posted February 20, 2011 12:56 PM            

But ANY astrological reading just shows potentials and possibilities....if someone lets you know how they feel, that is a better answer than ANY answer you could get from strangers on the internet.

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A friend of his told him i liked him for me lol. I never wanted to tell him bc i wanted Him to chase ..Me. But his friend kept insisting. His friend told me he replied that he thought i was cool as a friend but that he had his eye on another girl. Since his friend seems to like me, I thought I should ask him myself what he said to him. So i asked him in person and all he said was "i just like keeping to myself, you know?" and i was like....but ur friend said u said u didnt like me like that, and he was like "no, i just like keeping to myself..." That is true, he definitely likes keeping to himself...

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He was honest with his friend--he likes you as a friend, but he is into another girl romantically. Since he's a Virgo, he would've felt really uncomfortable saying "what my friend said is true, I'm not romantically interested in you" to your face.

I think your initial impulse was right--let the guy chase. But if you're lucky enough to get a real, clear answer, like this guy told his friend and the friend told you, you don't need more information from trying to do fortune-telling.

This is your second recent post that amounts to "This guy said he doesn't want to be with me--does he like me?"

I know it's hard to accept romantic rejection, especially for people with Cancer planets (I have them too)....but at a certain point it becomes really disrespectful and stalker-y to refuse to take a polite "no" for an answer.

posted February 23, 2011 12:27 AM            

Just cos he 'looks at you' and 'smiles' at you and acts courteous doesn't mean anything. He might just be friendly and a nice guy?

Chill. I'm alittle younger than you and even I know if a guy rejects you through your friend and to your face, they obviously don't like you. Lol and no, it's not the whole ' I'll reject you, but secretly I don't actually mean it cos I'm actually just playing games to get you to want me more.'

Virgos don't play mind games. That's more a water sign thing to do or a gem specialty lmfao.

posted February 23, 2011 11:01 AM            

I happen to like younger guys more than older guys (like give a me a choice between a 19 year old and a 30 year old, I'd take the 19 year old).

posted February 23, 2011 12:15 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Lol who said i know the time when we first met? I'm not that big of a stalker.

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When someone is trying to help you it would be nice if you didn't make immature remarks like this one. I was merely pointing out another method besides horary that may help point out clues in possible new relationships. Also many people in this forum have a limited understanding of horary and may not be able to respond, which would have helped get you more responses/more accurate responses.

This is the second time you have reacted this way towards me and I do not appreciate it. Next time I suggest reading a response twice in case you misunderstood the message the first time as can happen in textual conversations such as this forum.

posted February 23, 2011 01:28 PM            

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The younger comment was pretty annoying, I agree. He's only 2 years younger than you lol and it's not like it's illegal. My boyfriend is 1 1/2 years younger than me (he's 21 and I'm 23).

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Amowls, to put that comment in context, RAS's last thread was a "will we get back together?" about a 17-year-old who had broken up with her. She called him a "douche" for kissing her and then deciding later he didn't want to be involved...I think it made a few people feel protective of these guys, because people have a right to break up with you or let you know that they aren't interested without you keeping after them.

At a certain point it gets frustrating to read, "He directly said he wasn't interested, but then he smiled awkwardly and looked uncomfortable when he saw me, so actually, he's totally into me, right?" Because it really gets old in real life when someone pursues us after we have tried first politely, and then more firmly, to tell them we're not interested.

This happened to me recently (with a Cancer), and he sort of railroaded me into being rude, instead of just getting my messages, which were not subtle.