posted March 02, 2011 02:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Sweeter_Than_Apple_Pie:
About Venus in Pisces just asking do they always love the person they can't have or someone who hurt them really bad ?

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I will fantasize about someone I can't have or want but if someone hurt me, no. Maybe I'll take some hurtful things if already in a relationship and feel obligated to work things out unless it's physical abuse. I dealt with an emotionally abusive man but I was young and didn't understand so I put up with it. Now, I wouldn't.

posted March 02, 2011 09:01 PM            

I'm useally not one to be in a relationship...but sometimes it just gets so borring being single that I'll settle for a lame guy, someone that I didn't really get to know. I kinda told myself don't do that again...and its hard no dude just wants to take anytime to just get to know me...they just want the "romance" or "honeymoon" to happen now. It makes me sick.

I also read on websites though Venus in Pisces are atracted to imballance, and can fall for underdogs...but They can become learned.
In my early young adult hood. After highschool I would always go for those guys that didn't want to work and go to school, and acted like they were some hot sh!t with their image and lifestyle.(I was kinda like that, I think it's kinda normal for a portion of young people to act that way...but should defenitly outgrow it quickly. Cause only niave people think that they live this awesome lifestyle, and wise people think *cauf**loser*cough!**go back to school**get a job caugh* ugh no spell check! I donno! lol )

Well it took a long (10 months) bad realationship to outgrow those kind of guys...Ugh sometimes I feel like guys like that are everywhere. (Espeasialy since I live in MI, I'm pretty sure that state has the worst economy) And those kind of guys will always be availible.

posted March 02, 2011 09:07 PM            

Everyone has it...but dang...! Way more than I have.

posted March 04, 2011 08:36 PM            

All four of them fell head over heels in love with me. Wrote me music. Made me art. Wanted to have serious talks about our future and marriage.
When I'd tell them I think we should take things slowly, they get really sensitive, emotional, and clingy. Which I thought meant that maybe they were sincere in their feelings for me. So I'd start giving in. The minute they felt secure in my love for them..they'd treat me like crap.

I am really sensitive once I fall in love hard. Once I am sexually involved with someone (due to Mars Scorpio) I've given a part of myself to them and I am completely vulnerable and attached. Venus in Pisces does not work for me. How is lying to someone to avoid hurting their feelings..the "right" thing to do? I mean you wonder why you attract people with so much baggage..was it baggage at the beginning or baggage towards the end of the relationship? I find it's always baggage at the end. Why? In my honest opinion..because pretending to care when deep down you don't...doesn't help the other party.

I'd also like to point out that I just found out I'm pregnant (yes I was on birth control) and I am having to move back home with my mom to finish off college. I have no support from the guy. Oh and he has Venus in Pisces. I guess he realised I wasn't his "Juliet" after he got me pregnant. Because now, he is gone completely. He said the way he copes with everything..Pretending that everything in life is normal, that the situation with me didn't exist and doing his music stuff in college. He still goes out looking for girls all the time. Still on the search for that great Juliet. Even though he gave me a ring with all his commitments and promises of forever. Total bullsh*t. It was spur of the moment and it was all lies. He just wanted my word and my commitment. I have Venus in Aquarius. I could have loved this guy forever. But he f*cked up big time. I don't think I am exactly the one with baggage. I think I am the one with his left over baggage.

When my ex Venus in Pisces found out I was pregnant. He played the victim role in order for me to get an abortion.

posted March 06, 2011 12:36 AM            

I own it. To boot Venus is in a showdown with Neptune and Jupiter in Sag. Things get more foggy and really blown out of portion - BIG TIME.

I don't know what I would do without the earth planets and influences in my chart. I cling on to my earth and would prefer to stay very grounded.

To add to the fogginess of Venus in Pisces - throw Natal Uranus in the 5th Oppose natal Sun and you have a foggy loving commitment-o-phobic.

The only type of guy that gets me off is a man who lives far away and is a celeb. I can have an imaginary relationship with in my mind. For a few years I would glue myself to the TV on a tuesday night for 30 minutes, watching the Rick Mercer report. For a while that was my weekly date and any sign of romance for me - seeing the guy on the screen and turning it off and going on to live my life.

Then it turns out that I really dig gay man - I feel so safe around them.

So a hidden secret crush with a celeb on TV......I don't know how removed from real life and delusional a gal can get. If "he" is on tv and far away I can just dream about "him" and do nothing. Sounds like an obsessive teenage crush kids have....but I am far from obsessive because it drains toooooooo much energy and time from what I want to do in life.

But now I have a real relationship that is going onto it's 3rd or 4th year.