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Topic: Unaspected Planets in Synastry??
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 09, 2011 10:18 AM
  
Hello guys ,
Has anyone had an experience where one (or several) planets where unaspected in synastry??
I am especially interested in Jupiter. One special person's Jupiter doesn't touch any of my planets, and I wonder how this would play out.
Any input?
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blugrey
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From: Portland, OR USA
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 09, 2011 12:44 PM
Usually it just means you don't really feel what the planet rules. Watch for conjunctions though, because often times people miss those!!  If it's Moon or Venus, usually it means they are an acquaintance Jupiter... I'd guess that whatever area their Jupiter touches in your chart (houses) will not go anywhere? Just my guesses, sorry! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted March 09, 2011 07:34 PM
Haha thanks .I read that it stands out somehow, but that the energy of the planet is difficut to incorporate in the relationship. Just wondering what Jupiter would do ? Lack of optimism, joy ? Even though they are important things ? Hmm.. I'll have to think about that. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted March 09, 2011 11:40 PM
Ooooh these bad boys..
Yes, one I cant think of right now I was in a sexual relationship with someone where my Mars was unaspected in our synastry. His Mars got a nice lil encouraging sextile from my Jupiter (Jupiter to Mars in synastry increases energetic/sex drive)....SOOOOO  you can guess how that played out, I think it was the worst sex of my life.
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What about unaspected Sun, has anyone here had that, I'm really curious about it?IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted March 09, 2011 11:48 PM
Oh and about Jupiter,
Jupiter is heavennnnnn in relationships because it is generous, tolerant and above all forgives. So it's possible that the person who has an unaspected Jupiter in synastry could feel a lack of openness in dealing with the other person, esp. if their Saturn is strong natally and they're not dealing with it well, or if there are adverse Saturn aspects in the synastry.
The one thing I can think of to point to as reference would be to think of a relationship where you had Jupiter conj Sun or Venus or Asc, and what that was like since those 3 are major Jupiter energy activation aspects in synastry.
Also maybe if you can think of one where your Jupiter squared their Venus, Jupiter tends to over-give and just think the world of Venus (hard Jupiter leans toward indulgence), so that would be the counterpoint.IP: Logged |
racole12
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Registered: Feb 2010
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posted March 10, 2011 01:52 AM
I have an unaspected Mars in my relationship... BUT it you use mid points he has a terrible Saturn Uranus Mars t-square which my Mars is the midpoint to all that... it's the best sex I have ever had... (meaning my Mars was at the midpoint of his Mars/Uranus mp and his Uranus/Saturn mp) what I am getting to... look at mid-points. IP: Logged |
winter
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From: Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 10, 2011 02:10 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Lonake:
What about unaspected Sun, has anyone here had that, I'm really curious about it?
Lonake, would this be classified as an unaspected Sun?
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Dreamy_AriesGirl
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posted March 10, 2011 02:12 AM
I have unaspected Moon and Mercury with someone very special to me. When we were friends/colleagues our relationship was more than amazing and satisfying, but when we tried to be together, it has become a big failure, mainly because he started to ignore both my emotional (Moon) and any other needs.
I love him deeply though.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted March 10, 2011 02:38 AM
quote:
Originally posted by racole12:
I have an unaspected Mars in my relationship... BUT it you use mid points he has a terrible Saturn Uranus Mars t-square which my Mars is the midpoint to all that... it's the best sex I have ever had... (meaning my Mars was at the midpoint of his Mars/Uranus mp and his Uranus/Saturn mp) what I am getting to... look at mid-points.
No, I think there's more in the synastry, the basic synastry, to account for that.
For something as simple as sex there's no need to look at midpoints, asteroids, etc. Maybe for added detail, or seasoning, if that's your thing, but the main course of it is in the basic synastry. With my guy we had practically nothing from my pov, not from his though.
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Lonake
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posted March 10, 2011 02:39 AM
Hi Winter, I meant in synastry, chart-to-chart comparison, that was my Q.IP: Logged |
winter
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posted March 10, 2011 06:23 AM
Ooops, 'scuse my post first/read later Aries Asc. No idea where I got the idea this thread was about composites.  IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted March 11, 2011 08:28 PM
Hi Winter, even though the Sun in the composite is not in major aspect, it is still the focal point of a Yod which makes it very important in the chart. Yods have to be wielded carefully, their energy, but once they are, then they can be very creative aspect patterns, so together the two can have a very unique and creative relationship, esp with the venus/moon trine the genius conj of uranus/pluto. Another marker for this is the Asc ruler conj the Mc.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 13, 2011 08:00 AM
Thank you for your replies guys.
Unfortunately this person's Jupiter doesn't touch any of my planets, AND his Saturn touches almost everything in my chart.. sigh.He may never open up to me, I know that.
He is VERY cold. COLD ! Ice. I don't know what is going to happen next but I'm definitely not very optimistic. IP: Logged |
blugrey
Knowflake Posts: 385
From: Portland, OR USA
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 14, 2011 02:55 AM
This guy always acts interested in me but his Sun, Merc, Mars, Moon, Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune are unaspected by my planets. Geez! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 146
From: Everywhere :)
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 16, 2011 09:59 AM
blugrey, ARE YOU KIDDING??WOW. That's intriguing. IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted March 16, 2011 10:58 AM
My jupiter is unaspected in house 10. My jupiter was in conj to my exhusbands mars conj valentine. The only thing who works out well all the time and into the end of our 15 year togheter was our sexlife.
He was the man who always push me and helped me and was behind me when I was in my own developing to build a good future.IP: Logged |
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