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Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
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posted March 08, 2011 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello fellow Scorpio Pluto people!

I'm curious as to whether you have been romantically involved with men/women who have either Venus or Mars exactly conjunct your Pluto?
(By 'exactly' I mean at the absolute most an orb of '3)

How did these relationships play out?

:edit: You can go into Moon/Pluto conjunctions as well. I don't know everyone's exact birth time so I can't check this. :edit:

I'm also interested in people who have Moon/Venus and/or Mars in Scorpio - and have experienced this conjunction -- What was it like from *your* perspective?

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I realised that every person of the opposite sex who I consider/ed very emotionally close to me, has one of these placements.
Some astrologers say that since Pluto is generational, it does not have a strong impact in one on one relationships.
But this is too much to be just coincidence!

It starts when I was born with the boy next door who I became really close to -- He has Mars in Scorpio at 6'27 (born 14/08/82). We're still in touch.

Later in primary school, one of my two best friends was male. He had Venus at 6'39 Scorpio, (born 15/09/86). We also had a mutual 'puppy love' crush on each other lol

In high school I was again very close to a guy. He fell in love with me but I saw him more as a friend. I was very surprised by the intensity of his feelings. In a sense even if I did not like him "that" way -- I was in complete admiration of his intensity (I don't like superficial feelings/behaviour). He had Venus at 6'19 Scorpio, (born 15/10/1987).

In Uni - at my drama club, I met yet another Venus in Scorpio lol We were very close until I moved, for about 3 years. It was such an instant connection, as though I'd known him forever. He had Venus at 6'23 Sco (born: 18/09/73).
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Actually, my Saggy ex also has Scorpio Venus.. but at a different degree -- so it doesn't count for the purposes of his thread!
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The man I am absolutely head over heels in love with has Mars at 6'38 Scorpio, (born: 02/08/67). Again, it was such an instant connection - I can't explain it lol


My natal Pluto is at -- 6'29 Scorpio.

I mean really - what were the odds that I'd meet so many people with these placements and have such positive experiences with them?
This is never a love/hate thing. It is never complicated. No one plays games.
It's just genuine and real - We *actually* care about each other. That's what I like most about the connection.


I would absolutely love to hear your own experiences with these aspects!!!


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GrlyGirl20
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posted March 09, 2011 08:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Betty,

I have actually dated a guy who had his Venus in Scorp Conjunct my Pluto at 1 degree (he natally also had the aspect). Let me tell you...it took me YEARS to get over him. And it was horrible. He was a double Sag Sun and Moon Conjunct Saturn and Uranus with Venus/Mer in Scorp and Mars in Pisces (along with Virgo Rising).

I was so into him it wasn't funny. I didn't look at another guy or even wanted another guy (however natally I have all my personal planets other than Mars touching Pluto…so when I’m into something I’m REALLY into something). I did so many crazy things and reacted to him in such an intense way. I remember I even threw a plate at him. And one time called him drunk and we had a knock out drag argument in the middle of the night while he was away in Maryland and I was in SC.

But being with him was soooo amazing, just the sheer flood of emotions I had was something I'd never felt before at the time. I knew he had feelings for me however he always tried to fight them due to his Virgo Rising and wanting the perfect girl. He always thought I slept around and he couldn't trust me due to how easily I slept with him and was willing to do whatever. However my Mars in Cancer only comes out fully when I am 100% into someone. So he never took that into consideration.

As far as the Moon to Pluto Conjunction, I have had that but in the Composite and in terms of Parallel synastry. I have an Aqua ex with Virgo Moon and we have the Composite Moon in Scorp Conjunct Pluto (along with the Sun/Venus and Mars also touching Pluto negatively). And we also have his Moon Parallel my Pluto.

He also was a very intense relationship. He essentially touched parts of me that I didn't know I had. I won't say I felt more for him than the double Sag, but I will say that we got along better so the intensity was more to where it wasn't ALWAYS so turbulent (although it deff could be and was). I was 21 when I dealt with the Sag (and we were never officially together, and 24 when dealing with the Aqua and we were official).

So the relationships were very different. My relationship with the Aqua was more emotional than sexual even with the Pluto stuff involved, but that didn’t slack by any means. I think from his part he felt a great deal for me, especially seeing as he was a Virgo Moon it is VERY important to feel fulifilled and appreciated, and my combo of Cap and Cancer did just that. Things moved VERY fast for us emotionally…despite being both Saturn ruled individuals and it just felt like we were destined to be together.

But I will say for both of them they have been two guys I won't forget. I know with the double Sag would never be just my friend (my poor Venus in 11th was sad about that). He couldn't and wouldn't. That goes for the Aqua as well. We broke up a year ago in Feb, but only stopped talking in July…and I do still miss him deeply (his Moon also touched my IC) but he got angry at me after he found out I was moving away and decided in true Pluto fashion that he didn’t want to deal with me (which I’ve seen with Scorp/Pluto influenced ppl, even me…when we get angry or hurt we just delete you from our lives…but with me and my more detached bits I can indeed eventually be just a friend). He came to see me in August however I didn’t get a chance to see him, and since he hasn’t been in town. I will admit I do care for him, even with all the drama that happened. But I think that is what makes Pluto connections great…they do cause major drama but they also tend to cement things.

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