posted March 23, 2011 03:48 AM            

So, the situation now is that the whole getting-back-to-life deal required me to choose/make new dreams. Dreams are very important to me and they are a huge part of who I'm. My dreams revolve around a small and happy family. And of course, a nice husband My problem is, I don not get attracted to many guys - they have to have certain qualities in order to fit the bill. Therefore, I've this fear of never finding my Mr. Right and having to settle down with Mr. Right Now. Not saying that my Mr. Right has to be a Superman or something. He should simply be an average guy whom I can trust and love. A good soul basically.

My question is, when will I find my Mr. Right? And what kind of love life am I likely to have.

Here is my birth chart:
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posted March 23, 2011 04:31 AM            

All leo's i know have this issue...one always wants to have his fun. He will do whatever it takes to string you along on his adventure, because he wants company, but at the end of the day, i twas his plan, an dit was his adventure - he always thinks he's doing right because he feels godly.

The other one would give you great advice, he would say what you should and shouldn't do, but then he would alway sfinish off the session with a long story of "I"

The opposite of leo is aquarius....aquarius is detachment......you may be dramaticaly detaching at the slightest sign of a bomb.....

your ascendant descendant axis should be balanced.....i guessed you were too much on leo, but being too much on aquarius is the same really....they loop into each other, but if you are in the center, then you are balanced....

in terms of your love relation, consider this possibility...now is a time to quit a bad habbit you never wanted, now is a time to take a class in yoga, now is a time to accelerate your career, now is a time to learn, or pay interest, now is a time to cultivate breathing, and unite the mind, body, and soul, and prepare for a more true union with another...

think of these things deeply and profoundly, for tapping into the soul will allow you to become more transpersonal...you do afterall have an aquarius ascendant....

relax...breath deeply, and learn the microcsomic orbit, and then learn some esoteric astrology...

learn that you areo n the verge of comming onto the fixed cross.....rather than the mutable cross which many will never reach...feel good about this

this will help you as capricorn sun can be very negative, yin, and with pisces planets, and a cancer moon, yin, your going to need to unify your body, mind, and soul to be truely positive....

alot of yin means you take in alot....you need to send it out healthily, you take in especialy alot of stinging remarks from others and hold these in your memory, you have trouble releasing them - saturn in scorpio.....yin planet with a yin sign...

posted March 23, 2011 04:38 AM            

these three things are very significant
1) will power
-a capricorn should be free of all addictions because they will use them as practical clutches, and in the long run are more prone to inertia, i.e. the longer you wait, the harder it will be so if you are a smoker quit now

2) Intelligence...it's not about being smarter than your friends, it's about stimulating your mind....you have to fin da way to bring your active imagination into your life practicaly.....and that's where

3) comes in, you need to be in some shape or form, an organizer over time, in other words, you need to see that the small seeds you plant and water on the regular are actually going to pay off, you need faith.

With those three things the sky is the limit as soon as you can honestly faithfuly feel that love will lead to wisdom and that you should act on your intuition as derived by loving..

posted March 23, 2011 04:40 AM            

No I do not work out unless I'm feeling anxious (emotionally). But now thinking of doing so

I do not know much about astrological intricacies such as house overlays and soul twins.

Hey Rajji, what you wrote brought a smile on my face and my heart as well. Will save what you said somewhere and refer to it whenever I feel down

posted March 23, 2011 05:56 AM            

My ascendant descendant axis needs to be balanced, I guess a lot of work needs to be done in that regard

I really liked your concept of uniting the mind, body, and soul - makes me wonder how is it done.

So a lot of yin there! Is that bad? Don't worry I'll unite my mind, body and soul to get rid of them.

Yeah stinging remarks do hurt sometimes, but only when they rhyme with insecurities within the self. Or, when they are coming from people I love - at least they make me think.

Hey venuscorpio86, thanks a lot for reading and posting!

posted March 23, 2011 06:00 AM            

If you are a dreamy person like me, we - the all dreamies - are doomed to lower the qualities or the "bill" we are looking for as you say unless you have the goddess luck of Jupiter. Otherwise disappointments are inevitable. But disappointments are good because experiences teach us not to see the world with pink glasses. Everybody will learn something in this life one way or another.

Dreamies have to learn the principles of "air" elements. Nobody tells you to stop dreaming - you can't anyway - but dream something else, not on your love life. If you wanna have dreams on your love life, then don't wait them to come true. Lower expectations = Happiness!, Higher expectations = Success or disappointment! so it is your choice where to risk it....

