I'm a cancer and I don't get along with pisceans

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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7833 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted March 02, 2011 03:01 PM edited IP: Logged
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010	posted March 02, 2011 04:30 PM Maybe the Pisces people you don't get along with have Aries Mercury square your Sun. IP: Logged
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7833 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted March 02, 2011 04:39 PM Ooh! Good point! But then again..nahh because i remember one with mercury in aries and he was very blunt and kind of critical and he seemed very confident too. We didnt get along but i didnt find him moody or whiny or even a drama queen. It was mercury in pisces pisceans i found to be that way. But good observation anyway. I was actually looking online and i found a few posts on other forums where pisces and cancers talk about their mutual enmity. Lol. IP: Logged
vertiver Knowflake Posts: 1995 From: Firey Jupiter Registered: May 2009	posted March 02, 2011 07:28 PM And sticking to just Sun-sign compatibility is really going to limit you... In fact go for a Sun-sign in a element your lacking...I have one planet in Earth and I tend to do best earth Sun-signs, even though I'm a Leo Sun... IP: Logged
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6637 From: Registered: Mar 2010	posted March 02, 2011 09:36 PM quote: Originally posted by vertiver: And sticking to just Sun-sign compatibility is really going to limit you... In fact go for a Sun-sign in a element your lacking...I have one planet in Earth and I tend to do best earth Sun-signs, even though I'm a Leo Sun... phew.... Then Im good with anyone thats not fire... sounds easy.... :O IP: Logged
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010	posted March 02, 2011 09:44 PM - IP: Logged
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7833 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted March 02, 2011 11:03 PM Lol at lioness. I'm all water and leo and neptune saturn and uranus in cap and jupiter, asc in libra, and north node in gemini. Literally everything else is water or leo. I am very attracted to people who have a lot of what i'm missing in their chart. Air and earth, or sometimes even just heavy air or heavy earth people. I find that in the end we dont understand each other, though. I do a lot better with people who have an equal amount of elements to me. Astrologer Luc de Jaeger actually told me once that it was normal for this to happen and for one to find out later that even tho u are both attracted to each other that u actually dont understand or maybe even like each other. However, i would still say it is worth a shot IP: Logged
fiona Knowflake Posts: 124 From: The World Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 03, 2011 01:13 AM What is your moon sign? Maybe the pisceans you don't get along with have moon or ascendants that are incompatible with you. The pisceans and scorpios I know are far from moody and whiny and pisceans I know are generally gentle people unless there is conflicting aspects in their charts. Sensitive they are, but this is true for all water-influenced people. Cancers don't take things personally? I beg to differ. Unless they have an air/fire moon or heavily influenced by these elements, they are very touchy. They may hurt inside but they seldom show it, unless they have a more expressive ascendant. IP: Logged
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1947 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted March 03, 2011 09:48 AM Idk... I have a love/hate relationship with Virgos (I get annoyed by them but only because I'm around them all the time). Not necessarily Sun Virgos (only know like 1) but people with Virgo ASCs or Moons. I have very little Earth in my chart (only Neptune in Cap) but my SN is Virgo and my IC is Virgo. I'm an Aqua Sun, inconjunct sign, but obviously we need to get away from Sun Sign astrology because it's limiting and boxes people in. IP: Logged
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7833 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted March 03, 2011 11:48 AM Never said Cancers don't take things personally. Just, I find they are much more diplomatic and tactful than pisces or scorpio. They may hurt inside, but they don't make you feel bad by voicing their sensitivity in a rude way. I have met two cancers that were cranky towards me twice. But that's about it. The rest of the water signs I just find hard to figure out. I don't know what they want or what they're thinking. I think Cancers can even appear like an air sign because of how calm, balanced, and rational they seem. That isn't true of the other water signs. I've confused them for either a fire a or air sign (aquarius) because they have a sort of self-sufficientness about them don'tcha think? Even though I don't think cancers really are like that at all. No, they don't have incompatible moon signs or ascendants with me. I checked. IP: Logged
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1947 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted March 04, 2011 10:01 AM No offense, but the reason you think that way is because you are a Cancer. A lot of Cancers I know are moody as hell and get super touchy if you tease them (even when they tease you too). IP: Logged
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7833 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted March 04, 2011 02:37 PM Like i said, that's not my experience of cancers. And besides, how does that even have to do with me not getting along with pisces? Huh? IP: Logged
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9347 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 04, 2011 10:49 PM quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: Like i said, that's not my experience of cancers. And besides, how does that even have to do with me not getting along with pisces? Huh? ^ Case in point. IP: Logged
