posted March 09, 2011 05:14 AM            

I am simply a person who wants their privacy, so what is someone like me to do?

Note: Check out my 3rd house, it has Mars, but come on, just Mars being in the 3rd isn't that big of a deal, I mean these people make scenes. If it were anyone else trying to keep a low profile it would all slide right by unnoticed, but for some reason it's very important for people to be acknowledged/accepted by me and, aside from friends and close fam, I just want to be left alone.

When my daughter and I go out, forget about it, people are always all over us and it makes me feel so confined and stressed. We both draw attention individually, but put us together and it's just non-stop, everyone has to know everything about us, strangers touching her (I don't understand this since I never walk around touching other people's children, and you guessed it, if I tell them to stop touching her they throw a fit and start swearing, etc. right in front of her and loudly), asking us inappropriate questions (I don't want to tell strangers where she goes to school, what if they follow her and try to kidnap her??), it's just uncalled for.

Please help, if you see anything other than h3 Mars or w-t-heck is going on. I really don't want to spend any more decades dealing with this than I have already.

Natal,

And if you've never had this problem, don't complain to me that it's a petty worry, because this happens almost daily. So would you want to be stressed when you step outside to go out in the world, even by neighbors, knowing that once you go out there are going to be people on top of you, harassing you, no, you wouldn't. This is something I don't understand, because I'm very sensitive to someone not wanting me to talk to them, I intuit it and stop right away if that's what I pick up on, so I don't get why people can't do the same to me after I've verbalized it, and given body language hints...is it Mercury in the 7th??

posted March 09, 2011 07:40 AM            

I want to keep a lot of things private/hidden/secret - not necessarily because I have anything to hide and not necessarily for a *reason* - but simply because I don't feel it is anyone else's business. After answering questions about my life I feel drained and annoyed. I feel like the other person has now received a chunk of *me* that they were not entitled to (or not "yet" - if I didn't know them well enough).. because it is simply none of their business. I can't understand those with a strong curiosity about others. I think it is grounded in 'fear of the unknown'.. They must know everything about everyone - as a sort of protection mechanism. I find it defensive in a way that puts me off.

Anyway - back to Neptune/Pisces... Maybe because people with these influences have a strong desire to keep things private ---- others interpret this as -a mystery to solve-. This is kind of ridiculous because often there is no mystery at ALL - But the mere fact that you want to keep something private, could have curious people intrigued as to WHY you want it private... what are you hiding? etc..

In my case - it's Mars conj Neptune!.. I don't think it is Pisces Mercury or Jupiter as much as it is that conjunction. Because I seem mysterious - as though I am hiding something. The truth is I am hiding a LOT - but most of it is not interesting and has no connection to anyone - so it shouldn't spark their curiosity so much.
But I guess with some people - It is just in their nature to be curious.

posted March 09, 2011 09:41 AM            

with pluto in ur 3h you may naturally feel the need to keep things private.

mars is ruler of 9th. may mean that people feel they can expand through you. you can bring somethng differetn to them, so they are curios, but the type of curiosity that annoys you may have to do more with pluto or saturn.

you may be very selective and behave cold towards those daring to intrude in your life, but it may be somehow difficult with these signs in libra. asserting yourself without being not nice with mars in libra?

you mention about people being creepy. with pluto-mars combination that may be the cause and in the 3-4 house, your community and even you own family may play a role in these fears. saturn restrict the need of your soul for transformation and you may encounter more the transformation outside.

with mars coming from 9 to the 3rd, it may also indicate the you can expand through contact in ur community.

on the other hand.... I have a tip i have given to some friends that feel invade by question. i tend to answer either very provocative, but nice answers or i just ask ver intrusive question and more questions as to intimidate them. either way has worked for me in the past.

I remember when i started dating my ex-husband i slept in his house and came to work with his jacket, which obviously looked bigger than I. one person asked and I responded bluntly in front of everybody that was my date jacket that i had no time to go home to change my clothes. I said that with such innocence face that after that, nobody dared to ask more questions.

the other way around is overwhelming with undelicate questions while not giving time to ask questions. this goes excelent!!!

good luck. hope this helps

posted March 09, 2011 10:19 AM            

You have Pluto square Venus in the 6th and square moon in the 6th.

I am thinking that your Pluto on the IC may have something to do with this but in an indirect way.
I can't formulate words as to how. Does this ring any bells?

posted March 09, 2011 12:12 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:

with pluto in ur 3h you may naturally feel the need to keep things private.

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posted March 09, 2011 12:58 PM            

Depending on the person I get vague or just say "nothing". People get the hint from me, if not subtly then with force Sometimes, I just ignore their question and ask them one myself

posted March 09, 2011 01:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
What kind of strange reactions, if you don't mind, or are they of a Martian nature?

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Almost like they're intimidated or threatened by something. But I always thought it was more of Pluto or Lilith thing.