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Topic: How can I capture a venus conjunct mars in aries man??
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angel100
Knowflake Posts: 244
From: Ireland
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted March 07, 2011 03:27 PM
  
I have met up once or twice with this very enticing guy and I really like him....but he's very hard to capture lol. He is a taurean with his venus exactly conjunct mars in aries. I can't post the charts but I have some of our closest synastry aspects here, If anyone can help that would be smashing!Me Him orb
Sun opp mars 1
Sun opp venus 2
moon square pluto 0
asc conj saturn 0
asc conj node 5
moon trine sun 4
saturn opp sun 4
pluto opp mars 6 IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 548
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 07, 2011 03:33 PM
Are they opposite his Pluto in Libra?
He might have the same chart as my fiance. IP: Logged |
littlecloud
Moderator Posts: 721
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Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 07, 2011 03:34 PM
You don't. They capture you.IP: Logged |
angel100
Knowflake Posts: 244
From: Ireland
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted March 07, 2011 03:50 PM
His pluto is in libra, mine, is in scorpio....Littlecloud, your correct with that answer I know...damn....lol IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1794
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 07, 2011 11:41 PM
What she said ^^^^^^
Aries likes the thrill of the chase... Be unavailable alot! Tell him you can only be friends.. Nothing else.
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vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1185
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 07, 2011 11:55 PM
I'm dating a Taurus Sun with Aries Venus conjunct my Mars in Aries as well. If he likes you, he will pursue you, it should be that obvious... IP: Logged |
Deux*Antares
Knowflake Posts: 914
From: I am where I am and it's enough.
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 08, 2011 12:02 AM
I read somewhere: "Blossom like a flower and let the bees come to you". Every sane woman subscribes to this.IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
Knowflake Posts: 130
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Registered: Oct 2009
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posted March 08, 2011 06:09 AM
By not letting them capture you.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 565
From: USA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 10, 2011 02:19 PM
I agree with all the replies. I had a pisces guy chasing after me once, and I would reject every one of his advances and it seemed to make him even more enthusiastic. Then again i have venus and mars in leo so I liked that aggressive energy.IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 548
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 10, 2011 07:48 PM
Every person I know/have known with a Venus/Mars conjunction (including the two who have it in Aries) does not like pre-set gender roles like "the macho man" and "the damsel in distress".
They like people who have a healthy balance between femininity and masculinity... people who can be both aggressive and passive, whenever the situation calls for it. Doing nothing at all and waiting for him to chase.. is not sexual or seductive enough to entice a fiery person, or to keep his attention.
Aries loves women/men/people/places that SCREAM sex -- Not in a subtle way, but in an overt way. IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh
Newflake Posts: 9
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 11, 2011 04:11 AM
just rub up against him like a kitty kat, thats how I get my men.IP: Logged |
maira
Knowflake Posts: 206
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted March 11, 2011 06:59 AM
I'm a triple aries - my sun-venus-mars conjunction is 0 degree orb, and my moon is in Taurus. I agree with Betty, I like overt sexual discussions, but only when I'm comfortable enough with the person (which could take eons, btw - my moon in in 8th). I don't agree with the "damsel in distress" comment, it's just a facade. I believe that in every Aries there's a damsel in distress or a knight in shining armor buried deep inside. I just want to be that damsel for the guy who is strong enough. My guess is that it's the same for a guy - he wants to "rescue" his damsel, but she must be one hell of a woman (think Scarlett O'Hara  )IP: Logged |
Deux*Antares
Knowflake Posts: 914
From: I am where I am and it's enough.
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 11, 2011 07:38 AM
A woman can exude SEX vibes (or whatever the man wants or finds attractive) without her having to do any overt acts of pursuit. Chasing is almost always seen as desperation, so it is never advisable for a girl to chase a man. You have to show "interest" but never "neediness".There is a big difference between attracting with confidence and being in a damsel in distress role. The first means you have internal balance and that you are not desperate because you know you are attractive (that's why I used the flower-bee analogy). The second means you need a man to fill something lacking in your life, and that any man will do as long as he can fulfill your expectations. bethcarliseh: your advice is good but only for a girl looking to have her itch scratched. IP: Logged |
maira
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posted March 11, 2011 08:46 AM
What Deux said  IP: Logged |
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