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posted March 11, 2011 09:55 PM            

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Hi, Guys
So.... I have this synastry chart between I and my friend, I am trying to figure it out
I know him for a decade. First I met him through my best friend at the time (about 10 years ago). He dated her for 3 years (it was serious). After they ended a relationship we lost our touch for 2-2.5 years. Then all of sudden he reappeared and we started to communicate via email/phone (not often may be once in 2-3 months). At that time, I did not trust him due to what my ex-friend told me. But I did not want to be impolite so I talked to him. It lasted for another year or year and a half. In September 2006 I lost my job and all of a sudden he reappeared again and took my resume. Make the story short, thanks to him I found a job (great job) in another city. I moved. The move changed my life. At that time 2006-2007 he lived in a city I was moving to. So I met him several times. Thanked him for his help. And try to develop a friendship. In 2007 and 2008 he asked me "We should try more". Other times he joked "Let¡¦s get married", other times "Lets have sex" I always laughed off his advances. Why?.... well I was not attracted to him. second he dated my friend (I know it silly but I always had this motto in life never date men of your friends (ex or present does not matter) But at that time I started to like him as a human being, I started to trust him and most of all respect him. in 2009 he moved out from city I moved to. But we keep in touch. We email each other, talk and when he is in my city (business trips) we always have dinner and drinks. He calls me regarding his life present relationships, asks for advices. We laugh, make fun of each other. Now he likes this girl, and I am trying to help for him to win her over ƒº
And now, it got me thinking. Why I was not attracted to him in a first place. Still I do not feel any sparkles toward him, but I feel so calm and some what protected next to him. I RESPECT him a lot. What I want is for him to be happy.

Ohh. Forgot to mention we have never been intimate ... not even a kiss
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posted March 11, 2011 10:24 PM            

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what I know about synastry, it is not bad and easy flowing.

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posted March 12, 2011 08:03 AM            

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Who is on the inside/outside of the synastry?

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posted March 12, 2011 09:24 AM            

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I am inside, he is outside

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posted March 12, 2011 09:56 AM            

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This is sounds strange. It seems He is a constant figure in my life. when we lost our touch he always finds me. Sometimes we would not talk to each other MONTHS (4-6 months), then he will call and we will talk like we did not have this break in our comminication.

I see him only couple of times in a year. well may be three.
we have our own lives, our own heartbreaks,happiness, dating lives, plans.
But it seems we care for each other in a very deep and profound way. Well at least I do.

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posted March 12, 2011 03:59 PM            

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