Life is all about conflicts. As you get committed someone, you are risking your life at the same time but gaining something good as well. But if you keep everybody at arm's lenght from you then you will never get disappointed but will never get "true" satisfaction. It is still your choice where to risk it again.

posted March 23, 2011 06:08 AM            

Thanks a lot for taking time out and posting. But how do I follow my north node? I know a few things about major planets and houses but yet to get a hang of things as far as asteroids are concerned. Can you please see my chart and tell me a bit about my north node.

posted March 23, 2011 06:17 AM            

First of all
Your mental and communicative abilities within a social framework need to be developed. Your love of independence and freedom will eventually give way to a more responsible, mature, well-educated, and adaptable personality. So settling down a little is the key. And your NN in Taurus definitely enhances the advice!!!You may want to have meaningful and intelligent exchanges with others, and you may want to teach others as well. But in order for you to succeed with these things, you need to learn that true learning and exchanges can only come when you listen to others. Learning to slow down is the key. you need to discover your own values, to depend on yourself and to establish your self-worth through your yown efforts, and to enjoy life's more srene moments without the unconscious need to create crises. Learning to define your goals based on your own values, and then to work toward achieving them in a patient manner, will help you achieve more happiness and inner balance.
Shortly yours is the path of information gathering and sharing. The more experiences you are open to, the better life will be.

By the way, Sun conjunct Jupiter aspect in your natal chart is a very lucky aspect.
Cited from cafeastrology;

posted March 23, 2011 06:17 AM            

What you are experiencing is what every woman feels at that age which is that "agenda".
I am not going to get all metaphysical and astrological on you. I personally don't think that's what you need right now. To wait for the cosmos to give you your just deserts. It tends not to particularly when you send out vagaries such as
"I just want a nice man"
It's probably sent you loads of suitable men but they are not what you want. Deny it at your peril.

You have about ten years to get it right.
Find the right man, pop out some children if you can't manage that then get a brilliant career so at least when people ask
"Why haven't you found anyone, why aren't you having children" you can at least reply
"Well I am focused on my career"

Oh those years ticking by. Each time you meet a man (I'm not singling you out, I am talking generally)we think
"Ok,a year to let him realise how fantastic I am, then a year to let us settle down then I should really be thinking about children (maybe two)that makes at least four years realistically which will make me
(insert blank) years old.
Phew! Still got time.

And then it all goes belly up.
It's like sliding to the bottom of a big sand hole and you have to begin the arduous climb up again, so you rest at the bottom for a bit before you begin but then you have to get your skates on cos you've lost a little time.
And time waits for no man.

This was not such a problem donkeys years ago. Society was such that you met a man. he would "court" you, if he wanted to sleep with you on a regular basis he married you, if he got you pregnant he would "have" to marry you.
Most courtships progressed swiftly through the stages to the inevitable outcome which was a family.
Not so nowadays.
We give it all away beforehand. We accept that men will sleep with us and we ask for nothing in return.
We hope they will love us. Sometimes they do, sometimes they stick around but will they willingly move onto the next phase?
Not really. No need. Not without a major push on our part.
And then when you have nothing left to excite with or promise a lot of them will find someone else offering excitement and promise..

So after all that long winded rambling this is what you need to do.
First of all turn all preconceptions backwards.
You don't have to wait for a man to have children. Scratch that off your agenda straight away.
If you want them have them. Make your own family. If a man comes along to help you out, great, if not, great.
You will have children, and they are better than any man.

If you do meet a guy that you like, do what you do normally. Make him adore you, show him some of the promise but let him know that there is lot's more in abeyance.
Then when he is at the peak of his longing and you nearly at yours...dump him.

When his shocked face asks you why say
"But where is it going?
And he will say "But I thought it was going somewhere???
And you say "Really? And where exactly is somewhere?
Cue blank stare to which you can respond "Exactly"

He will then have to think of "somewhere" to take it if he wants to keep you.

Do not be afraid to want what you want. You don't have to ever voice it but believe me you can show it.
Show it by actions. Don't put up with rubbish or excuses. Don't scream cry or beg or say "Why?
Quite firmly create what you want. Men like to be led to water. They are mostly too stupid to find their own way

posted March 24, 2011 05:38 AM            

I Love Jane from last 3 years......
We have decided to marry in this year but some problems regarding to his family takes place and her parents are not agreed for the marriage.What should i do.I try my level best but all in vein.Even Jane also want to marry me.I can't live with out her.So please sort my problem and check astrologically that is our marriage is possible or not.....

My name Shaun Mills DOB 14 march,am 27 years old and my home town is Alaska,Us and her details are Jane Smith,Dob 16 August.she is 25 and her birth place is Santa Monica California.
With regards
Shaun
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posted March 27, 2011 11:51 AM            

bunnies, your rational post made a lot of sense. Would you believe it if I say that it made me a lot less restless than what I was feeling when I posted the topic.