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From: Betty Boop Land
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posted March 18, 2011 08:34 PM            

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Ok hypothetical situation... You meet a great guy or girl... You have great chemistry. They seem like JUST your kind of person in a lot of ways. Eventually you find out they were adopted (or something similar) and for whatever reason they don't know their birthday at all.
You cannot see their natal chart or run a synastry with them.

Would this bother you at all? Could you date this person or befriend them, or even spend the rest of your life with them -- never having a synastry at all?

I am asking because I know a lot of us here are quite the astro-addicts!

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I've thought about it myself and my answer is - Yes, I could... Because even without a synastry, I get such strong vibes from people - I sense what they are like deep down, before I even read about particular things in their chart.
I think back to being younger and not having a clue that astrology means anything at all... The relationships I had at that point were just as caring and real.
When I looked back on synastries with some of these people - it did not always explain our interaction.

By simply examining my chart, from a detached astrological perspective - I wouldn't imagine that I could be best friends with a Virgo boy (when I was little) or that I would have such a strong bond with a family member who has zero earth in her chart and only Libra-Scorpio in her personal planets. But not knowing - anything at all about their charts - I was very close to them, nonetheless...

Ok - I'm done ranting

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posted March 18, 2011 08:48 PM            

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I say everything happens for a reason.. Your not meant to see his chart..
Accept hit/ it for what it is.. Take it one step at a time..

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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted March 18, 2011 09:09 PM            

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As I get better in Astrology, I can feel what a person's chart is doing to me.
I can feel it down to the planet ,often, for good OR bad.
The chart confirms what I feel.

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posted March 18, 2011 09:11 PM            

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One guy put me on tilt. I thought ,"Man, WHAT is he doing to me?"
Turns out he had a grand cross to my unaspected Venus and moon lol

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posted March 18, 2011 09:15 PM            

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I'd enjoy it, I think. I'd probably have my guesses and my suspiscions as to what they were. In the end, though, if it works, it works. Inconsequential details don't need to be pursued.

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posted March 18, 2011 09:35 PM            

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Pretty much what AG said. Though sometimes clues come to me in dreams that turn out to be correct. Even so, I think it would be a relief to not have something like synastry hanging over me.

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posted March 18, 2011 09:45 PM            

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When i learned a lot about astrology, i began to check synasty and composite charts of closest friends or family members..
In composite charts with many them, red ones are much more than easy aspects but still they are close and didnt not harm me too much as well.. life is moving on, if you continue to seek the perfect, maybe you will never find, nobodies life is perfect, we all try to get it close to perfect but it will never be perfect anyway... so when you fall in love, after you look at synasty if there are many reds, would you quit FALLING IN LOVE? if yes then this is your life but you can regret it later...

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posted March 18, 2011 11:35 PM            

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It's too late for me now. I'm addicted to synastry.

I already have low tolerance (romance wise) for those who won't say what their sign is, or lie about it. My feeling is, this is what I'm into, you don't have like it but don't withhold information from me.

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posted March 19, 2011 03:35 AM            

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I'm with AG and BM.

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posted March 19, 2011 05:11 AM            

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Yea I could, no problem.
(But secretly I'd prob hire a PI to track this guys roots ) lmao!

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posted March 19, 2011 05:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
As I get better in Astrology, I can feel what a person's chart is doing to me.
I can feel it down to the planet ,often, for good OR bad.
The chart confirms what I feel.

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I'm exactly the same! Feelings with certain aspects/placements/signs keep repeating themselves.

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posted March 19, 2011 06:02 AM            

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WHY have astrology dictate to how to live and who to love? Does it REALLY matter - nope. I don't know WHY a person would put a lot of stock in astrology over matters like this.....but my own answer is no. Just go live life and enjoy it. If you meet somebody who you get along with great, pursue it.

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posted March 19, 2011 08:23 AM            

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If someone touches my moon,I feel it.It feels like an emotional disconnect.
My closest friend has his moon oppose mine.
He looks at me like I am a zoo animal when I try to describe emotions.
Recently,*I* felt that SAME disconnect and the man's Saturn squared my Venus AND moon.
Talk about the opposite of sympatico

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posted March 19, 2011 08:49 AM            

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I can feel other aspects,too.I can feel when someone's Venus is in good aspect to me such as my Sun trines someone's Venus.
I can feel my Sun conjuncting someone's moon.

I can feel someone's planets on my ASC,too.

I think it is a matter of seeing how that person makes you feel and then going back and checking the chart to see why.

I can feel compatibilities(or the opposite) on here. I,sometimes, ask people so I can check it out lol

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From: Praha
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posted March 19, 2011 04:28 PM            

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I always choose NOT to look natal chart But,sometimes people bore to me to point I start screaming,so I do it. I like to observe chart's person; being in some kind of relationship blurs my astro endeavours... I know basic positions for my siblings,eg,but I avoid interpreting it.
I lose myself in other type of astro idle thoughts,like,why,oh,why,Venus s so close to Sun?? Wouldn't it be just great to have sun trine venus Imagine that: woman with sag sun leo venus

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posted March 19, 2011 04:51 PM            

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I think that would be kind of awesome - although, it's when the relationship starts getting a little rocky and you find the person you're seeing becoming a little elusive, it would be nice to reference the fact, "oh, this person is an Aquarius moon, no wonder they get very detached from time to time, I understand now."

I mean, I fully admit it's my fault for becoming dependent on astrology as I have. I think dating someone in this kind of situation would probably be for my betterment since I couldn't reference their chart and would have to deal with things "the old fashioned way", haha

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posted March 23, 2011 06:42 PM            

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I'd go for it.

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posted March 24, 2011 08:29 PM            

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I'm sorry if someone snubs sb else simply cos they didn't have their dob info, that's nuts.

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