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RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 09, 2011 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone dealt with either of these two aspects in the composite chart? Tell me how did it feel?

With Sun square Pluto Did it feel that any secrets you or the other person tried to hide didn't work because it's like you could tell when the other person was lying. Did u find that you both got really close really quickly, but u also sometimes annoy each other. Do you find that you have an intense effect on each other, able to make the other feel a lot more strongly, inspire them, change them, and make them very nervous and shy for whatever reason, and vice versa? Do you feel very suspicious of each other? Lol, but still very close.

With Sun square Moon do you feel extreme fascination with this person and you wish you could lead a life like theirs? You wish you could have their positive attributes and you long to be around them but at the same time you feel extremely uneasy and awkward around each other, as if you're not on the same wavelength?

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posted October 10, 2011 09:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the guy i like and I share sun square pluto. i am sun and he is pluto. I want to know more of what could it mean?

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posted October 10, 2011 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this with Gem, in synastry and in composite.
When we first met over 13 years ago.. I immediately knew I had to meet him...
I feel pretty hard fast.. I was not expecting him to hit me like that...
I KNEW he was hiding something from me, but I was so head over heals that I choose to ignore my instincts. But deep down inside, I just knew it would never work..
Then one day his secret came out.. I wasnt shocked, bc I guess I knew all along, but to find it it was true.. I was anger more at myself than him..
I did what I needed to do, I turned and walked away from him...
Always wondering "what if"
We started talking again after 12 years of separation..
W just cant get to that level again... I cant forgive enough to let it go..

Anyways.. Back then we WERE great together!!
Always had so much fun, and just clicked..
We would spend the entire weekend together!
I love being in his presence!
I felt no other MAN will do!!
I found the one I want!

sometimes these things sux

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posted October 10, 2011 09:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
awwww I am sorry to hear that! I assume you were the sun person?

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posted October 10, 2011 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ohh.. (add)

Back then we never got to experience the harder aspects.
When I found out his lies, I walked away from him, it wasnt the last time I heard from him, but I wasnt going to forgive him..

Now I guess the harder aspects are being felt..
We just cant get on the same page any more.. IDK to much history..
In the long run we BOTH ended up hurting each other..
We did discuss it and clear the air during venus rx... and we decided its best to just be friends..

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posted October 10, 2011 09:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi lioness

Wow, you brought this thread back from the dead. Lol. Yay.

Well, what i was wondering is why can't you forgive him? It must've been something pretty bad that he did, right?

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posted October 10, 2011 09:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by curiouswoman:
awwww I am sorry to hear that! I assume you were the sun person?

In the synastry no.. He was..

His (late) Gem to my early Pluto..

But in the long run, it was all up to me, and I didnt choose him... I couldnt..

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posted October 10, 2011 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can i have the birth datas?

I want to see what was going on in your synastry

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posted October 10, 2011 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
hi lioness

Wow, you brought this thread back from the dead. Lol. Yay.

Well, what i was wondering is why can't you forgive him? It must've been something pretty bad that he did, right?


OO YEAH!!
I found out he had a GF, and they lived together.. :O
In my eyes thats the same as being married..
He would try to tell me, he's trying to do the right thing because he got her pregnant. But yeeah nope! not gonna happen!
When he split with her, he called me right away, and told me..
I told him he was to late, and I was moving in with virgo (he knew who he was)

(boy did his feelings about that come out last year! ) LOL....


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posted October 10, 2011 09:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Can i have the birth datas?

I want to see what was going on in your synastry


Yes..

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posted October 10, 2011 10:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay, i got it saved

i'm taking a look at it now

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posted October 10, 2011 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
heeeeey I brought this thread from the dead too taps back :P) so you as PLUTO how did YOU FEEL about him first time you met him?

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posted October 10, 2011 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
awwww I am sorry to hear that! I assume you were the sun person?

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posted October 10, 2011 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by curiouswoman:
heeeeey I brought this thread from the dead too taps back :P) so you as PLUTO how did YOU FEEL about him first time you met him?

my pluto sq his sun
his pluto sq my venus

I met him at a club.. I was dancing on stage (ok I AM a Leo... lol)
I turned and looked at the door.. He walked in.. Our eyes locked.. (ok I know sounds cliche)
I knew right away I had to meet him...
I watched him the entire night (he sad he also watched me)
Neither of us making a move, but making eye contact the entire night..

BTW.. I meet him the hour of my Solar Return

Then near the end of the night.. His friend approached me..
His friend recognized me. His friend said arent u Lioness??
remember me... I didnt... LOL
So then I asked who's your friend.. So he then introduced me to gem...
We talked, and went out side... At the end of the night he followed me home, we ended up sitting on the porch talking until like 8am.
We were together every weekend after that, until I found out..

We meet at the age of 25, (my 25th bday) and we both went to the same high school, but never met in school..

Since the age of 14, we have lived 5 mins apart, even after the 12 year separation. Meaning we still live 5 mins apart.

He told me just recently that the night that we met, some girl approached him and asked him to go home with her..
He said he told her no, because he had his eye on me all night..
We definitely "recognized" each other.
We both knew we had to meet.

My Venus is on his SN
His Mercury and Venus (a bit further) are on my SN.

He's someone that will always be in my life.. I know this now... Its cool..
We still get together from time to time..

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posted October 10, 2011 10:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by curiouswoman:
heeeeey I brought this thread from the dead too taps back :P)

True!! Because I saw it at the top..

