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Topic: What placement do you associate this with?
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Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 562
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 06:12 PM
  
A man who is so completely and totally in love with a woman (after two months of knowing her), that he literally does not have eyes for anyone else.
There could be a line up of attractive women asking him to be with them - and he'd say no, and he wouldn't even consider it. He is just completely, obsessively head over heels into this girl - and no one else.
He is convinced that she's "the one". What astrological placement or aspect (in natal) ^^ do you associate this kind of determination with? Or - if you think it is synastry related... What aspect in synastry could lead to this? IP: Logged |
soulful122
Moderator Posts: 467
From: Where I want to be..
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 09:22 PM
Hmm.. sounds like you're talking about my Leo ex lol. I'm not even sure which aspects might be the cause though..Natally.. he has Merc/Mars conj
Moon/Venus square
Venus/Pluto square
Moon quincunx Merc, Mars, and AC
Venus/Jupiter opposition
Moon/Saturn square
Synastry wise..
Him - Me AC conj Mars
Sun trine Sun
Sun conj Moon
Sun trine Merc
Sun square Pluto
Moon quincunx Mars
Moon square Uranus
Merc sextile Mars
Merc trine Uranus
Venus trine Mars
Mars trine Uranus
Jupiter conj Neptune
Saturn opp Uranus
Saturn trine AC
Uranus conj AC
Uranus trine Jupiter
Neptune trine Moon
Neptune conj Merc
Neptune conj Venus
Neptune conj Saturn
Pluto sextile Venus
Vertex opp Saturn, Merc
After that, we has some okay asteroid stuff going on too.
His Karma conjs my Mars
His Juno conjs my AC
His Amor conjs my Neptune
His Angel conjs my Moon
His Eros sqs my Psyche
His Chiron quincunx my Juno
His Juno trines my Chiron
His Valentine trines my Mars
His DNA conjs my DC My Valentine only opps his Venus
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JohnFKennedy
Knowflake Posts: 208
From: US
Registered: Aug 2009
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posted March 15, 2011 09:28 PM
That definitely sounds like the culprit of a firey moon/venus combo in a man, imo. I experienced something like that with an ex, sometimes I found myself doing that with my Venus/Eros in Aries in the 7th conjuction.. IP: Logged |
Nightingale
Knowflake Posts: 82
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted March 15, 2011 09:32 PM
Honestly, I'd say this is normal. To fall for and/or obsess over someone you believe is the one for you.If it's something else, then it might be what Magi astrology calls a captivation, ie. in synastry her Saturn holds his Venus/Sun/Chiron in its sway. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
Knowflake Posts: 1920
From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 15, 2011 09:36 PM
Sounds like the scorpio influenced to me. Atleast in my experience. IP: Logged |
Lucia23
Knowflake Posts: 2313
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 15, 2011 10:38 PM
To me it sounds like f--ed up Neptune stuff--a Pisces Sun or Moon guy, who at the very beginning is all like "This Is The Love of My Life," and then after between a week and a month once they're actually, closely involved, he either decides she isn't perfect, or he still thinks she's perfect, but there's some Tragic Reason they can't be together.It sounds like all sorts of Neptune projection. Not that healthy, non-psycho men never fall in deep, loyal love...they do. But this sounds like a thing that's been untested by any real everyday life. If you've got a guy that feels that way after ten years of living with a woman, so he already KNOWS all her worst flaws, it's likelier to be a fiery man--Leo/Aries Sun or Moon. Or a Taurus who just wants to settle in long-term! This one sounds all Neptune-y...it could even be a long-distance/imaginary relationship. IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 87
From: California
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 11:20 PM
Sounds like an Aries in love to me...they do this for the first couple months then the passion dies.IP: Logged |
Lucia23
Knowflake Posts: 2313
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 15, 2011 11:41 PM
Actually, TrueTaurus, you have a point. Maybe an Aries with lots of 12th house/Neptune? Or Aries with his 12/Neptune triggered in the synastry?IP: Logged |
soulful122
Moderator Posts: 467
From: Where I want to be..
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 11:42 PM
quote:
Honestly, I'd say this is normal. To fall for and/or obsess over someone you believe is the one for you.If it's something else, then it might be what Magi astrology calls a captivation, ie. in synastry her Saturn holds his Venus/Sun/Chiron in its sway.
I think so too.. but we don't have any of the Magi aspects you mentioned. He was so overly romantic especially in the first few months. ------------------
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Lonake
Moderator Posts: 3472
From: U.S.
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 16, 2011 12:33 AM
No clue, but I would guess from a psych standpoint that she fits in majorly with his anima, so I'll just say that she carries a lot of his Venus energies in her natal, possibly. And that she might want to play it safe because she is receiving projections from him, so he's not seeing her exactly, he's seeing an idealized version, which can go sour at any moment. It's nice to receive good projections, but the negative ones aren't fun.IP: Logged |
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