasy or insecure, they will not have an easy time "just going for it" despite how tempting it may be for them.

posted February 12, 2011 07:16 AM            

(oow yes I did..never felt soooo loved/put on..!)

- pretty stealthy in their approach and hard to read, mysterious like!

(more than I ever saw!)

- They tend to test people.. and sometimes it is so subtle that you'd never imagine he was testing. They are intelligent and they know a lot about human psychology. They love reading up on psychological/neurological things.

(He took one of my psych. books and told me how interested he was.. after reading he concluded he must be a psychopate)

- Very sweet gentle and shy but when we kissed EXPLOSION!! (never ever ever felt this... hours hours hours explosion explosion explosion.. a rhythm you can only dream of, no need for more/orgasm but 'climax' after 'climax' after 'climax', no way to stop ... I swear.. it was JUST kissing with clothes on!)

- the magnetism and passion they carry is very intense!

Yes, this is a Libra-Sun with Taurus-Moon, Leo-Venus and Scorp-Mars! (Mars conjunct Uranus and square Venus)

posted February 12, 2011 07:50 AM            

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posted February 12, 2011 08:02 AM            

okay so there is pretty much a consensus. they are intense sounding, to say the least! QUESTION: betty boop, do you think the teddy bear sweet eyes is a TEST? i'm unclear from your post. i noticed he looked into my eyes a LOT and i wasn't so much uncomfortable as.. seduced. however it seemed totally innocent and sweet. he does NOT have that scorpio stare and intense look which surprised me being he is a scorpio AC. his eyes were very watery though and i strongly felt his pisces SN (i'm one too) and empathy. we discussed our empathy a lot. but i'm not sure what the TESTING itself would entail in such a manner..?

posted February 12, 2011 10:06 AM            

This was my experience....never again!

posted February 12, 2011 01:27 PM            

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interesting verviter.. what other aspects did he have to his mars? leo and scorpio blending to me feels like PASSION, but something must be hindering that energy for him..

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Yeah no kidding, I'm weird and I actually kept his birth info on hand so I can expose his issues, ha! And maybe break some myths that all Leo men are warm, energetic and spontaneous.

posted February 12, 2011 06:34 PM            

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He seemed to always be in his head and prove how smart he was...

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Doesn't the Mars/Jupiter sextile Mercury in Virgo as well?

woah cakes,

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QUESTION: betty boop, do you think the teddy bear sweet eyes is a TEST? i'm unclear from your post.

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No. But the teddy bear eyes can be manipulative lol I think it’s his way of seducing and also making you feel comfortable in opening up. They like knowing all your secrets.

I didn’t mean to say that he would try to intimidate you. He doesn’t have a reason to do that now. I was just giving an example of them testing people – and seeing how they react to different body language and other inputs.

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i noticed he looked into my eyes a LOT and i wasn't so much uncomfortable as.. seduced. however it seemed totally innocent and sweet. he does NOT have that scorpio stare and intense look which surprised me being he is a scorpio AC.

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He wouldn't want to make you uncomfortable now. I think the innocence is intentional, but I can't be sure.

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his eyes were very watery though and i strongly felt his pisces SN (i'm one too) and empathy.

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In my case, we both have Scorpio SN which is conjunct his Mars and my Pluto. He has very watery eyes as well.

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we discussed our empathy a lot. but i'm not sure what the TESTING itself would entail in such a manner..?

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I think he is just getting to know you for now. I really can’t say what is a test and what isn’t… For instance, he can throw a question in the middle of a conversation – a question that was pre-planned and that he wanted to know the answer to. But you wouldn’t know it was pre-planned.. And maybe that particular answer really means something to him… when it comes to taking things further with you or not..
It’s difficult to tell really. Try to gauge his emotional state… If he feels strongly about something you are discussing or if he badly wants an answer to something, then it’s probably more important to him than it seems (and he isn’t simply making casual convo).

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another question: would it be really lame to pull back? i mean, does a scorpio mars 'chase' in any sense of the word (if they really like you and not as a game)?