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7833 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted March 05, 2011 05:09 AM Lol i did not get upset It's just a simple question. IP: Logged
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7833 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted March 05, 2011 06:17 AM Oh, well, nevermind. You don't have to answer that. I see why you said that now. Well, I think what it really is is that their ultra shy and somewhat anti-social behavior (as in they get a temper or are brusque cold and insensitive when it is inappropriate) secretly reminds me of the social deficiencies in myself. And since i see those qualities in myself as a total weakness of mine, it's like they remind me of my own social inadequacies, and I hate them for it. Lol. But honestly, your reply to doesnt ring the most true for me because then if i really did overreact sensitively to everything then why is it only scorpios and pisces that seem to be bothered by it? Why wouldnt the rest of the signs also react in a staboffish way and snap right back at me IP: Logged
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7833 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted March 05, 2011 01:59 PM edited IP: Logged
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2791 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009	posted March 05, 2011 02:49 PM I've never met a passive-agressive Scorpio Moon. There pretty much the only moon placement I have 100% good experiences with. And I've met alot of moody cancers, but only one of them is touchy (a family member whose chart is mostly air and fire too). Honestly, I've met more Scorpios, Sags, and Aquarians who were ridiculously oversensitive about social ettiquete. But again, that's just my personal experience. IP: Logged
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7833 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted March 05, 2011 05:17 PM Dunno, I've never really met anyone who seemed oversensitive over social etiquette. I can imagine that person would sure be annoying tho, lol. I do believe passive-aggressiveness is tradiontionally a scorpio trait, tho. It's because they dont want to show all their feelings or their motives---/always something underneath the surface. I can relate to that as a cancer but i'm not as much of an "investigator" as scorpios. I genuinely dont understand that kind of thinking. I take people at their word and i generally think the human psyche and people in general just arent that complicated. But maybe you get along with scorpio moons because it is in harmony with your moon. I think you just havent ever realized how passive aggressive scorpio moons are----they are very good at hiding everything. Trust me. IP: Logged
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2791 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009	posted March 05, 2011 06:03 PM Sorry Im not being clear enough: by oversensitive with social ettiquete I meant they are ridiculously touchy about stupid crap, like not calling them on time, not hanging out every so often, not facebooking them often enough, or even saying the wrong thing. Again, this has just been my experiences. And technically, passive aggressiveness is traditionally a water trait...but Im more inclined to look people's mars conditions for that kind of thing. And perhaps you're right re: my moon...its in the 8th house so I can definitely relate to the Scorpio Moon's need for absolute privacy. Though I still wouldn't consider them passive aggressive because they're incredibly straightfoward (atleast to me they are). IP: Logged
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9347 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 05, 2011 07:11 PM It's more of a whole chart thing + genetics + early home environment, etc. than just the Sun. IP: Logged
Cynnared Knowflake Posts: 1073 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 05, 2011 11:30 PM Can you put your chart up? I find things go differently.......I am a woman and my guy friends sun signs either sextile or trine my sun. For women friends I seem to have signs that aspect my moon and venus. BUT do I have any women friends that have their Sun make any aspect to my sun..nope...... IP: Logged
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7833 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted March 06, 2011 03:17 AM Oooooooh Benedict Moon, then I am huge on social etiquette. I also think capricorns are like that, too. I don't know if other cancers are but I definitely am. I think it's rude. I even make sure I say okay bye ttyl i g2g in text messages. I hate when someone leaves me hanging and i think it shows they have little regard for you. Of course there are some people who have little regard for anyone. But i understand people need their space too obviously. I just take it as a hint that when someone doesn't call me, we are not that good of friends. IP: Logged
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7833 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted March 06, 2011 03:19 AM Speaking of social etiquette...lol Cynnared, I will gladly post my chart up tomorrow but I am so sleepy atm! IP: Logged
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2791 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009	posted March 06, 2011 11:24 AM Well I was referring more to the scenario of being busy with schoolwork and work-work and therefore not being able to hang out or even chat for a while. I don't get why people get ridiculous about that, especially when I was understanding when they were in a similar spot a few years earlier. Its like... I'm sorry my life doesn't revolve around you? IP: Logged
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7833 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted March 07, 2011 02:58 AM Bm sounds like they just dont believe you. That's pretty demanding of someone to do, though. Wow. IP: Logged

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