posted February 25, 2011 08:19 AM            

just recently my partner inherited quite a bit of money, and were real happy of the news! there was things she needed and wanted that we were releived to know she can afford now. *such as a new laptop because her old one broke, for example*. she then at the end displayed her aquarian energy *we have a 1-2 orb opposition between our suns, keep in mind im also a leo Ascendant so Aquarius is on my Descendant, along with NN in aquarius in my 7th house (which her sun conjuncts 1 orb in my 7th) which Also means my Sun conjuncts my southnode! quite a bit of interesting energy, combined, we have Sun/SouthNode/ASC in leo aligned and opposed against Sun, NorthNode and Descendant in Aquarius!

well, she said she was gonna help her family relatives with some money, and she wanted to help me, i said to her that i didn't need help, i'm okay, i really couldn't say i Needed anything (wants are another story), she even said she wanted to treat her coworkers to some treats, all of this i realized was aquarian/humanitarian energy, serving people.

i realized my Leo energy (especially considering southnode) was very admiring and loving of this, but quickly my leo energy oppoising her Aquarius Sun said, well, i'd like you to consider not spending too much and keeping some for us that we may actually need for our bigger goals in the future where finance is going to be key. i just love seeing astrology work. it's her money and she knows that, but i encouraged her to consider our financial hurdle in the nearer future too, that was my Leo southnode energy. she said okay, don't worry im not spending alot of it.

interesting compromise, we didn't argue aha, i like seeing our leo-aqua moments, compromise and co-operating is usually called in, considering eachothers wisdom and ideas, leadership, basically sun energy.

of course i have to consider some of this may have been my saturn speaking to her venus & dsc.

posted February 25, 2011 09:32 AM            

I think Sun-Sun opposition work best if both parties are conscious of compromise.

I am Sag sun with a Gemini friend and ,true to what they say about our match, I am always concerned as to the moral bent of this Gemini and how they never look at the bigger picture.

The Gemini in question is a good-looking guy and as a result, he does attract his more than fair share of attention that he uses, mostly selfishly, to his advantage.

In one particular instance, one of his co-workers bought him a lavishly expensive gift on valentines day and I asked curiously if he was in a relationship to which he denied.

Sag: So why would someone at work buy you such an expensive gift?

Gemini: They were just being nice.

Sag: Are you sure they are just being nice or looking to persuade you to look at them with diffrent eyes?

Gemini: Look, I've made it clear to her that we are just friends and I am not interested. If she chooses to buy gifts for me and indulge me, that is her perogative. She wants to be a jackass, so let her....

Sag no fuming but trying to keep under coontrol) The "girl" you are referring to is 50. She is lonely, divorced and probably flattered with the attention you give her when you flirt so openly with her at the office. Don't you think it's small of you to take advantage?

Gemini: No! She is doing it out of her own free will...

Sag now realising that an argument with a Gemini can never be resolved with passion but reason) Okay then, I guess you are right. It is all her doing and she is being generous.But I still think that you are playing naive by not reading between the lines.

Sometime later, his girlfriend came to see him at work. I wasn't there but apparently, according to other co-workers , the lady in queation was not pleased.

7 days later...

Gemini: That b*** gave me a poor performance appraisal.

Sag: Oh you mean the woman who gave you gifts on valentines day?

Gemini: Yeah. She is treating me like s*** and being totally unfair.

Sag: What happned? I thought you guys were friends.

Gemini: I don't know what I did but she had done a 180.

Sag: How soon did this happen?

Gemini: Actually, it was the day after Eileen(girlfriend) came to see me. She started being standoffish ...

Sag: I warned you about this. I told you all those gifts weren't for nothing.

Gemini: (reluctantly)Yeah I guess you had a point. but what am I gonna do wo, I don't want to be fired?

Sag: Well, I suggest you talk to her and tell that you only see her as a friend.

Gemini: Do you think I should return the gifts?

Sag: That is entirely up to you.

The point is, I tried not to force my ideals on him and end up fighting with him to do the "right thing", instead, I stood aside and let things get out of hand until he asked me for my advice again.

posted February 25, 2011 10:37 AM            

that's because your Earths conjunct each other's Suns

remember Earth in heliocentric (Sun-centered) system is always exactly opposite the Sun in geocentric (Earth-centered)system

Sun in Leo is exactly opposite Earth in Aquarius
Sun in Aquarius is exactly oppose Earth in Leo

Sun/Earth is really a multidimensional polarity axis

therefore Sun-Sun opposition is Sun conjunct Earth double whammy

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