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If he is definitely into you – and you pull back.. He will not let go.
He might not chase in a traditional sense because Scorpio is a feminine sign and it is not overt like say – Aries Mars… But he’ll “stalk” you in his own Scorpionic way lol

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i think i would rather hang out with him a few times and hold myself back, but only if i can be somewhat assured that he will move toward me if he wants me.

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posted February 12, 2011 11:13 PM            

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Some think that this sign is guaranteed to be the "rough n' tumble" type but that's not exactly true. There are a lot of sweet and gentle types out there, but one thing is for certain: the magnetism and passion they carry is very intense -- and they do want some level of control or power over you in the bedroom.(even if they are very submissive) If something about you makes them feel uneasy or insecure, they will not have an easy time "just going for it" despite how tempting it may be for them.

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Sounds pretty accurate, but I thought it was my Libra-like stuff that ensured that my partner was completely comfortable with everything. I don't look to move faster than what my partner is comfortable with, but my partner's always seem to come along pretty quickly.

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He will not let go.
He might not chase in a traditional sense because Scorpio is a feminine sign and it is not overt like say – Aries Mars… But he’ll “stalk” you in his own Scorpionic way lol

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posted February 13, 2011 03:37 AM            

i just had the most INCREDIBLE time with the taurus with whom i have a composite scorpio mars. after reading all these replies i realized why our drive and sexual energy together is SO intense. not only is it in scorpio, it trines our composite sun and moon by a degree (also squares our venus), and our composite sun and moon are exactly conjunct (in pisces). i have never EVER felt so intimately raw and connected to anyone in such a deep way and i would bet two thousand bucks he has not either. he is just as bowled over as i am by it even if he shimmies away sometimes (in fact i believe it is WHY he shimmies away!). just, wow. what an energy!!!

posted February 13, 2011 11:14 AM            

Yeah it took quite a few months for my Scorpio mars guy to open up to me. He has Scorpio Sun/Mars/Pluto but Gemini Moon.

Makes him pretty detached. But he still has that sexual intensity. If they open up to you...jump in while you can. They trust you. If they trust you and they care. They'll want to share out of body experiences in sex with you. Regardless of their sun sign. I am a Sag Sun/Gem Moon/Scorp Mars. There is something in regards to sex that we desire. It's like a renewal in oneself. The intensity and passion shared between two people. It's just so, perfect. It's dark, it's beautiful and it's all about unity in that moment too. And you're their one and only.

But if you hurt them or make them feel as they don't provide anything in bed. They get upset. And they will just use you and discard you.
Once they have the out of body experience, they think you feel the same way as them. Which means, you want more of it too. But if you're constantly exhausted or just not in the mood. It's a sign they didn't provide that experience for you and you're rejecting them. Which depending on circumstances, they can become pretty cruel about it.

As far as the perverseness goes as listed above. Never ever ever tell a Scorpio Mars they're perverted. If they opened up to you and their secret fetishes are out in the open, never make them feel vulnerable. Usually the only time they'll go into the perverse areas are when they're feeling a sense of disconnection from you. In that case... light up a bunch of dark candles, toss a faux black silk duvet onto the floor, and wear something extremely angelic. Make sure to tell him that you love the way he makes you feel and then kiss his neck. And so on and so on..

The couple of Scorpio mars I know..they feel cheated with porn. Cheap porn isn't ideal to Scorpio Mars. He won't be thinking of cheaper hookers/strip clubs/porn stars.
He wants something out of body. Special and surreal. Something beautiful and intense.
Just like they say, Scorpio Mars is either a sex addict or a saint. He wants the best of both worlds. He wants the sex/spirituality meshed as one. That's why it's easy for them to refrain from sex completely. Or he overindulges in sex. He feels that people just won't understand. And a lot of people don't.

posted February 13, 2011 11:15 AM            

Well, it is true that they are absolutely mind-blowing sex. They would handle you in bed as if their life depended on it. I am of the opinion that they cannot have sex without committing -- at least, that's what I see so far.