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Topic: Being "Fickle" in terms of relationships...
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MertSerimer
Knowflake Posts: 30
From: Turkey, Istanbul
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 19, 2011 12:45 PM
  
Yeah i can't just help it....
I can't love someone more than a week but after a month my feelings just come back!!!In Chinese ast. my identity and ascendant are HORSE....(LOL)
My Sun, Venus and Mercury are in Sagittarius, Mars and Part of Fortune are in Gemini, Moon and ascendant are in Pisces, many are in mutable signs... I wish there was a cure.. IP: Logged |
blugrey
Knowflake Posts: 399
From: Portland, OR USA
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 19, 2011 01:16 PM
The thing is for me - I the past when I rushed into something and let myself get carried away and promised more than I can really give, I tended to get "cold feet" and run off.
I think maybe taking your relationships slower and not jumping off the deep end (hard for Sag, I know - I have a Saggie moon too) is key. Take it slow, even though it kills you!! Find out if it's really someone you really like instead of just going off the first impression and how they make you feel. (infatuation)
This tends to come with maturity too. lol I'm getting better at this with practice and time!  IP: Logged |
MertSerimer
Knowflake Posts: 30
From: Turkey, Istanbul
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 19, 2011 01:37 PM
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Originally posted by blugrey:
The thing is for me - I the past when I rushed into something and let myself get carried away and promised more than I can really give, I tended to get "cold feet" and run off.
I think maybe taking your relationships slower and not jumping off the deep end (hard for Sag, I know - I have a Saggie moon too) is key. Take it slow, even though it kills you!! Find out if it's really someone you really like instead of just going off the first impression and how they make you feel. (infatuation)
This tends to come with maturity too. lol I'm getting better at this with practice and time!
Thx a lot for the explanation. Yeah as the time goes by or i grow up it can be more steady but i just wanna live and enjoy "my youthness". Sure everything comes with a price ofc, if i get it what i wanted, i must accept the facts.. and also it is bad for the person in relationship with me ofc so at least i can do is telling the truth in the beginning that i can be "fickle".. IP: Logged |
amowls**
Knowflake Posts: 147
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 19, 2011 01:49 PM
Don't i know it. I have venus in Pisces and mars in sag, myself.IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy
Knowflake Posts: 208
From: US
Registered: Aug 2009
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posted March 19, 2011 03:52 PM
Could have any of Pisces/Sag folk ever see yourself legitimately settling down with one person that you've actually been with? Do you have other things in your chart that would make you inclined to do so - like some Virgo, Scorpio, Taurus, etc.? IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
Knowflake Posts: 244
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted March 19, 2011 04:33 PM
Since actual love time to grow, and time to fade, you've actually never been in love lol. I think it was all infatuation.IP: Logged |
MertSerimer
Knowflake Posts: 30
From: Turkey, Istanbul
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 19, 2011 04:35 PM
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Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
Could have any of Pisces/Sag folk ever see yourself legitimately settling down with one person that you've actually been with? Do you have other things in your chart that would make you inclined to do so - like some Virgo, Scorpio, Taurus, etc.?
I forget to mention, In Chinese ast, identity and ascendant are in horse....(LOL)well yeah, virgo rules 7th house... south node and chiron(5th) in cancer maybe shows domesticality...
As long as i dont get what i want from her(i mean if she plays better than me in a relationship) maybe i can insist on her for a some time...It is my assumption though.. IP: Logged |
MertSerimer
Knowflake Posts: 30
From: Turkey, Istanbul
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 19, 2011 04:39 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Since actual love time to grow, and time to fade, you've actually never been in love lol. I think it was all infatuation.
True indeed, I may never been in love "with someone" as you say. But i was in love with concept of love rather than the girl.. the girl was just the tool or channeler to feel it i begin to realize... i don't agree the love part that you are saying " actual love time to grow, and time to fade".. I can only agree that it will a lot of time to fade but not the start..if you see, moon in pisces(getting sextile from Neptune) and Venus in sagittarius shows that i can love enourmously and in a multi-dimensional spiritual way.. at least i am capable of loving more than enough, this is why i can not commit i guess.. if i do that, i will have disappointment.. you can consider this "fickleness" as a self-protection i guess... IP: Logged |
racole12
Knowflake Posts: 915
From: the world is my home!
Registered: Feb 2010
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posted March 19, 2011 05:23 PM
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Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
Could have any of Pisces/Sag folk ever see yourself legitimately settling down with one person that you've actually been with? Do you have other things in your chart that would make you inclined to do so - like some Virgo, Scorpio, Taurus, etc.?
I remember times where I would like 3-5 guys at the same time... but something changed in 2007 and I'm not like that anymore... It's when Pluto was conj my DSC/Mars that changed my running around. LOL
I'm a Saggie... and yeah, I always see me settling down a Pisces. Those are the ones that hook me. But, the current Pisces has his Moon in Taurus and so do I... so that helps some! IP: Logged |
curbro
Knowflake Posts: 81
From: Missouri, USA
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 19, 2011 08:23 PM
quote:
Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
Could have any of Pisces/Sag folk ever see yourself legitimately settling down with one person that you've actually been with? Do you have other things in your chart that would make you inclined to do so - like some Virgo, Scorpio, Taurus, etc.?
I'm a pisces with a sag mars and I can honestly say that I could only settle with my ex. He was an alcoholic, though, and I've been sober for 4 years. If he quit drinking it would work. If not, never.
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Anglerfish
Knowflake Posts: 148
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Registered: Jan 2011
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posted March 20, 2011 01:50 AM
quote:
Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
Could have any of Pisces/Sag folk ever see yourself legitimately settling down with one person that you've actually been with? Do you have other things in your chart that would make you inclined to do so - like some Virgo, Scorpio, Taurus, etc.?
Pisces Sun/Sag Moon here... Yes I do have other stuff in my chart which make me be inclined to settle down. That being Venus cj. Saturn in Cappy making a sextile to Juno in Scorpio and Cappy Venus ruling my DSC/7th. ------------------
He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. And when you gaze long into an abyss the abyss also gazes into you."- Friedrich Nietzsche. ASC 29 Scorpio...
Late Degree Scorpio Rising FTW!!! IP: Logged |
Cynnared
Knowflake Posts: 730
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 21, 2011 05:32 PM
I have Sun Uranus opposition, Gemini Rising and also a Venus in Pisces square to Jupiter/Neptune. I think that would be a fickle combo right there but what anchors me down is my earth planets plus a security loving Cancer moon. Sometimes there are other things in a chart that help balance it out if you have it. That may be a cure. The fickle and unstable phase for me was when I was a young 20 something. I find as time goes on I am not very fickle and more stable. Sometimes things in your progressed chart will balance things out and things will stablize. Just my thoughts.......oh my progressed Sun is in Taurus and it is now conjuncting my natal Saturn in Taurus. Cynn IP: Logged |
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