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Topic: Venus conjunct Pluto in synastry
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allouette
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 20, 2011 12:13 PM
  
How is it? What are are your experiences with this aspect?IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 20, 2011 01:10 PM
I have a lot more experience with the square...which, sometimes it's so much about the tension and build-up that it never gets off the ground. The times I've had it in a real relationship, we had a lot of other dynamics to make it work.I've only ever had the conjunction in a double-whammy with the square. Hot sex, but also lots of power struggle. Not a gentle aspect. Sometimes the Pluto acts out the obsession, sometimes the Venus. Pluto is sooo slow-moving that the Venus person will have this aspect with everyone of a certain age group, which is kind of a drag for the Venus person. (It's why I have the square with so many guys I'm attracted to.) If I had a choice of NOT having Venus-Pluto the next time around, that'd be fine with me. IP: Logged |
letram
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posted February 20, 2011 01:43 PM
i know someone who had venus-square-pluto in synastry,according to her, she wasnt into him anymore but found herself trapped in an abusive relationship. she actually said he was the one who was obsessed and sexually demanding, she even went onto say she never desired him that way and never liked "it". anyone else experience this with venus-pluto? can the "hot sex"/deep feelings be one sided? IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted February 20, 2011 02:17 PM
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can the "hot sex"/deep feelings be one sided?
I think so, for sure. With a male friend of mine I have an exact Venus-Pluto square with (I'm Venus), I'm attracted to him and (I think) he's playing with me and sending mixed signals, for reasons that are unclear to me. But it makes me less want to be friends with him. (I've never told him I'm attracted, but he must know.) He keeps sort of disappearing and then showing up again and kind of hitting on me, but then not making an actual move to actually hook up. I think it's just mean. I've started just ignoring him. So I think our attraction was one-sided (just me attracted)? Although sometimes I think he's very attracted, but somehow gets off on playing with me more than he wants to actually be with me. Also he's obsessed with what I think of him, so it's not like he's indifferent to me. I think the conjunction is less likely to be blocked or one-sided than the square. Although, after years on Lindaland, I now believe that any relationship with ANY synastry can be one-sided. Even if the synastry meets all of the criteria on a "Soul Mate" checklist. IP: Logged |
scrappydog
Knowflake Posts: 1054
From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 20, 2011 06:18 PM
It is intense, but often "too much" and eventually ends up abusive in some way. Too much control, jealousy, and power struggles.IP: Logged |
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