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Topic: Lost hope..
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heavenlyhera Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Jax, Fl, US Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 13, 2011 01:50 PM
My really good Gem friend is trying to set me up with her brother..he kind of looks like a really young Brett Michaels..minus the hair extensions and cowboy boots. She was like, "Yeah he is about a little less then 6 months younger then you." So casually, I was like, "Oh really? What day in June/July is he?" She told me he was the 27th of June. I was like, "Yeah sure let me just see what's going on with this one guy right now because I am not interested in him but I just want to make it clear to him before I start possibly seeing someone else." What do I do the minute I get home..?? Yeah..I totally map out his birth chart. Then it starts dawning on me.."Oh my god. I am such a creeper..Oh well.." Then I just went on reading it. How many people have mapped out your potential dates birth chart to see what's up. And you realise..the aspects suck. But you still try to keep an open mind..then while on the date you realise there is nothing you really like about this person. You want to like something, but there is nothing. I had that with this Taurus guy, he was really pushy for us to go out. (Mutual friend hook up again) and I could tell I wasn't going to feel it. Of course, I definitely didn't feel it. I can't feel it with guys who have my sun as their asc. And I know this. While we were walking along the beach we saw a shooting star. And he was like, "It's a sign." And I kid you not as soon as he said that there was some sand hole in the ground and I didn't see it and I stepped into and heard my ankle pop...fml All I could think was.."This has been a waste of money and time. With someone who thinks rap is the new Walt Whitman (he was Eng Major). And to top it off I am crippled now!!! I should have went with that chart. I should have trusted it! Maybe if I trusted it, I'd still have my ankle.." Please share experiences so I feel less weird about the fact I was excited to come home and do this.. IP: Logged |
vertiver Knowflake Posts: 1120 From: Firey Jupiter Registered: May 2009
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posted February 13, 2011 02:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by heavenlyhera:
What do I do the minute I get home..?? Yeah..I totally map out his birth chart. Then it starts dawning on me.."Oh my god. I am such a creeper..Oh well.." Then I just went on reading it.
Don't worry your not alone! I do the same thing...All the time! Like for instance I was gonna met up with this Taurus Sun (on a first date) and I was a bit hesitant, I'd never been on a date with a Taurus, and I'm pretty unfamilar with Taureans overall. But I happened to look up what was going on with Taureans that year, I noticed he had Aries Venus, and I was like ooh, maybe it will be conjunct my Mars? And then I noticed he had Gemini Mars, and I have Gemini Venus, that must be compatible, right? Well I was plesantly surprised, not only does his Venus conjunct my Mars, but his Moon is conjunct my MC in Libra, his Mars is conjunct my Jupiter, his chart ruler - Uranus is conjunct my ASC. and my chart ruler - Jupiter is conjunct his IC, and with my Sun/ Mercury conjunct his DESC. and the list goes on... I'm glad I waited until I got to know him before I did his entire chart though. Its weird because at the beginning of this year I knew I would meet someone significant... finally! IP: Logged |
heavenlyhera Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Jax, Fl, US Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 13, 2011 02:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by vertiver: Don't worry your not alone! I do the same thing...All the time!Like for instance I was gonna met up with this Taurus Sun (on a first date) and I was a bit hesitant, I'd never been on a date with a Taurus, and I'm pretty unfamilar with Taureans overall. But I happened to look up what was going on with Taureans that year, I noticed he had Aries Venus, and I was like ooh, maybe it will be conjunct my Mars? And then I noticed he had Gemini Mars, and I have Gemini Venus, that must be compatible, right? Well I was plesantly surprised, not only does his Venus conjunct my Mars, but his Moon is conjunct my MC in Libra, his Mars is conjunct my Jupiter, his chart ruler - Uranus is conjunct my ASC. and my chart ruler - Jupiter is conjunct his IC, and with my Sun/ Mercury conjunct his DESC. and the list goes on... I'm glad I waited until I got to know him before I did his entire chart though. Its weird because at the beginning of this year I knew I would meet someone significant... finally!
I am envious of you. You're lucky. I've been having a dry spout. It's not really "dry" it's just nothing really moving me. Like the other day this guy asked me and I thought about it..and I realised..that would require me to move. And then I just came to terms with the fact, it's best if I just stay in my place. lol But I think it's the lack of interest. It's driving me crazy. I need a kindred spirit. And it's like..there is nobody. But you're lucky. That sounds like a good match
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heavenlyhera Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Jax, Fl, US Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 13, 2011 02:38 PM
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Virgo-AriesArtist Knowflake Posts: 216 From: Michigan :) Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 13, 2011 06:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by heavenlyhera: Please share experiences so I feel less weird about the fact I was excited to come home and do this..
heavenlyhera, Don't feel bad about wanting to run charts, I do that too :P I did restrain myself from running my fiance's chart til we were dating for like a month cause I wanted to give myself a chance to see him as an individual before synastry came into play... I do analyze to death people I love, but don't romantically click with to find out why as well. I am right now waiting to find out what time my half-sister and niece were born until AFTER I meet them next month (we have the same father and just connected about 9 months ago), but I can see some basic similarities, like Leo placements, but alot of interpretation depends on birthtime, so we'll see . So, no worries, you are not too weird!
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Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 1755 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted February 13, 2011 06:13 PM
I did that with a patient once....because he was hot. *headdesk* I guess that's different though since I was never going to see him again anyways. I've been lucky that I usually don't get full birth info in other types of situations until after maybe a month of getting to know the person...LOL. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 6166 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 13, 2011 06:52 PM
I think it is wise to look at the charts right from the beginning. To me, the charts show compatibility or lack of it. That being said,if I was crazy about someone, I would throw out the charts lol However,I doubt that would happen cuz the basic energies FOR being crazy about a person would not be there if the charts were not compatible. That is one man/womans opinion lol ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
specialistangel Knowflake Posts: 75 From: Registered: Feb 2011
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posted February 13, 2011 08:14 PM
Benedict Moon and Ami Anne, doesn't it take longer than a month to get to know someone? How long does it usually take for you to fall in love with a guy? IP: Logged | |