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posted October 10, 2011 10:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay so you have venus square pluto, venus square mars, sun square pluto, moon trine venus and sun conjunct venus in synastry. Those are all nice. You also have moon square neptune which means a tendency for one or both of you to deceive the other basically.

Then you have sun opp jupiter, moon conjunct jupiter, moon trine neptune and conjunct pluto, and also the sun square pluto. You also have venus and the sun in a loose square to uranus (6 degrees) in the composite.....that means instability but lots of adventure, excitement and fun times together.

The composite and synastry both show tons of fun together and lots of adventure with those great jupiter aspects,And then pluto aspects are what cause strong feelings and obsession, and venus conjunct the sun and trine moon are very loving feelings, then venus square mars shows the sexual attraction.

You should forgive him. He made a mistake. Watch the movie fireproof and the one called courageous in theaters too (it kinda deals with getting a girl pregnant). He was just trying to be there for this girl he didnt love but got pregnant. That at least means he'll try to be there for your kid if and when u have one. I say u should forgive him.

Honestly u can have as many good aspects as u want in a chart, but i think the sun conjunct venus and moon trine venus are what really top it off. Those two show you have real appreciation between the two of you.

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posted October 10, 2011 10:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ahh that is soo sweet, when we first reunited.. We tried!! we both tried so hard..
I forgave him, but I have no trust towards him whats so ever.. (you know us leo's arent so big on forgiving..)
We discussed it, and tried to start over, but there was just too much in between us..
The fact what he did to me, and then the fact I ran off and got married.. (rolling eyes) He always throws that in my face..

It was just always there.. on both sides.. He dis explain his side to me..Which now, yes I do understand it... I forgive it, but I cant get the feelings back.. I wish I could.. but I cant!

Even his FB bothered me.. I had to delete him as a friend, because it was just crawling under my skin.. I couldnt stand it anymore..

I just couldnt get those same feelings back..

What bothers me about him now, is he's irresponsible. Especially with money.. That bugs the crap out of me...

I dont have the same feelings towards him..
He will always have a special place, but we just grew apart..
We continue to be friends... So we are still apart of each others lives.

BTW... OMG we did had SOOO much fun together!

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posted October 10, 2011 11:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol is this true??

Playing With Fire
The problem with you is that you know just how irresistible you are, and that makes it so he doesn't stand a chance in this relationship. You're able to pull the strings to get whatever you want, whenever you want it. It's not like he's totally clueless or anything. He realizes pretty early on that he's playing with fire, but he can't help but get more and more involved with you. Instead of making him run in the opposite direction, all the danger and dysfunction are rocket fuel for the relationship. And the more he's into you, the easier it is for you to take advantage of him, whether you're doing it on purpose or not. He needs to work overtime to retain any semblance of self-worth, especially since your fights have a way of unraveling into name-calling and cheap shots. Unless you're into reenacting scenes from Sleeping With the Enemy, we'd pull the cord on this after the hot and heavy hook-up phase runs its course.

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posted October 10, 2011 11:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oops DP

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posted October 10, 2011 11:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I semi admit, he's playing with fire

He adores mee.. LOL..... But I honestly dont think, he has the same feelings for me either..

We both really tried to get them back, but it just made things worse, because we were both just trying way to hard..

Then we both just sort of gave up... Not talking for a while, then we talk, then we dont...

We just kind of left it as you will always have a special place for each other... But its not meant to be..

No one ever made me feel the way he did... I wanted that back soooooooo much....
I dreamed of it, during our separation.. I always thought of him..

This was my best relationship....


What does that say for me???????? LOL

Before I got married, I went to him, so he would stop me, but he didnt he said nooooo.. You made a promise and now you have to keep it.........
So thats what I did..


Did you notice his mercury/venus on my SN
and my Venus on his SN?

I guess we feel its time to move on..

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posted October 10, 2011 11:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So what about you?

Hows your Sun/Pluto thing working out??

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posted October 10, 2011 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
nope i didnt notice that. but i also have venus on a guys sn and man was that intense but it wasnt meant to be either....

Sorry :/
It's good that u have closure from him though and u guys are still friends:0)
A lot of people dont get to have that ur lucky

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posted October 11, 2011 12:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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nope i didnt notice that. but i also have venus on a guys sn and man was that intense but it wasnt meant to be either....

Sorry :/
It's good that u have closure from him though and u guys are still friends:0)
A lot of people dont get to have that ur lucky


Ahhh sorry
But yeah it happens...
The experience is worth it though
Its better to have had the experience verses nothing at all...

YES I did get closure.. We both did
No more what if's..
I am grateful thats cleared..

But then again, I have Uranus/Pluto in H7.. So my intense relationships usually end suddenly and tragically.

But I have lots of stories!

Leo's LOVe story telling! hahhha

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posted October 11, 2011 01:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol yeah i love story telling drama drama drama...the more dramatic the story the better, lol.

i have lots of leo in my chart too

I love closure, though, but it's not...awesome. Lol. Awesome would be if things worked out.

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posted October 11, 2011 01:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
meh..the sun square plutos in my life....one i ignored cuz he wanted to be a cop and i dont want to be with someone who's gonna die lol. the other one got back with his gf and now we dont talk

the other one moved away, the most we talk is he wishes me a happy birthday on my fb wall lol

i never went as far as going out with any of them but with all of them it was very obvious we would flirt.

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